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toluleke: Y i no go chop wetin i use my money buy

Blendy77: Better hungry never catch am, if not nobody will tell him to make amend for food he spent his money on. My hubby tried it this xmas, I was just laughing becos I know he doesn't know how to cook. I just saw him walking up and down the kitchen to the sitting room after I'd packed evrything into the refrigerator. Out of pity I asked him what he wants to eat this morning and he said anythg. I was expecting to hear the same nothing he told me yesterday night.
All the same its not too good to starve them for long cos believe me, most of them will go out to eat instead staying hungry and the whole aim of making peace would have been defeated. Once in a while its good to make the first move and offer them food cos they are still our first Babies. If your husband develop ulcer na u go still suffer to help find solution.

sir_emperor: If your man refuse to eat your food. Madam think twice and beg him to eat Cos that's a means of loosing him to a single lady fast fast.

greatgod2012: as for me o, my own man never refuse to eat when there is disagreement. He calls me and request for his food, d only thing is that, there may not be jokes cracking, but will definately not reject d food and at d same time, makes sure d disagreement do not last beyond a day.

IYA NGBALI: that was how I fell into the hands of my second wife

IZUKWU: My father is an expert on that,i use to be angry with him over that, i know it hurts my mother when he does that but he began to over do it now sometimes even refusing to eat the ones cooked by my sisters.

Dudurex: The truth of the matter is, if you truly love your wife, and she loves you in return,the moment you refused to eat she will never be comfortable. In practice, If am not pleased with certain issue at home with my wife, I may not feel the urge to eat, this is not a pride or anything close to it.Although, I dont do this often,its when the issue gets me so pained, the solution to this is that,my wife too will refused to eat and this is how it ends bcs,I will resolve the matter when I feel she realize what she did wrong.At that moment, everything will return to normal as if we had not had any quarrel

doofanc: Some men, just to show how irritated they are, will not only reject the wife's food, but buy food outside and eat it in her presence. That i believe is the biggest insult.

I know a family where this happened, that d wife took the food and threw it away. The man almost got physical (he didn't, thankfully) but it was so serious that it took intervention of family members to settle them.

Ayee Idris: That's my husband M.O. It drives so mad when he refuses to eat after a disagreement. This is someone that loves to eat. Unfortunately for me, i have not reached the mindset where his refusal to eat doesn't bother me cos i worry about him, and i really hate to waste food.i wish we could just fight without the food rejection. Gats to settle with him so he can eat. I may have set a bad precedence by always ending the fight when he enters his hunger mode, but he is like my first born child. His health comes b4 my pride. Always thought it was peculiar to my hubby but i guess its a guy thing.

wazlee: food or no food..... i go de always laugh...

Son: Daddy, I fell in love & want to date this awesome girl
Father: "That's great son. Who is she?
Son: "It's Jennifer, the neighbor's daughter"
father: "Oh I wish you hadn't said that. I have to tell u
something son, but you must promise not to tell your mother. Jennifer is actually your sister."
The boy is naturally bummed out, but a couple of months
later,
Son: "Daddy, I fell in love again n she is even
hotter!"
Father: "That's great son, Who is she?" Son: "It's Angela, the other neighbor's daughter, Father: "Oh
I wish you hadn't said that. Angela is also your sister."
This went on couple of times and the son was so mad, he went straight to his mother crying.
Son: "Mum I am so mad at dad! I fell in love with
six girls but I can't date any of them because dad is their father!"
The mother hugshim affectionately and says:
"My love, you can date whoever you want.
Dont listen to him He isn't your father."
Son Fainted...!!!

Gud nyt

Ayee Idris: That's my husband M.O. It drives so mad when he refuses to eat after a disagreement. This is someone that loves to eat. Unfortunately for me, i have not reached the mindset where his refusal to eat doesn't bother me cos i worry about him, and i really hate to waste food.i wish we could just fight without the food rejection. Gats to settle with him so he can eat. I may have set a bad precedence by always ending the fight when he enters his hunger mode, but he is like my first born child. His health comes b4 my pride. Always thought it was peculiar to my hubby but i guess its a guy thing.

OCTAVO: I see it as a silly attitude when men refuse to eat just because they have a little misunderstaning with their wives. They purnish their stomach because of unnecessary pride.
Some starve themselves even for days. I just laugh whenever this happens. Will I have to beg you to eat again? Lailai!
Men are just too egocentric and always expect to be treated like some lord!
As for me, it‘s when he refuses to eat that i even scatter the house more with nice aroma.
I torment his stomach more but pride won‘t let him request for food.
Men, what is it with this your delibrate starvation?
Even if you eat outside, you still have to come to momma someday.
*Winks*

k2039: u sure say u don marry

Ayee Idris: That's my husband M.O. It drives so mad when he refuses to eat after a disagreement. This is someone that loves to eat. Unfortunately for me, i have not reached the mindset where his refusal to eat doesn't bother me cos i worry about him, and i really hate to waste food.i wish we could just fight without the food rejection. Gats to settle with him so he can eat. I may have set a bad precedence by always ending the fight when he enters his hunger mode, but he is like my first born child. His health comes b4 my pride. Always thought it was peculiar to my hubby but i guess its a guy thing.

larrymoore: Men are fake, next time, they should nt only abandon d food bt also go on sex strike.

paranorman: Lots of views/comments. From them,behold d conclusion and recommendation:
man don't eat because,
1. He's angry wit her,lost his apetite...
2. He's just starvin himself intentionally to get at her.
Recomendatns,
1. The 'hunger-strike' shouldn't b too long because
a. she mite loose/share him 2 another lady
b. She mite b sowin d seed 4 long-term quarels which might lead to a break-up/divorce.
Sumtin 4 women: evry man has a 'breakpoint'/patience-limit... When a man tells his friend he's 'tired',b'lieve me;he realy is. When he goes on the 'strike',resolve ASAP! Don't push him out,its d worst tin that can happen 2 a marriage. I know a woman suferin as a result of this kinda issues.. Paranorman say so!

fapcrook: He refused to eat on a saturday morning, drove out, bought food and ate it at home. I offered him lunch again, he refused. Same wt dinner. He ate outside and following day had diarrohea. Never tried that again. He apologised later since he knew I had tried my best. Men are babies. Mtchewwwww

OCTAVO:
Yeah, seriously, men are babies.
I can never condone an intimidation of not eating during quarrels.
How many times will one have to go over that on & on again?
Some men will now turn it to a way of life. Arrant crap!