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What Else Can We Do? by ade-young(m): 10:09am On Dec 27, 2012
A collegue of mine can to seek advise from me & i want u all put him tru.
His story goes thus;

He said when he was in sec. sch, he was tryin to woo a girl in their class but d girl was not giving him a positive response. So one day he made a plan to drop a love letter in her bag, which he did. Then d next day, d girl came to d class & displayed d love letter to d whole class & circulated it round d class. This made him feel embarssed & depressed but he didnt do anything, he took it upon himself until d last day of their final papers. Meanwhile he & two of his friends had already planned to revenge. so when d girl was going home, they had already laid ambush for her then he Molested her & they took off.

Later, when he was in d university. He joined d sch fellowship stuff & eventually became a born-again christain. Now he remembered what he did to d girl in past, he said he prayed to God 4 forgivness & also tryin to locate d girl so dat she can also 4give him but all his effort prove abortive. He later found her on facebook, he sent her a friend request & some messages but she didnt accept d request & did not reply any his message. Since she didnt reply him, he moved on wit his life.

Surprisingly for him, d girl attended his wedding which held on d 15th of this month & they saw each other but b4 d ceremony ended, he went to meet her & they talked. During their conversation, d lady told him his daughter is 12 yrs old (he was shocked)& she is married also. She told him d trauma & dejection she went tru because of foo:lish act. Meanwhile, he never knew dat it was his copper friend dat attended d weddin was d husband of dis lady until he saw dem 2geda wearing d same pattern of dress.

Now d problem is dat he doesnt knw wat to do, mayb he shuld involve his wife & his friend (copper) in dis matter. but i already told him he should take things slowly & inform his parent. Pls more advise 4 him d house.
¤ if any mistake or gbagaun dey my write up, no b my fault oo. Na my english teacher wey die cause am ¤
Thank u!
Re: What Else Can We Do? by k2039(m): 10:15am On Dec 27, 2012
A family meeting is necessary, his wife and parent have to know.

His wife shouldn't take it too serious with him, since it happened a long time ago.

If he doesn't tell his wife, she will find out later and it will only spell doom for him.
It's better she finds out from him, not from other sources.

The deed has been done, he has to face the consequence.

The evil that me do lives after them
Re: What Else Can We Do? by Brand_new(m): 10:16am On Dec 27, 2012
Story looks like a Nollywood script.
Re: What Else Can We Do? by chaircover: 10:16am On Dec 27, 2012
Sounds like a good nollywood script wink and I can almost picture mercy johnson as the girl and van vicker as the guy . . . .

It always amazes me that in a country of 180 million, people always seem to meet themselves years down the line. Yet I never seem to bump into the people that owe me money and ran away lipsrsealed

. . . .anyway, better to involve his wife ASAP because if she finds out before he has a chance to tell her, that marriage will never be the same again.
Re: What Else Can We Do? by Callotti: 10:53am On Dec 27, 2012
He should involve NO ONE till a DNA test has been performed FIRST! kiss

Not a family matter until the wife has been briefed! kiss
Re: What Else Can We Do? by greatgod2012(f): 12:00pm On Dec 27, 2012
Callotti: He should involve NO ONE till a DNA test has been performed FIRST! kiss

Not a family matter until the wife has been briefed! kiss

fully supported!

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