I lifted this up from somewhere. ......
1. Many African ladies will
end up
single for life because of media
exposure- it is so disheartening how a
lady will glue her eyes to a mobile
phone from morning till night, only to
raise it up to focus on television to watch
another celebrity entertainment channel.
Tell me, what else will dominate this
lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake
celebrity life being promoted on
television channels?
2. Many African ladies
now dislike
cooking and home chores just because
they have been totally brainwashed by
movies showcasing men playing the role
of women in a family, and due to
excessive exposure to modern media that
promotes gender-equality in a destructive
way that’s aimed at destroying the
unique African family setting that made
our previous African marriages
everlasting and envious to the westerns.
Now, with this attitude, how do you expect an
African man to desire to marry you
when he knows he is only buying more
headache and trouble than helper for
himself?
3. Excess makeup turns most
decent
and serious-minded men off- if you
have observed, you will discover that
most men dislike excessive makeup, and
more don’t even like it at all; reason they
often times encourage their true loved ones to
do away with it is because it speaks ill
of a lady even though so many men
will applaud and complement you for
looking like an Egyptian mummy. A
slight makeup is okay; but if you are
out for marriage, try always to look simple and
natural, it will attract better
men, decent and serious-minded, except
you are still living in your high school
life and not thinking towards marriage.
4. Stop giving your number to every Tom, Dick & Harry! No man would
want to propose marriage to a lady
who's always on the phone, talking and
laughing, making unserious calls. You may
not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as
one, and will likely flee at the
slightest chance or disagreement.
5. You don’t
bring any value into the
life of men you date or are dating-
because your best friend married without
contributing anything to the man that
finally married her, doesn’t mean it
will work for you that way. Think, work towards
equipping yourself so
that you can be a value and also add
value to his life to convince him that you
are worth committing to. Adding value
to his life isn’t all about giving him money,
or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being
his best friend, helping him
attain his goals in life, lending him
moral, mental and spiritual support, and
by not just being a liability that only
brings requests and problems to be
solved.
6. Your friends run your life- how do
you expect to find a husband when you
still allow your clique of friends to be
dictating which man you meet is worthy
of your love and which is not? When
will you wake up and face the fact that those
your best friends even though they
cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry
before them or to marry the better man?
7. You give everything out when
dating- As a single lady who has not
been taken to the altar, you need to
reserve some things for your husband to
be, especially your body. Respect it and
preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed
to marry to get certain things or
privileges they had been constantly
denied while being single. Such
privileges include and not limited to:
constant sex and companionship, good
food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single
man gets even the best and of
course more of constant sex, good food
and excellent home-keeping more than
his married counterparts, so tell me how
the hell you want him to desire to marry
you when you have given him virtually
everything he desires from a wife
while being his girlfriend? And the
most painful part of it all is that he
knows that you are prepared to cut down
on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping,
etc once he marries you, so why won't he
want you to remain his girlfriend
for life?
8. You package yourself wrongly- in
your attempt to look sexy, adorable and
maybe appealing to guys, you have
derailed from appealing to appalling.
In fact you look more whorish than
modest; more distractive than attractive, and
more disgusting than adorable. Your
dressing style determines who gets
attracted to you most times. If you dress
high school, only high school-
thinking guys will be attracted to you,
and if you dress excessively sexy and
provocative, only randy men will come
to you for urgent satisfaction of their
immediate sexual urge, so don’t be fooled
by media hyping of certain kinds of
dressing, they are meant for certain set
of ladies you wouldn't like to be associated
with, be careful. Remember,
not all clothes that look sexy are good
for a seriously searching for a soul
mate single lady.
9. You lack manners,
character, wisdom
and good home upbringing-
definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’,
‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many
men; both the good, and the bad, but
your inner beauty, your character and manner
are the things that will
determine whether any of those men
would stay or run after accomplishing
their evil missions. In other words, do
away with nagging, being possessive,
challenging men in negative ways, the
mentality of ‘what a man can do a
woman can do better’, is a lie the Devil has
used to deceive and destroy so many
ladies today, please do away with it.

It looks like a lady bashing post, but anyway, ladies glean from it nevertheless.

Hmmmm alright

Still beats me tho as to why men think all of us are desperate to walk down the altar. Really, some of us could care less...

Kai!
I wish I had learned all these before I got married!
Marrying an African man is like withering away in a 'prison yard'!
If I could turn back time. . .

Coming to this AMERICA has opened my eyes and 'nyansh' I swia. . . FOR THE BETTER!