My igbo boyfriend of two years thinks that I cheated. Some friends of his told him lies about seeing me out somewhere. I honestly did not cheat and I haven't cheated the entire time we have been together. I tried to explain that I did not do anything over and over and have even did some investigation myself and provided it to him to prove that I am innocent. He's ignoring me and I do not know what to do. People have always tried to break us up. I do not understand why he's listening to the lies now. I love him very much but I do not know what will get his attention or make him believe that I am tell the truth....what should i do

Why did you put it in this form: MY IGBO BOYFRIEND?

Madam, if ur so called bofy has problems wiv trust, it best u give him space. Haba! No point egging ur innocence on somebody dats a believer of hear 'n' say. Am sure u no wen mistrust comes in, love goes out. Engage ur brain abeg! No time!

But why why why!....do u av to state his tribe?

Bacteriocin: Why did you put it in this form: MY IGBO BOYFRIEND?

my thoughts exactly...

Idowuogbo: Madam, if ur so called bofy has problems wiv trust, it best u give him space. Haba! No point egging ur innocence on somebody dats a believer of hear 'n' say. Am sure u no wen mistrust comes in, love goes out. Engage ur brain abeg! No time!

The way you stated it as if it's so easy haba! don't you see the lady here is in love?..give him space just like that? relationship of 2yrs? engage her brain at were?..hahaha! it's seen your in a badmood today.
1:Op hemm have you seat him down to have one on one chat?
2:Ask him to invite those of his friends were as you will be around for them to tell you infront of your 'lgbo guy' as u tag it who and where they saw you with..
3: Then ask him this!:ls there another lady? b/c 2yrs relationship l wonder what both of you are waiting for...
But wait oo! those of his friends don't underestimate their power that's why you need to be nice to them..handle them diplomatically..

binger: my thoughts exactly...

My thought as well

chikeorji123:

The way you stated it as if it's so easy haba! don't you see the lady here is in love?..give him space just like that? relationship of 2yrs? engage her brain at were?..hahaha! it's seen your in a badmood today.
1:Op hemm have you seat him down to have one on one chat?
2:Ask him to invite those of his friends were as you will be around for them to tell you infront of your 'lgbo guy' as u tag it who and where they saw you with..
3: Then ask him this!:ls there another lady? b/c 2yrs relationship l wonder what both of you are waiting for...
But wait oo! those of his friends don't underestimate their power that's why you need to be nice to them..handle them diplomatically..

Bad mood? Na! Dude, read properly, according to d poster.... pips bin trying to break them up and d so called bofy paves way for third parties to brainwash him wiv lies dats obviously causing a strain on d relationship. He has problems wiv trust IMO!

yorke1:
My thought as well

Wonderful! so many unanimous thoughts

chikeorji123:

The way you stated it as if it's so easy haba! don't you see the lady here is in love?..give him space just like that? relationship of 2yrs? engage her brain at were?..hahaha! it's seen your in a badmood today.
1:Op hemm have you seat him down to have one on one chat?
2:Ask him to invite those of his friends were as you will be around for them to tell you infront of your 'lgbo guy' as u tag it who and where they saw you with..
3: Then ask him this!:ls there another lady? b/c 2yrs relationship l wonder what both of you are waiting for...
But wait oo! those of his friends don't underestimate their power that's why you need to be nice to them..handle them diplomatically..

Absolutely needless. You so on a long thing.

Idowuogbo:
Bad mood? Na! Dude, read properly, according to d poster.... pips bin trying to break them up and d so called bofy paves way for third parties to brainwash him wiv lies dats obviously causing a strain on d relationship. He has problems wiv trust IMO!

@bolded, just my thoughts

Idowuogbo:
Bad mood? Na! Dude, read properly, according to d poster.... pips bin trying to break them up and d so called bofy paves way for third parties to brainwash him wiv lies dats obviously causing a strain on d relationship. He has problems wiv trust IMO!

U jump into by saying the OP should give space and her guy have a problem of TRUST yeah u have point! but l don't think such suggestion goes well with the Op or does it?.. We need to put ourself in her shoes here..2yrs,love and emotions are at stake here!..

Smh

Bacteriocin: Why did you put it in this form: MY IGBO BOYFRIEND?

@op please answer the question

chikeorji123:

U jump into by saying the OP should give space and her guy have a problem of TRUST yeah u have point! but l don't think such suggestion goes well with the Op or does it?.. We need to put ourself in her shoes here..2yrs,love and emotions are at stake here!..

Pardon? U say?

IGBO BOYFRIEND?

ok, switch to the yoruba boyfriend.

you have some fundamental issues.

Bacteriocin: Why did you put it in this form: MY IGBO BOYFRIEND?

I put it because I know that some tribes behave differently in certain situations.

So you mean someone from another tribe can not behave like that?
I'm a yoruba guy but I tell you: his behaviour has nothing to do with his tribe but who he really is

amaramaq: My igbo boyfriend

how are the other ones behaving?