I checked the genotype of my acclaimed son two good times in highly reputable laboratories, the result is always AS while repeated check of mine and his mother was AA. An attempt to do DNA test proved abortive 'cos of the cost. Also i feel it's a waste of resources 'cos many experts said it was not possible for an AS to come from two confirmed AA. The boy's facial resemblance was 90% that of the mother. I love the boy but when i think of all these, i feel bad: as if i'm wasting my time with a family that will soon split up. It happened(separation) at last in some few months ago. I never told anybody about the test result but she broadcast it by herself, and she intentionally packed her load out of my house. What do you think i should do concerning the child as i still love the boy?

Are you serious at all? What do you want to do with the boy? If you guys have confirmed his genotype is different from yours and your wife goes ahead to pack out of your house of her own free will then what else do you want? You want to raise a child that is not yours? Her packing out herself is already an acceptance of guilt. So thank your God, u didn't end up spending your entire life raising a bastar.d!!!!!!

Royal Roy: Are you serious at all? What do you want to do with the boy? If you guys have confirmed his genotype is different from yours and your wife goes ahead to pack out of your house of her own free will then what else do you want? You want to raise a child that is not yours? Her packing out herself is already an acceptance of guilt. So thank your God, u didn't end up spending your entire life raising a bastar.d!!!!!!

. That sounds africa of u, in as much as he new d boy is not his he can easily adopt him just for d love he had for him.

me, i nor understand you o! it seems your story isn't complete.

you're both AA and child AS, and you cannot do DNA cos of cost and what you were told. how then do you ascertain the child's paternity?

I never told anybody about the test result but she broadcast it by herself, and she intentionally packed her load out of my house.

is she saying you lied about your genotype, hence her leaving? or she left out of guilt?

What do you think i should do concerning the child as i still love the boy?

the same child you doubt his paternity, who makes you feel bad as if you're wasting your time?

your mind is already telling you the child isn't yours. until a DNA test confirms otherwise, you'll continue to see your wife as a cheat. so, do the needful.

amyen: . That sounds africa of u, in as much as he new d boy is not his he can easily adopt him just for d love he had for him.

I cannot see any reason for him not to adopt the boy but I'm afraid the real/biological father might emerge in the future to claim his child.
Adoption would only be possible if it's backed up bY some form of documentation and in this case the child's real biological father is not yet confirmed and it obviously isn't OP who fathers the boy from his Genotype because two AA's cannot produce an AS so OP has to thread carefully.

What do you mean by "Do",your wife just confirmed your worst fear,and you are here asking what to do again?

Are you impotent,or imbecille to father another child,or just too old to re-marry?
God just helped u to push away your Jezebellic wife out.
Send the boy out to the mother's place,and get yourself together by starting afresh,though not easy. cos if I were you,I can't afford to father a bastaerd.

Yomieluv:

Are you impotent,or imbecille to father another child,or just too old to re-marry?

Send the boy out to the mother's place,I can't afford to father a bastaerd.

Thank you my brother! My tots exactly.

@amyen...you really think its "African" to say the fact? He has been decieved somehow by the woman....if he is really sure about the genotype tests.
And somehow if he doesn't think African and goes ahead to adopt another man's son, think of 20yrs down the road and no matter what papers he thinks he's got, the real father will show up someday or even the child wl demand to be with his biological father!

Its not being African, its about being realistic with your decisions

d baby is not yours obviously & ur issue is so complicated, if u dnt want d marriage again, u ve to divorce properly & u let all family members know all that had transipired. For d baby, its really a tough one b'cos of d love u ve 4 him, just continue to take care of him but definetely d mum will come back 4 him someday & u ve no claim on him, accept the reality bros. Its just painful, some ladies dnt realise d harm in what they do.

YarisMan: I checked the genotype of my acclaimed son two good times in highly reputable laboratories, the result is always AS while repeated check of mine and his mother was AA. An attempt to do DNA test proved abortive 'cos of the cost. Also i feel it's a waste of resources 'cos many experts said it was not possible for an AS to come from two confirmed AA. The boy's facial resemblance was 90% that of the mother. I love the boy but when i think of all these, i feel bad: as if i'm wasting my time with a family that will soon split up. It happened(separation) at last in some few months ago. I never told anybody about the test result but she broadcast it by herself, and she intentionally packed her load out of my house. What do you think i should do concerning the child as i still love the boy?

Bros...
The child isn't yours.
She left your house with HER child.

All you can do is pick up the broken pieces of your life and MOVE on. I don't know how old the boy is but if he's younger than 3 -4 years, trust me he'll forget about you in due course unless something dramatic happens in future. The only thing you can do is promise yourself that if he comes looking for you in the future, be good to him. C'est fini.

Also i feel it's a waste of resources 'cos many experts said it was not possible for an AS to come from two confirmed AA. The boy's facial resemblance was 90% that of the mother. I love the boy but when i think of all these, i feel bad: as if i'm wasting my time with a family that will soon split up.

I-G-B-A-N-D-A!!!!
DNA go put MANY Nigerian women for trobu I tellya!
Mu che che che che che che che!
YOU ARE NOT THE FATHER OF THE CHILD!
Period!

OP. . .Please, take heart.
NIGERIAN COUPLES HAVE STARTED GIVIN BIRTH TO WHITE INFANTS!
The HOLY GHOST DID H-IT!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=npg_rXMaOoU

Please accept. EVEN THE HOLY GHOST SAVED GOD FROM OMNI-IMPOTENCE AND BARRENESS! He could create a world in 6 days. . . rested on the 7th. . . BUT COULD NOT PHOCK TO GIF WOMAN BELLE!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_jiHlkI1A4

Am sorry about your fate. But what if you or your wife is actually AS. I have seen a case where a man thought all along that he is AA only for him to have an SS son and start accusing his wife of infidelity. But later on through another genotype testing it was confirmed that the man and his wife are actually AS.
If you doubt is this strong, what wrong will a DNA test do. Rather it will actually confirm your doubt, and seal the fate of your wife.
I will say, do the DNA test and put your mind at rest.

The boy's clearly not yours and your wife has gone a step further to confirm it by moving out of your house.
Your cannot even have any relationship with the child considering the mother's recent action.
Let the boy go.
Might not be simple but its the best option.

How can a 'barren' man let go of a son he always wished for?
Life is tough. . . !

What do you think i should do concerning the child as i still love the boy?

Your wife has exposed your fertility issues!

It is obvious you are NOT REPRODUCTIVELY COMPARTIBLE.
NOR LET THE REAL PAPA COME CATCH YOU O!
You berra go and get YOUR OWN!

Go and save some GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD 'akamu' and inject another woman. SIMPLE!
You wanno love pickin wey woman don take disgrace you?
The height of desperation I swia!

MAN? WHERE IS YOUR PRIDE?
Abi you nor get shame?

Jellita: How can a 'barren' man let go of a son he always wished for?
Life is tough. . . !




Your wife has exposed your fertility issues!

It is obvious you are NOT REPRODUCTIVELY COMPARTIBLE.
NOR LET THE REAL PAPA COME CATCH YOU O!
You berra go and get YOUR OWN!

Go and save some GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD 'akamu' and inject another woman. SIMPLE!
You wanno love pickin wey woman don take disgrace you?
The height of desperation I swia!

MAN? WHERE IS YOUR PRIDE?
Abi you nor get shame?

The way you talk many at times does not show maturity.
Anyways, carry go na u sabi

@gambriosa:
Please accept. EVEN THE HOLY GHOST SAVED GOD FROM OMNI-IMPOTENCE AND BARRENESS! He could create a world in 6 days. . . rested on the 7th. . . BUT COULD NOT PHOCK TO GIF WOMAN BELLE!


Very expensive and uncalled for statement, may God forgive you.
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lucabraski:

Please accept. EVEN THE HOLY GHOST SAVED GOD FROM OMNI-IMPOTENCE AND BARRENESS! He could create a world in 6 days. . . rested on the 7th. . . BUT COULD NOT PHOCK TO GIF WOMAN BELLE!

@gambriosa:

Very expensive and uncalled for statement, may God forgive you.


Wetin you nor believe in . . . CAN NEFA NEFA FIT TO DESTROY YOU!
I don't do religions/philosophies/dogmas of SUPERSTITIOUS DISPENSATIONS!
Where did you see my beloved 'Gambrosia' huh?
There! Lemme 'epp you to clean up that ya post!

desertboom:
The way you talk many at times does not show maturity.
Anyways, carry go na u sabi

You hia say I dey campaign for poster of family seSSSSSSion 2013?
Why must you take life seriously when you ought not to?
This is the h-internet o!
Relax abeg!
Life is not that serious on NL. . . NEVER!
Nothing is too serious or off limits for a goooooooooooood laugh!
The BEST CURE FOR DEPRESSED POSTERS!


Please, lerrus hia your OWN supplications! WITH MATURITY!
My job is to 'toughen' them up!

You should confirm in a good clinic your gynotype again.

My own experience was that my medicals before joining my former company revealed i was blood group of B+ . I carried this in my ID card for 4yrs.

Then i changed to another company, the asked if i knew my blood group, i still maintaiined B+.
However, when i travelled out, i fell sick and went for emergency treatment, when they asked my blood group, i told them i had forgotten, so they did another one and came with A+.


I couldnt believe that, after my treatment, i went to another lab. to confirm and they told me A+.

What am saying is that try another clinic(If possible 3) to confirm your gynotyoe before taking any harsh decision.

You started a thread in 2009 that you had doubts about your son’s paternity. Twenty two months later you were making enquiries about a sperm boosting drug. So from your previous threads I can deduce that you have male factor infertility (I may be completely off). Are you grasping on because you truly love your wife and son/stepson or you are just desperate and want to maintain the status quo. This is the second separation within months and it seems your wife already put your business out there: self-preservation or she wanted to shame/humiliate/embarrass you. Her actions have spoken louder than words and you need time alone to think, do not make/take decisions based on emotions and fear. If you can, go and see a urologist and a fertility specialist and sort your medical issues out. Life is too short and should not be spent, begging undeserving people to remain in your life. Your marriage may be over and your wife holds the entire cards, if the boy is not yours, visitation may not be possible. And that might be your greatest pain/fear, your child (you have been there since day one) taken away, my prayers are with you.

Jellita:

You hia say I dey campaign for poster of family seSSSSSSion 2013?
Why must you take life seriously when you ought not to?
This is the h-internet o!
Relax abeg!
Life is not that serious on NL. . . NEVER!
Nothing is too serious or off limits for a goooooooooooood laugh!
The BEST CURE FOR DEPRESSED POSTERS!


Please, lerrus hia your OWN supplications! WITH MATURITY!
My job is to 'toughen' them up!

Understood, carry go but remember say life nah jeje

thatchic: You started a thread in 2009 that you had doubts about your son’s paternity. Twenty two months later you were making enquiries about a sperm boosting drug. So from your previous threads I can deduce that you have male factor infertility (I may be completely off). Are you grasping on because you truly love your wife and son/stepson or you are just desperate and want to maintain the status quo. This is the second separation within months and it seems your wife already put your business out there: self-preservation or she wanted to shame/humiliate/embarrass you. Her actions have spoken louder than words and you need time alone to think, do not make/take decisions based on emotions and fear. If you can, go and see a urologist and a fertility specialist and sort your medical issues out. Life is too short and should not be spent, begging undeserving people to remain in your life. Your marriage may be over and your wife holds the entire cards, if the boy is not yours, visitation may not be possible. And that might be your greatest pain/fear, your child (you have been there since day one) taken away, my prayers are with you.

sincerely, with this your "digging -down"......you have actually helped d op to solve his problem, it now depends on him if he is ready to do d right thing or want to form a pity party all around himself.
On behalf of d op, i say, thank you.

@op, read thatchic's post over and over again, and do d right thing and you can as well add DNA test,.... may God help you.

I appreciate you all for your contributions, both the advisers and the abusers. You've all made sense. @thatchic.,,.,.,thumb up.
I've picked up my life and moved on. Actually, she confessed that she packed her things 'cos she hope i was going to disgrace her openly after the discovery and her family wanted a reunion which i seriously refused.
Do you know what helped the whole matter? I was seriously warned by a man of God(a prophet)that her come-back will be a sinister experience for me, so you know Obedience is better than sacrifice. I have moved on. Thank you all.

Eeyah!
Very touching response.
My heart just melted.

Jellita: Eeyah!
Very touching response.
My heart just melted.

Which heart calloti?

OP, wish u the best!

Mtchewwwwwwwwwww!

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