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8 Tips To Deal Withyour Boyfriend’s Flirty Girl Pal by simdam500(m): 10:04am On Jan 10, 2013
So, your boyfriend has a possessive girl pal and you don’t know what to do when she intrudes and takes his attention away from you. Possibly, you fear that she may exert her influence on him to your detriment. There are certain ploys you can set in place to get rid of the unwanted intruder. There are some things you can do to get your boyfriend all to yourself.
1. Give her the benefit at first
Maybe she doesn’t find anything wrong in chatting with your boyfriend; she maythink that you’ll accept her as a friend just as your boyfriend does. Or, maybe she’s trying to be nice to you and trying to get to know you better since you’re her friend’s special girl.
2. Speak to your guy
If she flirts with him using both, words and body language, in a way that definitely amounts to tantalizing behavior, try telling your boyfriend not to meet her because you don’t like the way she behaves with him despite knowing thatyou’re his special girl.
3. Confront her
If she doesn’t stop flirting shamelessly with your guy, tell her that you don’t like the way she behaves with him and it’s not right, especially as she considers herself to be a good friend of his. Reason with her calmly, not aggressively or loudly.
4. Avoid loud, angry outbursts
Fighting loudly and getting mad at your boyfriend in public places will show you ina bad light, and other girls may feel sorry for him and try to console him. You may end up contending with more than one unwelcome influences!
5. Try laughing it off
You can tell her that you feelshe’s got a crush on your guy and laugh loudly at this. When you joke about this, it may put the other girl off, asyour laughter will demonstrate your confidencein your guy and being made conscious in this manner, she may withdraw.
6. Get ready for a fight
Should she persist in flirting outrageously with your guy, be ready to fight for him. If she’s unwilling to listen to reason, get ready to make alast ditch effort even if you have to indulge in calling hernames and be downright rude.
7. Try ‘gossip’ to help you
The next time you both are interrupted by her, sit pleasantly for some time making polite conversation and then go to the ladies room. Spend a few minutes there. Later when you are alone with your boyfriend, tell him in a low and cautious undertone that your friends think that he has a crush on his girl pal, because he’s always happy with her when she stages her act. This could very well put him off and he may go out of the way to avoid his girl pal in the future.
8. A calculated risk
If he still doesn’t pay heed to you, you can take anotherboy into confidence– someone who knows him well– and try to flirt with thatboy in the presence of your guy. This will not be appreciated by your guy; it’lldefinitely make him jealous and, in a perverse manner, he may understand how you feel about his special friend, and will move away from her.

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Re: 8 Tips To Deal Withyour Boyfriend’s Flirty Girl Pal by Nobody: 9:50pm On Jan 10, 2013
Nice,educative and inspiring.i learnt one or two things from protecting my man from female vampires and shameless tarts cheesy
Re: 8 Tips To Deal Withyour Boyfriend’s Flirty Girl Pal by mideeniafe(f): 6:20pm On Jan 11, 2013
After trying out #2, if she still carries on with her flirting and he does nothing about it. There's absolutely no need to stress myself. Going straight to #8. I still love him but he'll learn better that way.
Re: 8 Tips To Deal Withyour Boyfriend’s Flirty Girl Pal by Nobody: 7:58pm On Jan 11, 2013
9) after all this signs and the bîtch refuses to let go, show her an AK47 you bought especially for her or threaten her with boko harm...thank me later

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