Of all words being said to the
opposite sex,I've come to
discover how important these 3
are
>I have feelings for you
>I love you
>Will you marry me?
These are 3 different but
harmonizing sentences in that 1
leads to 2 and 2 leads to 3,but
when 1 is been expressed,the
reciever should be sensitive
enough to desern cos feelings
can be deceiving in that many
people can have feelings for
just one person at a time,cos
our feelings as human is drawn
to people we admire
somethings in them.Hence
feelings is not enough.I LOVE YOU. Since marriage is the
end point,I'll talk about love with
respect to marriage. Some people
are only meant to be loved as
friends (the pheleo type of
love),not as spouse,hence you
need to be sensitive enough to
differentiate who is meant to be
loved as friend and who is meant
to be loved as spouse.
And lastly,'WILL YOU MARRY ME?'
Thinking about this,I used to
wonder why so many ladies
don't really like responding
immediately,cos you two must
have being profesing your love
to each other in the past,and
why can't you just give him your
words,not until now that I realise
that for ladies,(I mean the
serious and responsible
ones),marriage means total
submission,it also means giving
your totality to a man,and if you
think you can't do these two and
many other things that come
with the package (marriage) for
the man in question,I'll suggest
you don't say YES. And for young
men,(the responsibles also)
marriage means loving to death,it
also means caring till your last
drop falls,and if you have a
doubt about doing these and
many more for the lady you
claim to love,I'll suggest you
don't ask the QUESTION.
Now,here is the most important
part of this blog,most times we
seem to look up to God when
We're faced with making
important decisions,since
rely,this issue (marriage) is not
an exclusion of such decisions.
You need God to make the right
choice. Someone may want to
ask why do I need God? Well,I'll
say you need Him as the back
bone of your home,so you need
to inform Him,such that when
the storm comes,you'll have
someone to run to,cos He already
knows about your home.......
Peace......

*flounders for a second...decides to say nada*

I have missed my period