dammytosh:

Don't worry, plenty gullible female nairalanders will be willing to contact you to beat your mum and watch you take her to the hotel and pay her bills.

Your mum knew how weak your Dad was and that is why she could beat your grand ma. I pity you and hoppe your Dad does not get beaten soon. cos there is law of Karma.

You don't beat anybody for any reason , get her arrested. Stop celebrating your mum's disgraceful act and your Dad's clueless response.

ozodigboo: Well...... this is a very sensitive topic, and unfortunately happens often in this country.

1. I would never support my fellow guy who beats up a woman _ whether girlfriend, wife, sister, mother etc no matter what.

2. However, i would also, never support someone LEAVING HER MATRIMONIAL HOME to go and harass someone else in HIS/HER OWN MATRIMONIAL HOME,whether brother, sister etc .

3. Whatever reason is put up, [ 1 ] and [ 2 ] can never be justified.

4. We men must learn how to manage our homes.

donchris369: Wow, beat my sister because of my wife even to the extent of dripping blood. Wow... When we were struggling together from childhood, going to primary school, secondary school and even university, pulling things through together where was my wife. When we were drinking garri together in our struggling days in a very harsh condition, where was my wife. When people were making carricature of my family, even taunting us where was my wife. Now am a made man, rich and get myself a wife, i should now turn against my family. Beat my elder sister for what? If i didnt make it in life, will my wife look my way at all, but, i guess my sister will still put effort to make me a made man. Op did you say my elder sister? my elder sister is probably a senior to my wife, so why should my wife say nasty things about her to disrespect her? Wow.... I love my wife but, i will never turn against my family because of her. GOD forbid bad thing. Oya, i know all the married women in the house will want to take on me now. But, ask yourselves if your junior brother you sufferred for beats you up because of his wife, no matter the reason how you will take it.

dayokanu: I dont know whatever happened oo But no one would beat my wife to the extent of dripping blood and go free

Especially a man beat my wife and drips blood? If it was another woman I might free them but another man?

Ka maari ni Paul wi.

donchris369: Wow, beat my sister because of my wife even to the extent of dripping blood. Wow... When we were struggling together from childhood, going to primary school, secondary school and even university, pulling things through together where was my wife. When we were drinking garri together in our struggling days in a very harsh condition, where was my wife. When people were making carricature of my family, even taunting us where was my wife. Now am a made man, rich and get myself a wife, i should now turn against my family. Beat my elder sister for what? If i didnt make it in life, will my wife look my way at all, but, i guess my sister will still put effort to make me a made man. Op did you say my elder sister? my elder sister is probably a senior to my wife, so why should my wife say nasty things about her to disrespect her? Wow.... I love my wife but, i will never turn against my family because of her. GOD forbid bad thing. Oya, i know all the married women in the house will want to take on me now. But, ask yourselves if your junior brother you sufferred for beats you up because of his wife, no matter the reason how you will take it.

disloman: when u nee children,where was ur sister?where is ur sista when u were lonely,who keeps u company?where was ur sista when u want 2 av sex or keep ur bed warm?nao i knw dat u r d patron 2 d fo.ol association of nigeria

Okija_juju:

I was gonna reply the guy, but its obvious that he is a juvenile delinquent (or atleast reasons like one).. I was waiting for the part of his comment that would read 'WHERE WAS MY WIFE WHEN I FHUCKED THE SHIIT OUT OF MY SISTER EVERY NIGHT AND GAVE BIRTH TO ALL OUR KIDS and WE STARTED A FAMILY TOGETHER'...


Its obvious to me now why many people are still single.. Its not money, its obvious that they dont understand the commitment required for marriage or they do and cant meet up..

Okija_juju:

I was gonna reply the guy, but its obvious that he is a juvenile delinquent (or atleast reasons like one).. I was waiting for the part of his comment that would read 'WHERE WAS MY WIFE WHEN I FHUCKED THE SHIIT OUT OF MY SISTER EVERY NIGHT AND GAVE BIRTH TO ALL OUR KIDS and WE STARTED A FAMILY TOGETHER'...


Its obvious to me now why many people are still single.. Its not money, its obvious that they dont understand the commitment required for marriage or they do and cant meet up..

Na people like this guy dey go throw out a widow and her childrenn out of their brothers house when ehn die...

Afam4eva: It actually depends on how you want to look at it...

That may not be the first time that the man is beating his sister. It must have been something that he does while still growing up with his family. So, he must not consider it a bid deal. At least it's better than beating his wife because his sister may understand and forgive but his wife may never forgive.

From the post, it shows that the man was trying to settle the quarrel that was going to lead to a fight and the sister didn't want any of it and probably(i said probably) wanted to rush his wife and he had to block her and probably(i said probably) she insisted and he blocked her and it ensued in a fight between the man and his sister and not necessarily that the man beat his sister like the post suggests.

It's really difficult taking sides when your family and your spouse quarell, so i think it's imperative that families learn to mind their business to some extent when their ward is married to someoneelse because even the bible says it that "A man shall leave his mother and father and cling to his wife". If they think the wife he married is not ideal, i guess it's too late cos they're already married. The best they can do is to advise the man and hope he considers divorcing her and taking another wife. But being physical and verbally confrontational is a no-no.

donchris369: Wow, beat my sister because of my wife even to the extent of dripping blood. Wow... When we were struggling together from childhood, going to primary school, secondary school and even university, pulling things through together where was my wife. When we were drinking garri together in our struggling days in a very harsh condition, where was my wife. When people were making carricature of my family, even taunting us where was my wife. Now am a made man, rich and get myself a wife, i should now turn against my family. Beat my elder sister for what? If i didnt make it in life, will my wife look my way at all, but, i guess my sister will still put effort to make me a made man. Op did you say my elder sister? my elder sister is probably a senior to my wife, so why should my wife say nasty things about her to disrespect her? Wow.... I love my wife but, i will never turn against my family because of her. GOD forbid bad thing. Oya, i know all the married women in the house will want to take on me now. But, ask yourselves if your junior brother you sufferred for beats you up because of his wife, no matter the reason how you will take it.

honeric01: And most of the people here are married o, yet supporting a man beating his elder sister.

Since the wife already locked herself indoors, how would the elder sister have access to beating her up?

So to show you're a man and matured enough, you've to physically beat up your elder sister? No other way to prove you're matured and man enough?

The op said she was outside the gate, what possible beatings would she had done to the brother's wife that's in the house?


Karma is a bitch, that wife's going to become a punching bag in no distant time.

sexybash:
nice comment you deserve a hug

Okija_juju:

The details of the OPs story are sketchy!!

But I see no reason for KARMA to play any part here.. Na she carry her leg go find trouble... SHIKINA!!

honeric01:


the wife's now a puching bag in the making. Take it or leave.

The story is sketchy, yet you totally supported the man beating up his elder sister to the extent of bleeding blood? Hmmm most Nigerians are aluu in the making.

The last time i layed hands on a female was in SS1 and never am i ever going to tour that part again.

The ability to shut a woman up without physical abuse is what makes you a better/matured man.

gudugudumeje: the thing don pass ordinary! Na juju don de work firm on the man. If she want him go kill him papa ad mama he for go do am. Na so women juju de wakawaka work[i][/i]

2buff: I'm sure the women and their manpurses can whine and moan about how he could have been a better man.
This, however, is no cover or substitute to how the sister could have also been a better woman.

As a man, someone wants to beat your wife, cusses you out (possibly using words like "weak dickless f00l". ) and then gives you a hot slap on top it, in your own freaking house, after possibly a long day at work!...Oh yes, it is very easy to judge on your armchairs. Hypocrites.

WAAAAAATTT!!!!!!!

2buff: I'm sure the women and their manpurses can whine and moan about how he could have been a better man.
This, however, is no cover or substitute to how the sister could have also been a better woman.

As a man, someone wants to beat your wife, cusses you out (possibly using words like "weak dickless f00l". ) and then gives you a hot slap on top it, in your own freaking house...Oh yes, it is very easy to judge on your armchairs. Hypocrites.

honeric01:

you need to think well bro and not be hasty in acting, read the post again.

Was there any physical contact between the sister and wife?

Beating up your elder sister because of an intent? Gosh, i can't believe what i'm reading.

Okija_juju:

Funny I have never laid a hand on a woman ever in my life...

But like I said, I suport the man. If a woman left her house, her home, her family to go to another mans house and harrass his wife.. ANYTHING SHE SEE, MAKE SHE TAKE!!! Period!!

The ability or inability for a man to shut a woman up without physical abuse is neither here nor there.. I am a strong believer in violence. It is the last resort in conflict resolution. People may not like it, but it works all the same. That woman was his elder sister which gives her the height and natural authority advantage. She prolly thought she could bully him like she prolly did when they were kids.. Sadly, she forgot that he was now a grown, married man..

SHE GOT WHAT SHE DESERVED!!

donchris369: Wow, beat my sister because of my wife even to the extent of dripping blood. Wow... When we were struggling together from childhood, going to primary school, secondary school and even university, pulling things through together where was my wife. When we were drinking garri together in our struggling days in a very harsh condition, where was my wife. When people were making carricature of my family, even taunting us where was my wife. Now am a made man, rich and get myself a wife, i should now turn against my family. Beat my elder sister for what? If i didnt make it in life, will my wife look my way at all, but, i guess my sister will still put effort to make me a made man. Op did you say my elder sister? my elder sister is probably a senior to my wife, so why should my wife say nasty things about her to disrespect her? Wow.... I love my wife but, i will never turn against my family because of her. GOD forbid bad thing. Oya, i know all the married women in the house will want to take on me now. But, ask yourselves if your junior brother you sufferred for beats you up because of his wife, no matter the reason how you will take it.