I found this interesting and will like to share.

1. Shop Where They Shop

All metro areas have a part of town where the wealthy cluster together. You may not be able to afford $200 dinners, but that doesn't mean you can't meet a guy who does. Start running your errands, buying your venti lattes and doing your grocery shopping in upscale neighborhoods. By frequenting the same spots as the rich, you will increase your chances of meeting them.
2. Attend Charity Events

One of the best places to meet someone who is both generous of heart (and of wallet) is at a charity event. Polo matches, galas, and anything involving a cultural institution are great places to start. Besides potentially meeting someone, you can also feel good that you're giving back and helping a charitable organization.
3. Volunteer

Like charity events, volunteering is a great way to meet quality and financially stable men. For example, volunteering at a hospital exposes you to a large pool of doctors and surgeons whom you might not otherwise meet. Political organizations also attract ambitious, successful men.
4. Take Up a New Hobby

Although you shouldn't take up any activity that you really hate just for the sake of meeting someone, luxury sports like golf, sailing, tennis, and scuba diving tend to attract the type of men who have disposable income to burn. Spending time on a golf course or at a marina can only increase your chances of meeting a successful man and, as a plus, gives you something to talk about when he asks you out on a date. Likewise, don't bother looking for your next boyfriend in places like bowling alleys, diners, and bars that offer two for one specials, unless you are okay with always going Dutch treat.

5. Dont sleep in your house and be praying for an oil company man to be locking at your door.

Wish us all single ladies best of luck in our search this year...

Una go old!

E don reach this stage?

Mtcheww. I pity the girls that will follow the op's nonsense post

Dis is "registered prostitution".@Temi,d tym n money Ud waste wud probably go a long way in achievin sometin modest.am so outta here.

I think this should be "Five places for single ladies to be Cynthiad"

Gold diggers

Temi 23: I found this interesting and will like to share.

1. Shop Where They Shop
2. Attend Charity Events
3. Volunteer
Like charity events, volunteering is a great way to meet quality and financially stable men. For example, volunteering at a hospital exposes you to a large pool of doctors and surgeons whom you might not otherwise meet. Political organizations also attract ambitious, successful men.
4. Take Up a New Hobby
Spending time on a golf course or at a marina can only increase your chances of meeting a successful man
5. Dont sleep in your house and be praying for an oil company man to be locking at your door. Wish us all single ladies best of luck in our search this year...

Funny stuff! They key is to STOP SEARCHING. Focus on making yourself a better person and stuff will fall in place. Practical key areas:
Church
Corporate parties
Grad School (Young men with potential. They may not be rich now, but high ambition is wealth in my opinion - no food for a lazy man.)

The girl is obviously a gold digger who make their money from Firday nights to sunday evening every week...

This write-up is evil. It's obvious her search is not for a husband but for a man with high disposable income.

I wish u best of luck

chei see ashawo thread o....

Temi 23: I found this interesting and will like to share.

1. Shop Where They Shop

All metro areas have a part of town where the wealthy cluster together. You may not be able to afford $200 dinners, but that doesn't mean you can't meet a guy who does. Start running your errands, buying your venti lattes and doing your grocery shopping in upscale neighborhoods. By frequenting the same spots as the rich, you will increase your chances of meeting them.
2. Attend Charity Events

One of the best places to meet someone who is both generous of heart (and of wallet) is at a charity event. Polo matches, galas, and anything involving a cultural institution are great places to start. Besides potentially meeting someone, you can also feel good that you're giving back and helping a charitable organization.
3. Volunteer

Like charity events, volunteering is a great way to meet quality and financially stable men. For example, volunteering at a hospital exposes you to a large pool of doctors and surgeons whom you might not otherwise meet. Political organizations also attract ambitious, successful men.
4. Take Up a New Hobby

Although you shouldn't take up any activity that you really hate just for the sake of meeting someone, luxury sports like golf, sailing, tennis, and scuba diving tend to attract the type of men who have disposable income to burn. Spending time on a golf course or at a marina can only increase your chances of meeting a successful man and, as a plus, gives you something to talk about when he asks you out on a date. Likewise, don't bother looking for your next boyfriend in places like bowling alleys, diners, and bars that offer two for one specials, unless you are okay with always going Dutch treat.

5. Dont sleep in your house and be praying for an oil company man to be locking at your door.

Wish us all single ladies best of luck in our search this year...

It will be a big suprise to you after applying all this methods and nothing happens, I remember when I used to fool my self applying all the mumu strategies I red online and magazines just to get a girl, none workout, immediately I got tired and face my life, girls started showing up

Dear poster, when it comes to relationship there's no strategy that will get you a partner when you need it, that's why I don't even reply on all this dump post people post here about how to get a partner, just be your self and what will be will be

Oh mehn... 780 views in no time,
don't want to belive that nigerian girl are still seriously searching for rich men

desperation personified

op,your kind will be good for just one night stands.

Another place to meet 'em- Hell fire. There are more of them dere than in any oda place! Safe journey....

Err op sorry o. Just thought I made some lil adjustments...
How to meet ELIGIBLE (take not of the capital letters. There are bachelors and there ELIGIBLE bachelors) bachelors;

1. Develop yourself: The gospel truth is that the kind of person you are determines the kind of men you attract. If you want to attract correct guys, make yourself appealing to them by doing the ff;
A. acquire some measure of independence. This cannot be over-emphasized. Even if you don't have a job yet, look for small business to do. Any decent business at all.
B. Don't ever ask him for stuffs. If he's the caring type, he will spend on you on his own. Give him like 4 months to start get comfortable enough to start giving you stuff. If he doesn't, watch him closer for signs of stinginess. If he is, then I think you will be better off without him.
C. Work on your self esteem. My dear sisters, a woman without self esteem is as good as dead. Trust me. Don't ever throw yourself at a man till you are sure he's willing to catch you. Love youself.
D. Work on your inter-personal skills. Learn how to relate with people. Learn social etiquettes and graces.
E. Be true to youself. Most correct guys can see right through pretence. If you are angry, show it, if you are sad, show it, if your are hungry, show it, e.t.c the key is just to know how to express yourself in a respectable way. Most ladies really need to get rid of pretence. The reason why most guys date their gfs for 2-3 yrs before proposing is because they ve not seen much of her true self. So they need more time to figure out if they can marry her or not. Showing your true xter (and being consistent) hastens their decision.
F. Be natural. Let him see you sometimes without make-up, artificial nails, hair (even if you think you are not pretty without them) the importance of this is to make him appreciate you the way you are. A man feels more comfy with a woman who is not afraid of showing her true self/looks. It makes him feel safe enough to open up to you.

2. Get a life!:
A. Go out, enjoy yourselves, meet people, all kinds of people.
B. Find a hobby, go gyming, anything relaxing and soothing.
C. If you are student, study hard and make sure you get good grades. If you are a graduate, get a job or start a business. Even if it's only 5K you have, you can do something with it.
D. Be proud. Of your accomplishments.

3. Take good care of yourself!!!!!
Men will forever be physical beings. First impressions will always count and your looks will give it a big boost.
Every woman has something beautiful about her, it could be her eyes, lips, skin, shape, legs, whatever God has blessed you with. look for yours and exploit it to the fullest with the right clothes, hair styles, and make up shades to compliment them.
WATCH YOUR WAIST LINE!

Pls note that these tips should be applied even after you are married. Else you'll have yourself to blame when he starts getting bored.
Cheers!

Hmm... Please don't waste your time! A woman should have other things on her plate than chasing men. Go about your business, love will come to you. Your job is to recognize it and hold on.
Chasing love is like chasing the wind.













Who ​A̶̲̥̅♏ I kidding? All some of you ladies want is to get married to a rich fella.#leeches#

Register for an accounting class and just stare at every dude who looks smart.

Onozz tins: Dis is "registered prostitution".@Temi,d tym n money Ud waste wud probably go a long way in achievin sometin modest.am so outta here.

Rare Nigerian woman with sense ..Kisses

Sweetlemon: Err op sorry o. Just thought I made some lil adjustments...
How to meet ELIGIBLE (take not of the capital letters. There are bachelors and there ELIGIBLE bachelors) bachelors;

1. Develop yourself: The gospel truth is that the kind of person you are determines the kind of men you attract. If you want to attract correct guys, make yourself appealing to them by doing the ff;
A. acquire some measure of independence. This cannot be over-emphasized. Even if you don't have a job yet, look for small business to do. Any decent business at all.
B. Don't ever ask him for stuffs. If he's the caring type, he will spend on you on his own. Give him like 4 months to start get comfortable enough to start giving you stuff. If he doesn't, watch him closer for signs of stinginess. If he is, then I think you will be better off without him.
C. Work on your self esteem. My dear sisters, a woman without self esteem is as good as dead. Trust me. Don't ever throw yourself at a man till you are sure he's willing to catch you. Love youself.
D. Work on your inter-personal skills. Learn how to relate with people. Learn social etiquettes and graces.
E. Be true to youself. Most correct guys can see right through pretence. If you are angry, show it, if you are sad, show it, if your are hungry, show it, e.t.c the key is just to know how to express yourself in a respectable way. Most ladies really need to get rid of pretence. The reason why most guys date their gfs for 2-3 yrs before proposing is because they ve not seen much of her true self. So they need more time to figure out if they can marry her or not. Showing your true xter (and being consistent) hastens their decision.
F. Be natural. Let him see you sometimes without make-up, artificial nails, hair (even if you think you are not pretty without them) the importance of this is to make him appreciate you the way you are. A man feels more comfy with a woman who is not afraid of showing her true self/looks. It makes him feel safe enough to open up to you.

2. Get a life!:
A. Go out, enjoy yourselves, meet people, all kinds of people.
B. Find a hobby, go gyming, anything relaxing and soothing.
C. If you are student, study hard and make sure you get good grades. If you are a graduate, get a job or start a business. Even if it's only 5K you have, you can do something with it.
D. Be proud. Of your accomplishments.

3. Take good care of yourself!!!!!
Men will forever be physical beings. First impressions will always count and your looks will give it a big boost.
Every woman has something beautiful about her, it could be her eyes, lips, skin, shape, legs, whatever God has blessed you with. look for yours and exploit it to the fullest with the right clothes, hair styles, and make up shades to compliment them.
WATCH YOUR WAIST LINE!

Pls note that these tips should be applied even after you are married. Else you'll have yourself to blame when he starts getting bored.
Cheers!

so u r back again

This idea of adapting foreign concepts to d peculiar nigeria environment is laughable.How many charity evnts are organised by d nigerian rich,how many if dem go to any sporting event,least of all polo mentioned?Even @dat,so a single lady wud just go to a polo event or a gala,unaccompanied& b pretending to b fiddling wt her BB till one mugun catches her fancy?
All d advice above is meant only for d foreign environment& evn @dat wud probably work only 1% of d time

wow!1500 views

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