Altough itZ quite common amongst guyz n girls to use words lik dearie honey sweethrt tu platonic friends especiali while textin and chattin however is it right? Most especiali is it okai tu b jealous wen ur bf or gf use such words on friends?

its ok to be jealous of such things. If you have an issue with it, discuss it with your guy/girl.

I know I call some of my friends names [male and female] like sweetie and honey but I call them horrible names as well, all for no legitimate reason.

I can call my husbands bestfriend for "hon" as in honey ( Hey, hon, how are you? Long time. ),and I call his younger brother sweetie when we talk about serious things.

He calls my very bestfriend "hon" as well, but no one else, no.

my husband no go wan try am.
Even when u dont mean a thing by calling peeps hon, baby etc some people can mistake it for green light so I am not in support of it

I saw dis kinda words in his chat wiv gurls lik diferent girls n I felt kind of jealous

@OP, I call that insecurity. Are you lacking in anything? If you feel inadequate, that's when ur partner's endearment words to friends will make you jealous. For me, I don't see nothing in it. I use it and I have married female friends that use same for me. I don't relate it to green light. Its pure endearment possibly because u mean so much to the individual, not in amorous way though.

Lol! Ur thread brought back a memory. I wldnt have a problem if my bf/spouse called platonic friends sweetie,dear etc...but if he considers me different/special then he shldnt call me that as well....cause then I just become one of his 'dears' .