If the spirit of the Lord demands that you tell your spouse all about your unholy affairs (adultery) within the confines of marriage, what would you do as a man or woman? Would you be able to tell your wife as a husband? Would you be able to tell your husband as a wife? How would you take it as a man or woman? Sincere answers please cos it's happening in many homes.

If its the spirit of God! Ask for the wisdom on how to go about it. Then discuss it with your pastor. Make sure you obey the spirit cause if you don't the consequences might be more grievous

even when it will break the relationship?

Once it is the spirit i will do so but if it backfire then i will backfire the spirit also.

ok na

"The Lord" should have told your cheating a*s*s not to cheat in the first place!

Of course i would. Disobeying God can lead to grievious consequences, even more severe than the one that may suffice when i tell the truth.

How am I suppose to know the voice of the Lord or through which medium does the Lord communicates

The spirit of the lord no know the implications? So if my spouse pour me hot water and my skin burns, will the spirit of the lord treat my skin? Abeg jor....


If e too much make the spirit tell am by himself because i no fit take that kind of risk.

You don't need to becos God himself will tell your spouse leaving you with the easy task of confessing the gory details.

I have seen this happen to people I know twice. One was my best friend in school. He tried to hide it but God took his peace away and he himself couldn't wait to confess.

Nothing under heaven is hidden from God.

What if the same lord ask me to cheat in the first place.

which Lord, Lord of the Rings??

Of course YES. Who am i to disobey God? Patapat the wife go park out.

Some secrets should go down with you to the grave even if heavens should fall.

I am 100% surE that the lord will never ask me to do such thing. Man is polygamous in nature so I have every right to straff if I so desire. Pls don't get it twisted

Why should you wait for the Lord to spoon feed you? Why do you think he gave you a conscience? What kind of silly question is this?

That being said, it may not always be good, but some things are better left unsaid. Especially with women, they would rather not know. Sure, they may suspect and expect you to come out with it, but trust me, the damage done will exceed the intent behind telling.

Please keep God out of YOUR human faults.

The lord no fit tel me dat kin thing,and if he did,ama tel her www.efiweblog.info

God this, God that!
The spirit didn't talk to you when you were slamming away, firing away and vigourously slamming that a.s.s in a d.o.ggy style combat?

Like one poster said above, if its too much, the spirit of the Lord should go tell her himself.LOL

*** I had never cheated on my wife since I got married though.

if God demand that i should told him, i will take off the shame and do the will of God

;DWaiting for thy Lord's directives first...

The worst of the debts to owe is d debt of the truth. U nid 2 resist d temptation in d first place by searching ur conscience n makin d ryt decision. If this 'temptation' averts all the precautions n cautions u took, bcus u dn't want 2 get addicted to it, u sud kw dat confessin 2 ur partna is d solution. This is easier said than don but try it n c hw u wil increase d trust in ur rlatshp.

limilky.clever:
if God demand that i should told him, i will take off the shame and do the will of God

You must told him oh!

Am sure the holy spirit knowz beta d bible verse dat sayz 'old tinz ar passed away while new tinz ar to begin'...why bring bk such memories wen evntually it az passed away

limilky.clever:
if God demand that i should told him, i will take off the shame and do the will of God

as u told him he must be tokded too

limilky.clever:
if God demand that i should told him, i will take off the shame and do the will of God

as u told him he must be tolded oo. Oyibo dey callam totology u knw nah toto mata wey dey chelsea john terry also tolded his wife o

Na today?? "The Lord said..." na him pastors dey take psyche una meanwhile the Lord don give all him instructions inside the Bible...

Restitution is one of the central teachings of the word of God. Confession of infidelity is a form of restitution, as it implies the person is seeking a conscience that is void of offence towards God and man. You erred and now correcting your error. Asides the forgiveness from God, which is assured, you know need to tell your spouse and ask for forgiveness. It would definitely not be easy for your spouse to forgive you. However, considering that the Lord asked you to do it, He would make the forgiveness possible. Its not your confessing that guarantee the forgiveness.

Me tEll him no b me go use my mouth fine divorce 4 mysef o