Here is a list of reasons for you to break up with
your boyfriend:

1. The most common reason to break up with your
boyfriend would be to catch him cheating on you
with another person. Irrespective of what reason he
uses to justify his behavior, it should not be
pardoned because nothing can be worse than a
partner who has been caught cheating you.

2. If you have ever dated anyone while dating him
or had a one night stand that qualifies as cheating
and you should break up with him and set him
free.

3. At times, relationships just faze out and when
they do, it’s time to move on. It doesn’t involve any
blame game or bad feelings. If you feel your
relationship has ‘fazed’ out, you should break up
with your guy.

4. Another reason would be if you or your partner
suddenly develops feelings for another person. A lot
of relationships have succumbed to this hard reality
of life but when things are over, they really are and
there is nothing anyone can do to change or
influence someone’s love for another person. In
fact, there isn’t much point to be in a relationship
with someone who isn’t in love with you.
Irrespective of whether it’s you who has developed
strong feelings for another person or your
partner,it’s better to end the relationship.

5. A key element that keeps a relationship going is
understanding and without understanding, a
relationship loses its charm. If that’s the case, you
should break it off with him.

6. If both of you are polar opposites and both of
you aren’t willing to do your share at compromising
with each other, then you should end the
relationship.

7. A long distance relationship can become a
source of worry rather than comfort. Some people
are just not meant to be in a long distance
relationship. Instead of being faithful to their
partners, they end up cheating on them while their
partners go away for long durations and there isn’t
much point in ending things in a bad way when
you know yourself well enough to have a cordial
mutual break up in advance.

8. If you are a career woman and your deadlines
are more important than your anniversaries, you
should break it up with him before things get
messier!

9. You should break up with him if he has hurt you
in any way. There is no point in being in a
relationship with someone who has broken your
trust or made you feel very bad about something.

10. Every relationship needs a certain amount of
kindness, compassion and compatibility but if you
have been fighting little power struggles with him
at all times, you should give up on the relationship

11. A lot of women can’t tolerate lying and if your
guy has been a constant liar, you should end it
with him now than to face more serious issues due
to his compulsive lying in the future.

12. A common reason these days for break ups is
the lack of career prospective. Many women who
want to see a future with a man will look for
someone with a bright career and at times, when
things don’t exactly work the way they had
planned, instead of supporting their boyfriends,
they go away to look for new ones. If you are a
materialistic woman and your boyfriend’s career
doesn’t look that bright, you should end the
current relationship.

13. If both of you have different demands from life
itself, break up with him right now and live your
individual dreams. That’s a lot better than missing
out on your dreams due to someone or something.

14. If your boyfriend is a commitment phobic and
you are not, you should end things with him right
away instead of waiting for a couple more years
before you realize that your relationship will not end
in marriage. It can save you a lot of hurt!

15. Your friends should always receive top priority
and if your friends say that he isn’t worth it, then
you should believe them and leave him. They are
your friends so they will do what’s best for you.

16. Every guy might not be very comfortable with
the idea of taking care of someone’s children, even
if they are yours. Make sure your boyfriend likes
your kids (if you have any) because if he doesn’t,
you should break up with him.

17. Every girlfriend needs emotional intimacy as
much as a boyfriend needs physical intimacy and if
he’s not giving it now, chances are he never will so
you should end it with him.

18. You should break up with your boyfriend if he
has a gambling, alcohol or drug problem. Most of
the times, people who are addicted end up
destroying the lives of everyone attached to them
along with their own so it’s always better to stay
away from a relationship with someone like this.

19. If you think that his parents don’t like you and
if he’s a mama’s boy, you should leave him before
he leaves you!

20. If your guy values money more than you and
he’s fine with cancelling a date just to save some
bucks, you should end it with him because he
certainly loves money more than he loves your
happiness.

21. Many people don’t realise this but they might
still be in love with their ex boyfriends. If you are
one of them, then you shouldn’t stay with this guy
and give him false happiness.

22. There is no logic in being with a guy unless he
can give you a lot of happiness and treat you like a
princess. If you spend most of your time in your
room crying or feeling bad about yourself because
of him, you should dump him and try to find your
happiness first. Relationships are meant to keep
people happy and if yours isn’t, then it’s not worth
it.

23. If you feel that you are putting in more time or
efforts to maintain the relationship than your
boyfriend, you should end it right there and pack
your bags.

24. Some men have a tendency to make their
female counterparts feel less worthy and if your
man is one of them, you should let him go and find
someone who treats you as an equal.

25. If your boyfriend abuses you physically,verbally
or both, you should leave him immediately. Being
in such a relationship is not only psychologically
and physically harmful but it can also have serious
repercussions in the long run. Irrespective of your
reason for being in a relationship with someone like
that, you should end it with him immediately to
save yourself from further damage.

9. You should break up with him if he has hurt you in any way. There is no point in being in a relationship with someone who has broken your trust or made you feel very bad about something.

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23. If you feel that you are putting in more time or efforts to maintain the relationship than your boyfriend, you should end it right there and pack your bags.

are you kidding me

HÌGLΞDY_PÌGLΞDY:

What is this



are you kidding me

Every girl deserves the best and no ain't kidding you...... Its for real!!!

let me ask u Ijele-igbo. Dont u have half of those things u posted? If u dont den u r an angel. What u ard saying is just utterly baseless

Obinnau: let me ask u Ijele-igbo. Dont u have half of those things u posted? If u dont den u r an angel. What u ard saying is just utterly baseless

I'm an Angel to my baby! We are gods and goddesses of love!

Ijele-igbo:


I'm an Angel to my baby! We are gods and goddesses of love!

even the gods have weaknesses!

lolzzzz!!!!!but makin sense....

Obinnau: even the gods have weaknesses!

Our love's perfect! Our weakness is being addicted to each other!!

lythia: lolzzzz!!!!!but makin sense....

Ijele-igbo:


Our love's perfect! Our weakness is being addicted to each other!!

lols. U see. U have indirectly failed one mark. That addiction to her indirectly refers that you are possesive of each each other.

Obinnau: lols. U see. U have indirectly failed one mark. That addiction to her indirectly refers that you are possesive of each each other.

That's how true love is meant to be and really I don't see this as a weakness!
We are so possessive of each other and never tired or bored of each other. She's my perfect woman! My missing rib!! What else can a man ask for?

Ijele-igbo:


That's how true love is meant to be and really I don't see this as a weakness!
We are so possessive of each other and never tired or bored of each other. She's my perfect woman! My missing rib!! What else can a man ask for?

Mr Lover Lover.

Like seriously?

One should break up with her boyfriend cos her friends says so? This must be a joke.

freecocoa: Like seriously?

One should break up with her boyfriend cos her friends says so? This must be a joke.

There must be a reason why her friend's says so! Who knows? Maybe they know what you don't know.....

Obinnau: Mr Lover Lover.

You can be a lover man too! If you want to..... My woman worships me because I know how to treat her right!
Show her love and she respects you!!!

Ijele-igbo:


You can be a lover man too! If you want to..... My woman worships me because I know how to treat her right!
Show her love and she respects you!!!

i don hear u. Free me joor!

Obinnau: i don hear u. Free me joor!

this is the problem associated with every Nigeria male..... He isn't romantic, caring, loving and shows less attention to his woman!
I no go free you till you accept to be a born again!

No 26. Break up with your boyfriend just because ijele-igbo said so.

specialguest: No 26. Break up with your boyfriend just because ijele-igbo said so.

Haba! Baby!! I wouldn't interfere in a relationship because if someone else does that to me, I'd take his life away

Ijele-igbo:


this is the problem associated with every Nigeria male..... He isn't romantic, caring, loving and shows less attention to his woman!
I no go free you till you accept to be a born again!

dats not actually true. It depends on ur mindset and how u want ur relationship to go. FYI am romantic, caring loving but let me tell u one tin, make her know openly dat she is ur pivot and she will take u for granted, ofcourse my attention is never away frm her but dats in a secret way.

Ijele-igbo:
Here is a list of reasons for you to break up with
your boyfriend:

1. The most common reason to break up with your
boyfriend would be to catch him cheating on you
with another person. Irrespective of what reason he
uses to justify his behavior, it should not be
pardoned because nothing can be worse than a
partner who has been caught cheating you.

2. If you have ever dated anyone while dating him
or had a one night stand that qualifies as cheating
and you should break up with him and set him
free.

3. At times, relationships just faze out and when
they do, it’s time to move on. It doesn’t involve any
blame game or bad feelings. If you feel your
relationship has ‘fazed’ out, you should break up
with your guy.

4. Another reason would be if you or your partner
suddenly develops feelings for another person. A lot
of relationships have succumbed to this hard reality
of life but when things are over, they really are and
there is nothing anyone can do to change or
influence someone’s love for another person. In
fact, there isn’t much point to be in a relationship
with someone who isn’t in love with you.
Irrespective of whether it’s you who has developed
strong feelings for another person or your
partner,it’s better to end the relationship.

5. A key element that keeps a relationship going is
understanding and without understanding, a
relationship loses its charm. If that’s the case, you
should break it off with him.

6. If both of you are polar opposites and both of
you aren’t willing to do your share at compromising
with each other, then you should end the
relationship.

7. A long distance relationship can become a
source of worry rather than comfort. Some people
are just not meant to be in a long distance
relationship. Instead of being faithful to their
partners, they end up cheating on them while their
partners go away for long durations and there isn’t
much point in ending things in a bad way when
you know yourself well enough to have a cordial
mutual break up in advance.

8. If you are a career woman and your deadlines
are more important than your anniversaries, you
should break it up with him before things get
messier!

9. You should break up with him if he has hurt you
in any way. There is no point in being in a
relationship with someone who has broken your
trust or made you feel very bad about something.

10. Every relationship needs a certain amount of
kindness, compassion and compatibility but if you
have been fighting little power struggles with him
at all times, you should give up on the relationship

11. A lot of women can’t tolerate lying and if your
guy has been a constant liar, you should end it
with him now than to face more serious issues due
to his compulsive lying in the future.

12. A common reason these days for break ups is
the lack of career prospective. Many women who
want to see a future with a man will look for
someone with a bright career and at times, when
things don’t exactly work the way they had
planned, instead of supporting their boyfriends,
they go away to look for new ones. If you are a
materialistic woman and your boyfriend’s career
doesn’t look that bright, you should end the
current relationship.

13. If both of you have different demands from life
itself, break up with him right now and live your
individual dreams. That’s a lot better than missing
out on your dreams due to someone or something.

14. If your boyfriend is a commitment phobic and
you are not, you should end things with him right
away instead of waiting for a couple more years
before you realize that your relationship will not end
in marriage. It can save you a lot of hurt!

15. Your friends should always receive top priority
and if your friends say that he isn’t worth it, then
you should believe them and leave him. They are
your friends so they will do what’s best for you.

16. Every guy might not be very comfortable with
the idea of taking care of someone’s children, even
if they are yours. Make sure your boyfriend likes
your kids (if you have any) because if he doesn’t,
you should break up with him.

17. Every girlfriend needs emotional intimacy as
much as a boyfriend needs physical intimacy and if
he’s not giving it now, chances are he never will so
you should end it with him.

18. You should break up with your boyfriend if he
has a gambling, alcohol or drug problem. Most of
the times, people who are addicted end up
destroying the lives of everyone attached to them
along with their own so it’s always better to stay
away from a relationship with someone like this.

19. If you think that his parents don’t like you and
if he’s a mama’s boy, you should leave him before
he leaves you!

20. If your guy values money more than you and
he’s fine with cancelling a date just to save some
bucks, you should end it with him because he
certainly loves money more than he loves your
happiness.

21. Many people don’t realise this but they might
still be in love with their ex boyfriends. If you are
one of them, then you shouldn’t stay with this guy
and give him false happiness.

22. There is no logic in being with a guy unless he
can give you a lot of happiness and treat you like a
princess. If you spend most of your time in your
room crying or feeling bad about yourself because
of him, you should dump him and try to find your
happiness first. Relationships are meant to keep
people happy and if yours isn’t, then it’s not worth
it.

23. If you feel that you are putting in more time or
efforts to maintain the relationship than your
boyfriend, you should end it right there and pack
your bags.

24. Some men have a tendency to make their
female counterparts feel less worthy and if your
man is one of them, you should let him go and find
someone who treats you as an equal.

25. If your boyfriend abuses you physically,verbally
or both, you should leave him immediately. Being
in such a relationship is not only psychologically
and physically harmful but it can also have serious
repercussions in the long run. Irrespective of your
reason for being in a relationship with someone like
that, you should end it with him immediately to
save yourself from further damage.

Guy, you are really trying. Your girlfriend gave you this list of do and don't
and you are still coping with the relationship, I must confess, you are trying (dull).
But I'm sure, you must be wearing out already. You need help from God and men before
hmmmmmmm. I'm still thinking, if she can write 25 list of reason why SHE will break up
with YOU, I think you also need to consult someone to write 50 reasons why you should break up
with her too, because with the level of your smartness, you can't write such thing by yourself.
No offense please!

toksade:

Guy, you are really trying. Your girlfriend gave you this list of do and don't
and you are still coping with the relationship, I must confess, you are trying (dull).
But I'm sure, you must be wearing out already. You need help from God and men before
hmmmmmmm. I'm still thinking, if she can write 25 list of reason why SHE will break up
with YOU, I think you also need to consult someone to write 50 reasons why you should break up
with her too, because with the level of your smartness, you can't write such thing by yourself.
No offense please!

Actually they aren't my write ups! It was culled from an anonymous writer and you mean no offense!

Obinnau: dats not actually true. It depends on ur mindset and how u want ur relationship to go. FYI am romantic, caring loving but let me tell u one tin, make her know openly dat she is ur pivot and she will take u for granted, ofcourse my attention is never away frm her but dats in a secret way.

I strongly disagree with you! No woman will take a man who publicly declares and show true love to her for granted except she's not in love with you..........
Secondly, keeping your attention in a secret way is not the best idea! She must know you want her every second, you want to hear her voice, you kiss and tell her "I love you" everyday...... You must renew and always re ignite the feelings and passion you have for each other....... You must work for love to function always if not, you would easily get bored of each other and slowly kill your relationship!