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Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by tomakint: 9:58am On Jan 22, 2013
Many men are never taught how to talk to women. Because of this many guys go through life without the ability to attract a woman. Here are 15 tips to help make sure you aren't making mistakes with the women you’d like to attract:

1. You should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.

2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. While talking to a woman take control of the conversation. Never wait for her to dictate what you’ll be talking about.

3. Pay attention to the non verbal cues a woman is giving you. If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.

4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny.” Women are attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don’t concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing them the most excitement and enjoyment.

5. Tease women. One of the easiest ways to take a conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease women. Think back to your time on the playground. In the world of dating… what worked on the playground is effective all over again.

6. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level.

7. Use things like “cold reads” to turn women on. Women love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you observe about her.

8. Avoid complimenting a woman too much. Women are turned off by men who come across as “needy.” If you are complimenting a woman too much she will think you’re trying to impress her. Which will have the opposite effect.

9. If you want to know how to talk to women in a way that doesn’t bore them… Avoid asking too many “interview” style questions. Instead state your opinion about things.

10. Remember: Statements over questions. Instead of saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like you grew up around here.” This allows you to make observations about her and express your personality.

11. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about whatever you’re passionate about.

12. Never compliment her on her eyes, looks, or body.

13. Say something that lets her know that you view her in a “intimate” way. If you don’t, you run the risk of winding up in the “friend zone”.

14. Use conversation “games” to keep the mood fun and flirtatious. Games can be anything like “truth or dare” or to less extreme games like the “5 questions game”.

15. Don’t give away your hand so fast. Women like men who are a challenge. If you want to keep a woman’s interest she has to feel like she is slowly winning you over. If she thinks you’re too easy… she’ll lose interest.

N.B: The best way to think about how to talk to women is to think about what kind of fun, playful, and intimate conversation you would most enjoy. Talking to a woman doesn’t have to be difficult. You just need to be aware of what they are turned on by and what turns them off. Follow the list above and you’ll do just fine.

http://www.themalaysiantimes.com.my/?p=53913

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Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by binger: 11:06am On Jan 22, 2013
Good one,but some points are contradictory, e.g numbers 12 & 13.By my standards,there is no better way to delve into 'intimate talks' than by complimenting her looks,body carriage or gait. #candidme.

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Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by tomakint: 12:43pm On Jan 22, 2013
binger: Good one,but some points are contradictory, e.g numbers 12 & 13.By my standards,there is no better way to delve into 'intimate talks' than by complimenting her looks,body carriage or gait. #candidme.

But you will still agree with me that some ladies tagged that "Flatteries" I know some ladies in the house can back me up on that! cool
 
Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by izenco2005: 1:10pm On Jan 22, 2013
undecided undecidedAren't we tired of boys and girls stuf here. 15 make sure u give ya money regularly.

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Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by BlackPeni5: 1:11pm On Jan 22, 2013
I use only one tip. Let her know that I like her and show her the money...Works like Magic.

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Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by donfatosa(m): 1:12pm On Jan 22, 2013
Ok
Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by sammmiey1: 1:13pm On Jan 22, 2013
All these tips without money in d pocket is?

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Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by Freiburger(m): 1:13pm On Jan 22, 2013
tomakint:

12. Never compliment her on her eyes, looks, or body.


150likes grin

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Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by Coldfeet(f): 1:13pm On Jan 22, 2013
Do Naija men need a brochure on how to get a womans attention? Don't think so!

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Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by Afam4eva(m): 1:13pm On Jan 22, 2013
I've read articles that state the exact opposite about women. I think people who write these articles should just shut up and let human beings live their lives like it's supposed to be.

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Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by binger: 1:13pm On Jan 22, 2013
tomakint:

But you will still with me that some ladies tagged that "Flatteries" I know some ladies in the house can back me up on that! cool
It is mere flattery when it's done too much,but candid compliment when it's done seldomly. A lady likes it when u appreciate her.
Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by exxell(m): 1:15pm On Jan 22, 2013
THIS WRITE UP DOES NOT APPLY TO OUR COUNTRY NIGERIA OOOOO cheesy cheesy cheesy ..... JUST CARRY ANY OF THE CARS BELOW AND APPROACH A NAIJA BABE OR GIVE HER THE COMPLIMENTARY CARD OF THE BANK BELOW INDICATING THAT YOU WORK THERE.... YOU DON'T EVEN NEED TO TALK AGAIN NOR TRY TO GET THEIR ATTENTION. YOU WILL EXPERIENCE "ACTION SPEAKING LOUDER THAN WORDS" "THE POWER OF MONEY" wink wink wink grin grin grin

BTW, IF A GIRL LIKE YOU, SHE DON LIKE YOU KPATAKPATA.... IF A GIRL NO LIKE YOU, IF YOU WANT, APPLY ALL THE RULES IN THE BIBLE OR ENCYCLOPAEDIA BOTH KNOWN AND UNKNOWN... YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TYME.... SHE GO JUST USE YOU AS THE HEAD OFFICE OF HER BANK ACCOUNT OR ATM MACHINE grin grin grin

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Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by OgidiOlu3(m): 1:15pm On Jan 22, 2013
And the usual...show her u've got money. Trust me, u'll attract all kinds of girls undecided .
Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by Coldfeet(f): 1:15pm On Jan 22, 2013
Naija men don't need a how to brochure when it comes to women! For all they know its one rule apply to all.
Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by Freiburger(m): 1:16pm On Jan 22, 2013
Afam4eva: I've read articles that state the exact opposite about women. I think people who write these articles should just shut up and let human beings live their lives like it's supposed to be.
I guess they 've got the right to their opinion, i don't think urging them to shut up is the right language.
Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by pastie(m): 1:16pm On Jan 22, 2013
coolmy money speaks for me cool


#No time 4 longthing#
Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by Freiburger(m): 1:17pm On Jan 22, 2013
pastie: coolmy money speaks for me cool


#No time 4 longthing#
#
lol. grin
Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by Afam4eva(m): 1:17pm On Jan 22, 2013
Freiburger:
I guess they 've got the right to their opinion, i don't think urging them to shut up is the right language.
Don't i have a right to my own opinion?
Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by kudiice(m): 1:18pm On Jan 22, 2013
Nice! But I think da best way to talk to a woman is by flirting with her. Also tease, comlpement and joke with them.Never show you are desperate! This will keep da conversation floating.
Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by Nobody: 1:18pm On Jan 22, 2013
Studies shows that trying to understand women increase the chances of gray hair B4 the age of 40 in men and make men go insane. #complicatedbeings.

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Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by DonHummer(m): 1:19pm On Jan 22, 2013
nawa oo...see rules..i rada remain single...when i don hamma, i will be the one giving them rules on..10 ways to get my attention...

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Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by Freiburger(m): 1:19pm On Jan 22, 2013
Afam4eva:
Don't i have a right to my own opinion?
What's your opinion? A complete opposite of the the above listed tips? smiley
Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by olaolayink(m): 1:19pm On Jan 22, 2013
good point....some of it contradict buh good point sir
Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by Afam4eva(m): 1:20pm On Jan 22, 2013
Freiburger:
What's your opinion? A complete opposite of the the above listed tips? smiley
My opinion is in my first post.
Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by tomakint: 1:21pm On Jan 22, 2013
trust me all the 15 points work like magic just commit them to hearts guys and pray for MONEY grin because that makes everything worthwhile
Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by TableLeg(m): 1:21pm On Jan 22, 2013
NONSENSE!
Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by Kingscee(m): 1:22pm On Jan 22, 2013
Stup1d and nonsense. Who get time for this trash? Abeg give us tips on how to make money not woman. H.I.V AIDS dey for town. Getting rich mood in my mind. F**K YOU AND YOUR 15 TIPS.

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Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by Freiburger(m): 1:22pm On Jan 22, 2013
Afam4eva:
My opinion is in my first post.
Good, so let those who wish to benefit from those tips do so, based also on their opinion.
Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by LagosBoi2: 1:23pm On Jan 22, 2013
Every lady likes a sucessful man, get money first and ladies will follow, na u go dey choose which one to sample !
Re: Tips For Talking To Women And Getting Their Attention! by Afam4eva(m): 1:23pm On Jan 22, 2013
Freiburger:
Good, so let those who wish to benefit from those tips do so, based also on their opinion.
I'm not forcing anything down anyone's throat cos it's my personal opinion. I'm speak for myself and not for anyone else.

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