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| Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by lifesabeach: 5:17pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
I have watched and it seems to me that when a man's woman is the no nonsense type, he sits up and if he must "misbehave" he has to hide ooo as he knows his madam will finish him. She is therefore respected and feared, but when she is what nairalander guys say a woman must be--- respectful, quiet, submissive, etc, they go through such women then dump them after using their heads and exploiting them, taking advantage of their being gentle. IS THAT REALLY WHY MEN WANT "SUBMISSIVE" WOMEN? SO THEY CAN WALK ALL OVER THEM? I need sincere answers please |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by jaybee3(m): 5:23pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
With a username like yours, i couldn't  agree more |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by lifesabeach: 5:28pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
jay bee: With a username like yours, i couldn't YEP, LIFE IS A BI/TCH SOMETIMES. Its just an observation sha |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by Arsenate(m): 5:34pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
Because "nice" girls are almost always attracted to "not-nice" guys and these guys always show them pepper at the end. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by Nobody: 6:37pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
You have a point there,but hey,its not always as a result of being submissive. Most times,it's as a result of the following: Over-dependence on the guy,misplaced priorities and making decisions beclouded by emotions. In summary,when u make urself a leech(dependent in everything),you will be treated like one. |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by Mynd44: 7:04pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
Arsenate: Because "nice" girls are almost always attracted to "not-nice" guys and these guys always show them pepper at the end.Lmao @ "show them pepper" |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by Nobody: 7:29pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
Real men do not break a woman's heart. And i am glad i never have. Ladies who get their heart broken are the unlucky ones who date the guys that do no care about human feelings. The best way to dump a babe, is to let the love die a natural death. That way u guys would path way as friends, and both of u would be wonderin what went wrong and blamin ur own self for everything. And at the end nobody will accuse u of heartbreak, and u wont feel any guilt. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by lifesabeach: 7:43pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
lrguru: Real men do not break a woman's heart. And i am glad i never have. Ladies who get their heart broken are the unlucky ones who date the guys that do no care about human feelings. Thanks for your sensible answer. I see these girls getting hurt sometimes and it's not about being weak. Some are just too decent to a fault and just do not know how to be "tough' so why would a man know this and still "show them pepper"? Some guys just do not deserve good women. That is all |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by coalcoal1(m): 7:49pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
Just say no to premarital sex and make him wait. If he waits, then he is a good guy |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by lifesabeach: 7:55pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
Arsenate: Because "nice" girls are almost always attracted to "not-nice" guys and these guys always show them pepper at the end. So "nice" girl is getting what she deserves? Is cruelty ever justified? If your sister was "nice" you'd be happy she learns a lesson from the "not nice" guy she gets attracted to? are you for real? |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by emabe: 8:06pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
Hey talk about urself. I know a friend whose wife is so gentle and nice it would bring tears to a hard man's eyes. My guy that married her was one of the hardest man i ever knew. Never had any scruples about beating chicks in Uni then and girls used to line up to date him then cos they were sure of protection if he was sleeping with them. A confirmed hard man in school then. He is married now and he worships his wife. Treats her like an egg. He is one reason i respect the power a married woman welds over her husband. |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by lifesabeach: 8:21pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
emabe: Hey talk about urself. I know a friend whose wife is so gentle and nice it would bring tears to a hard man's eyes. My guy that married her was one of the hardest man i ever knew. Never had any scruples about beating chicks in Uni then and girls used to line up to date him then cos they were sure of protection if he was sleeping with them. A confirmed hard man in school then. He is married now and he worships his wife. Treats her like an egg. He is one reason i respect the power a married woman welds over her husband. "talk about myself"? did i tell you it is my experience? Read well please.  It is an observation. Well good for your reformed criminal "friend"...meanwhile this is not a marriage relationship we are talking about. The victims get dumped, hence the topic. Read before answering next time abeg. BTW, my response should tell you I am a no nonsense person.Oo ma je kin wa so igbati lu e ooo!!!  |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by eddiegracia(m): 11:11pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
lifesabeach: From your talks, you don't have manners. If u so igbati lu the poster above you, make hin kon panel beat ur whole face join body, una go say one person na woman beater when ur mouth is so sharp like razor. Why won't your sorry azz get dumped and your heart broken and shattered, when ur gra gra wan too much... U wan dey figagbaga abi..continue, we know una type.. |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by ifihearam: 11:27pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
Its called karma. These so called nice girls were very callous to some nice guys at a point in time and now they fell for a dude so karma must play its role hence they face misery. I really don't pity them because if they deal with you. Chineke eeee 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by 190theclown: 11:43pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
^^tHIS man up there must have been dealt with  1 Like |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by lifesabeach: 11:52pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
eddiegracia: ...and you need e-blows to your mouth so u count your teeth behind your throat! I am more than happy to disappoint you by saying that I am proudly not a victim of any heartbreaks . I am actually the one who gets to be worshipped by her husband-- because I got no manners . I started the thread because I wanted to hear what silly thinking magas like you will have to say for yourselves and because I really feel sorry for these girls...So YOU go sit YOUR black sorry ars*e in a dump somewhere, MAGA!! |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by lifesabeach: 12:06am On Jan 23, 2013 |
^^tHIS man up there must have been dealt with My dear, i agree ooo! but maltreatment from women to guys is also unacceptable sha. I feel for am. Abeg, make I go cook for my honey and the kids, leave una to deal with da topic. Nite nite |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by UkwuNnu(m): 12:40am On Jan 23, 2013 |
lifesabeach: [size=14pt]Akuko ifo![/size]
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| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by Nobody: 4:31am On Jan 23, 2013 |
lrguru: Real men do not break a woman's heart. And i am glad i never have. Ladies who get their heart broken are the unlucky ones who date the guys that do no care about human feelings.You are the good badest. U got me cracking. |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by Nobody: 4:35am On Jan 23, 2013 |
lifesabeach:Some of these perceived good ladies are not good at all. U need to date some of them to find out. They have their own agenda. |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by eddiegracia(m): 8:22am On Jan 23, 2013 |
lifesabeach: Are you high on some kind of fake weed?  The husband that is gonna worship a very ugly gorilla looking creature like yourself has either being blinded from the spiritual realm or an area boyz who no mind. SPIT Stick to your runz biz b.iatch, because u can't expect a real man to worship your expire smelly stinky...SPIT AGAIN. An advice, try dey package yourself, so that at least, u go fit see bus conductor look your way. Sorry for the heartbreaks, ooooo.. Ndo |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by lifesabeach: 12:33pm On Jan 23, 2013 |
All of you are getting me all cracked up!!! SO, RATHER THAN DISCUSS THE POST, YOU ARE ALL GETTING DEFENSIVE ABI? attacking the poster. Nice try for a diversion!!! The girls being referred to could be your sister, aunts, cousins, etc... How would you feel and what would you say if they are victims is what this is all about! BTW, I may be a married woman, i may be a man like you. I COULD EVEN BE A HERMAPHODITE!! I shall never reveal. STOP ATTACKING THE POSTER AND STICK TO DISCUSSING THE POST!!! BLOODY COWARDS!! if any one is offended with the poster, say so, rather than foolishly assuming the forum poster is a biatch and victim doing "runs" jeeez!! Again, for those who are lashing out, Magas! sorry. I do not feel it. You are wasting your negative energy, saliva, whateva Insult cannot remove hair from my head!!! Have a greeeeeat day! |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by lifesabeach: 12:35pm On Jan 23, 2013 |
eddiegracia: You try sha but your bullet miss. Mumu like you. You should know about smelly armpits (Smell yours again right now) and gorrillas (you see your reflection everyday) Douche  |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by Nobody: 1:43pm On Jan 23, 2013 |
Men need women that will teach them a really go lesson when they misbehave...u have to be firm and intelligent 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by lifesabeach: 3:05pm On Jan 23, 2013 |
I AM BACK OOO!! GOT THIS FROM ANOTHER POST FOR THOSE FAKE BOYS WHO HAVE BEEN RUNNING THEIR MOUTH AGAINST ME (insults back to senders!!!!)  "Look wetin one girl talk about guys...... Na wa!" guys make una read n meditate on this too... i know its hurts but its the truth The joy of very man is to get married to the girl of his dreams, he is looking for his missing rib, Miss Right, the wife of his youth, mother of his unborn children,blab la bla. He is looking for that one-in-a- millio n girl who will be virtuous, obedient, neat, pretty, exposed,religious, and well brought up. But the problem is; how many men can boast of half of these qualities they so much desire in women? You want a good wife but you are a potential bad husband. Your woman must not even say hi to a man but you have numerous babes. You are in a hurry to beat King Solomon’s record of 300 wives and 700 concubines but your wife must not receive even one call from another man except you. Hmmm One chance na aim be your case. You do not have a job or a trade or even a skill but you want to toast the classiest babes in town and you can’t understand why they are turning you down since you are the finest boy in town. Meaning; na fine dem go chop? If dem ask you which job you deƔ do, you go say you be footballer, but you still deƔ football academy at the age of 34 and Messi is your role model. You no go go learn carpentry? Abi you enter once chance? Small time you go say you be artiste, but you no fit play even a single instrument only to dey shout yea yea uhorn uhorn dj give me track 2, no no give me track 4… U̶̲̥̅ no go go develop yourself? Your fiancée’s mother chased you out of the house,why not? When you are still dressing like Wizkid at the age of 35. You complain she dresses anyhow when your own jeans is skin tight and only covers half of your bum bum exposing your dirty boxers and you call it swag. Why will she agree to kiss you when your mouth always smells of cigarette and cheap booze like ogogoro, goskolo, aloma, and all those other chemical concoctions sold cheaply in dark corners. Today you want yellow girl, tomorrow you want chocolate, then you want tall, dark, fair, lepa,orobo, you can’t seem to make up your mind. You have been dating a girl for 8 years and you still have the guts to tell her you are not sure if she is one for you. After 8 years? Why are you wasting her time? Look if you don’t want to propose to her abeg give chance make another serious bobo enter her life, abi you want make she reach menopause before you propose? You keep looking for Miss Right but are you taking steps to make yourself Mr. Right? It is easy for men to say ladies are materialistic, or they love money, or they are money conscious, but put yourself in their fathers’ shoes; will you allow your daughter marry a jobless loafer? Instead of sitting down in one place and regretting how one rich guy stole your woman away with his money get up and hustle. Ladies don’t look for handsome men, they look for men with handsome pockets and bright future. Guy get up and try getting rich, legitimately. You keep smoking, drinking, womanizing, clubbing, and keeping late nights and you keep telling her you will change when you both get married. Hmmm ladies, if he is doing it now before your very eyes, he will do I̶̲̥̅̊t even more when you marry him. After disvirgining 10 girls in your lifetime, you are still looking for a virgin to marry. Who dash monkey banana? You must reap what you sow. You no wan marry but you are a member of Professional Association of Men in Suit. How that babe go agree to marry you when you still ƌƐƔ live for your papa house, still dey chop your mama food, still dey beg your sister for transport money, and still dey beg your friends to transfer N50 to your phone so that you can give her missed call. 24 hours a day you are on facebook or twitter or 2go while your fellow men are hustling and you still think the babes will answer you when you call? You will spend 90 minutes watching football match played in faraway Europe by men half your age and spend the next 2hours shouting up blues! Or up Man U! or Gunners for life! Or up Barca, up Madrid, You shall not walk alone. You were supposed to have spent those valuable hours hustling instead of just spending your coins to watch other people hustling. Remember time waits for nobody. For those bad boys wey wan marry good girls, una don enter one chance,because the good girls are also looking for good guys with a bright future and solid prospect to marry. You’d better buckle up now guys if you want to marry the lady of your wildest dreams or else you will just end up marrying an old lady who is ready to marry just any rog and even sponsor wedding and buy your suit and shoes, and of course your rights will be limited in that arranges marriage. To whom it may concern. LOLA God bless this "LOLA" |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by Mynd44: 4:17pm On Jan 23, 2013 |
What the eff is this? What a waste |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by lifesabeach: 4:58pm On Jan 23, 2013 |
Mynd_44: What the eff is this? What a waste Waste of what exactly  please don't say "time" because even YOU found time to type a comment ... |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by Mynd44: 5:00pm On Jan 23, 2013 |
lifesabeach:More like waste of space:p |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by belily(f): 5:02pm On Jan 23, 2013 |
Mynd_44: What the eff is this? What a wasteits nt really a waste becus dats d truth a lady looks for a guy dat has prospect am nt saying he has 2 be very rich bt smbdy dats is ambitious nd would go far in life or else she nd kids wil end up starving 2 death |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by eddiegracia(m): 6:35pm On Jan 23, 2013 |
lifesabeach: Can you plz add your pics and let me add mine, let's see who look more like a gorilla or na chimpazee, cow like u |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by lifesabeach: 7:18pm On Jan 23, 2013 |
eddiegracia: Are YOU a cow or gorilla? Make up your mind dummy!!!  I am really getting under your skin and that is making my day!!!!! . |
| Re: Why Do Nice Girls End Up Being The Ones Cheated And Walked Over By Men? by lifesabeach: 7:20pm On Jan 23, 2013 |
Assuming I, the Poster of this forum am a woman. Hmmmmm... I think I need to start a new thread based on these abusive comments I am getting for asking the simple question that started this forum. "WHY ARE NAIRALAND MEN SOOOOO AGGRESSIVE?!!!" |
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