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So NLs, should people who like each other front for many months or years before they decide to date.

In my opinion too much fronting can cost you some good love. What do you guys think? Any experiences?

i don't know

As a guy. Don't waste too much time, do the things to ensure she falls in love with you then strike before you get put into Friendzone or ever worse brodazone

WackyJ1: As a guy. Don't waste too much time, do the things to ensure she falls in love with you then strike before you get put into Friendzone or ever worse brodazone

things like what pls elucidate expantiatively thanks

Op shebi is a date not sleeping with him,not even yes to a serious relationship.Just want to know him better.
Please the answer is IMMEDIATELY.

As soon as u both feel the chemistry,then u can set off. But don't waste too much time ooo.

Youngsage:
things like what pls elucidate expantiatively thanks

Show her care, listen to her, be someone that she feels secure and safe around...

luvmijeje: Op shebi is a date not sleeping with him,not even yes to a serious relationship.Just want to know him better.
Please the answer is IMMEDIATELY.

Yeah I mean dating (entering a relationship)

Cweetie:
Yeah I mean dating (entering a relationship)

Yeah if you've evaluated his character to a satisfactory level and you like him enough then don't play hard longer than necessary

@op, it all depends
if you've known him for a long time, and he only just asked you out, you can start dating (including sex) him immediatiely
if you just met him, and you like him (you can start simple kisses the first week, and heavy smooching at the end of the month). by the end of 1.5 months, you can commense sex)
If you follow this patter, he won't consider u cheap

No definite tym

He likes you and you like him act so why wait again? People like too much wahala ooo

mudistr: @op, it all depends
if you've known him for a long time, and he only just asked you out, you can start dating (including sex) him immediatiely
if you just met him, and you like him (you can start simple kisses the first week, and heavy smooching at the end of the month). by the end of 1.5 months, you can commense sex)
If you follow this patter, he won't consider u cheap

Your pattern is detailed enough. Is it guaranteed? It worked for you abi?

WackyJ1: As a guy. Don't waste too much time, do the things to ensure she falls in love with you then strike before you get put into Friendzone or ever worse brodazone

Lol

The sooner the better so if he turns out to be someone you don't like you just let him go instead of waiting time putting up a front.

True2myself24: The sooner the better so if he turns out to be someone you don't like you just let him go instead of waiting time putting up a front.

True

When you do not like someone, let them know in lieu of telling them they are on trial on you want to know them more and in the end your answer will be a "No" or probably you were just playing all along. Basically I believe falling in love is a risk backed up by choice, so if you feel the person is worth giving a shot, then moderation should come to play in how long it'll take to start. For me, the moment a girl puts up this hard to get attitude for a long time than necessary, I start loosing interest and before you know it, the whole process will fade away only for her to be up on you latter when you must have moved on.

Cweetie:
Your pattern is detailed enough. Is it guaranteed? It worked for you abi?

yes

luvmijeje: Op shebi is a date not sleeping with him,not even yes to a serious relationship.Just want to know him better.
Please the answer is IMMEDIATELY.

See am typical naija babe - very hungry.

What are you waiting for?

Date him and get to know him better, from there you go know whether na serious issue or to move on with your life.

2 years

WackyJ1: As a guy. Don't waste too much time, do the things to ensure she falls in love with you then strike before you get put into Friendzone or ever worse brodazone

A friend is someone who knows u well(ur likes n dislikes). I can date my friend

As long as i can Endure.

mudistr: @op, it all depends
if you've known him for a long time, and he only just asked you out, you can start dating (including sex) him immediatiely
if you just met him, and you like him (you can start simple kisses the first week, and heavy smooching at the end of the month). by the end of 1.5 months, you can commense sex)
If you follow this patter, he won't consider u cheap

Lol

Seriously are you kidding me? If he/she digs you same way you dig them, what's there to wait? Okay, wait till you loose him/her to someone else.

WackyJ1: As a guy. Don't waste too much time, do the things to ensure she falls in love with you then strike before you get put into Friendzone or ever worse brodazone

I would prefer the firendzone or brodazone cos u might end up hating one another when the going isn't good..

phaya:



A friend is someone who knows u well(ur likes n dislikes). I can date my friend

It's not that kind of "friend" i'm talking about.. There are some guys that pass through the "friend phase" before they finally start dating the girl.
But for "FRIENDZONE" the girl likes you as a friend but for as little as 2 reasons she cannot date you, you might even be the MALE BESTIE. Ladies you know what i'm talking about