Imprida: No! as far as she is not cheating on you.

mabebe1: ask

WackyJ1:

Hmmm. So you wouldn't mind if he asks you about a guy that says hi to you (his name, where you met him e.t.c)?

Mynd_44: There is nothing bad in that

Imprida: it is very wrong to ask, means you dont truth your girl.

Imprida: so there is nothing wrong for your girl to ask you that question.

sexkillz: It's not wrong to ask, but it is wrong to be too inquisitive. What happened in the past stays in the past. You should know the person you are in a relationship with, so, that makes it reasonable to talk about the past, just for the sake of really knowing them better and knowing what they have been through before meeting you. If after you have discussed and accepted them along with their past, asking them periodically about their past smacks of immaturity on your part.

They have chosen to be with you, and you, with her. Any other barga is inconsequential. If any of her ex boyfriend is butting into her life, she reserves the right to tell you or not. If she tells you, how you handle it further showcases your maturity. If she doesn't tell you, doesn't mean she doesn't love you or that she is betraying your trust. If you find out somehow, swallow your foolish pride, listen to, and understand her

Her choosing to remain with you despite intrusions should send a loud and clear message to you, and you should make the most use of that, rather than castigating her at any given opportunity, taking a step forward into the future, and Five steps into the past.

Na headache you dey find, and you go get am wella. . .

WackyJ1:

Hmmm. So you wouldn't mind if he asks you about a guy that says hi to you (his name, where you met him e.t.c)?

sexkillz: It's not wrong to ask, but it is wrong to be too inquisitive. What happened in the past stays in the past. You should know the person you are in a relationship with, so, that makes it reasonable to talk about the past, just for the sake of really knowing them better and knowing what they have been through before meeting you. If after you have discussed and accepted them along with their past, asking them periodically about their past smacks of immaturity on your part.

They have chosen to be with you, and you, with her. Any other barga is inconsequential. If any of her ex boyfriend is butting into her life, she reserves the right to tell you or not. If she tells you, how you handle it further showcases your maturity. If she doesn't tell you, doesn't mean she doesn't love you or that she is betraying your trust. If you find out somehow, swallow your foolish pride, listen to, and understand her

Her choosing to remain with you despite intrusions should send a loud and clear message to you, and you should make the most use of that, rather than castigating her at any given opportunity, taking a step forward into the future, and Five steps into the past.

Na headache you dey find, and you go get am wella. . .

mabebe1: i wudnt mind at al, we gist n joke abt anytin n evrytin. I used 2 tel him d no of guys dat asked me out. Its fun esp wen d trust z der. U shud try it

WackyJ1:
@imprida and luvmijeje, what do you think about this?

Imprida: all girls are not the same.

WackyJ1:
Oho!!

WackyJ1:
oga Sexkills. I'm talking about the present, we've moved past the past. I'm talking about current guys, colleagues and male friends..

The answer is No!

Don't be inquisitive. If you love her, you'll give her that respect and trust. Questioning her about guys and colleagues and male friends is questioning her trust, and her loyalty to you, and that is nothing short of a slap on her face. . . An insult!

Love is a very strong emotion and it surpasses feelings of insecurity and jealousy and the unhealthy spirit of inquisitiveness. When you love someone, you should love the person to the full, and not out of compulsion, or hype. Allow them reinforce that choice of being with you. They had so many choices before choosing you, therefore, keep giving them a reason to always love you and prove that love by remaining in the relationship with you. Don't ever make them regret choosing you. They day you become a pain in her azz, you are gone!

Remember that there is no way on earth a lady won't gain male admiration and attention. In the streets, in the bus, in the class, in the eatery, in the office. EVERYWHERE!!!

How many you wan ask? Are you a learner?

Allow her to mingle and give her reasons to always choose you as number 1 over and over again. By the way, she is not officially yours and you interrogate her like this, what if she becomes your wife? Or do you think she won't talk to guys and colleagues and friends because she married you? You are not omnipresent. You cannot know everything. An overload of information about her friends and colleagues will be catastrophic to your ministry. . . .

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