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Re: Why Would A Man Leave His Woman After A Long Relationship? by topup: 11:15pm On Aug 08, 2008
proo212:

Topup, this is one of the best posts I have read from you (given what you're going through). Both sexes stay because the other person is familiar. Both sexes also leave when they feel they have had enough. This is not a guy thing, like some of our sisters will have us believe. (he's got what he wants or given the best years of her life) It depends on who can exist endure the most. Some people are content to cheat, whilst some will leave. Some will exist and be happy with it because they are getting laid regularly and no one else will look at them twice. What I would fault is why did he stay that long??

What works for one couple will not work for the other couples. Some will say the grass is definitely not greener. It's not black or white


Thanks! cheesy

That is true, why did he stay for such a long time? But you can only really look at that if you consider his lifestyle. A relationship between two people who see each other everyday for long periods of time, will go through each phase much quicker than one in which the two people involved see each other once a week.

Another reason could just be that for the past 3 years and 364 days he has been living in a lie, in denial. Or maybe believed that he could hack it through. I have a friend who has been going out with his girlfriend for almost 2 years now, and he repeatedly uses the fact that two years is a long time to know someone, as a reason why he just can't let it go, though him and his girfriend fight continuously over the same issue. He believes that they can overcome it, maybe the guy genuinely did believe that he could overcome whatever hang up he had about the relationship.

Because the girl is actually confused as to why he left, I'd say he never opened up to her any sign of doubt, though maybe she just was in denial herself. If the love you two have is not progressing and increasing, you really have to look and see why not. When a relationship halts, and the only thing to prove it's development is time, as in, there are no changes, nobody's growing, nobody's getting closer or becoming more open, you have to realise that if you don't nip this at this stage then it could get worse.
Re: Why Would A Man Leave His Woman After A Long Relationship? by tommyex(m): 4:16pm On Aug 09, 2008
because it got too long 4 him
Well he doesnt love his woman afterall so its allowed
Re: Why Would A Man Leave His Woman After A Long Relationship? by Nobody: 4:47pm On Aug 09, 2008
Why would a man leave a woman at all?? Thats the outcome of jumping into a r/ship. A guy meet a girl, takes her out the first day, and wants her to go home with him so that he can sleep with her.

But thats not the way to do things. First you get to know the girl, watch her from a distance, get to know her, before you even ask her out. Even at that, whats the rush in having sex with her? If you guys are compatible, you could end up sleeping with her for the rest of your life.

But no, because they are players, they want to have everything as soon as they can, then they look for one flimsy excuse why the cant date her, and then walk out leaving the girl heartbroken and feeling sorry for herself. Too bad we girls always fall for their crap sad
Re: Why Would A Man Leave His Woman After A Long Relationship? by proo212(m): 2:46am On Aug 10, 2008
Oh lord, here we go again, Who mentioned sex now?? I swear some people are totally clueless. It has to be the man's fault abi?

Another deluded creature who thinks women are always the victims.
Re: Why Would A Man Leave His Woman After A Long Relationship? by Nobody: 12:23pm On Aug 11, 2008
proo212:

Oh lord, here we go again, Who mentioned sex now?? I swear some people are totally clueless. It has to be the man's fault abi?

Another deluded creature who thinks women are always the victims.

Before nko? Maybe not ALWAYS, but mostly!!

I think the world would have been a better place without the type of mem we have hanging around these days.
Re: Why Would A Man Leave His Woman After A Long Relationship? by Nautillus(m): 12:29pm On Aug 11, 2008
Time invested is done to try to KNOW the other individual. . . .

IF, the VIBE is wrong . . .ANYONE . . .can leave . . . .ITS NOT A GUY THING
Re: Why Would A Man Leave His Woman After A Long Relationship? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Aug 11, 2008
So how come its the guys that leave 80% of the time??
Re: Why Would A Man Leave His Woman After A Long Relationship? by Hannibal: 5:40pm On Aug 11, 2008

Why Would A Man Leave His Woman After A Long Relationship?

--If she snores
--If she cheats
--If she is discovered to have kept a big secret.
--Many more.
Re: Why Would A Man Leave His Woman After A Long Relationship? by thupsie(m): 3:17pm On Oct 21, 2008
What about a lady that leaves a man! undecided angry

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