beau49:
Wow.....did u jes read wat u wrote? N lemme ask u,those dat av 'freely' given u there pussy where r dey in ur life rite nw?

Ubong(aka RedBenson), hope you see that question staring at you?

It's your life and how you wanna live it, but honestly I wonder why you act this way.

If sex the ultimate to you,it isn't to everybody.

You talk about this sex ish too often. I know you are a regular sexuality section fan and I also believe you know kaymanj or so... That guy has got some good sexual encounter and he often has women come back for more. I know this cos i have seen him at NAF too but you hardly find him brag about it or talk about sex so often.

What's wrong if a girl refuse to have sex or chose to live her life the way she feels comfortable with?

Remember you have a sister... Is this what you would advice her? If you don't have a sister, you will have a daughter in the future. What advice will you give her?

Bro, you a matured man. Do the needful like a gentleman.

Haba...

beau49:

Tanx 4 ur reply u made sum gud point....

Wat I meant abt nt feelin any of my toasters is dat d likeness n attraction is jes nt der n I dnt wanna force d feelings or date out of pressure...

I knw most guys wud ask 4 sex weda or nt he gives me money or gifts buh being financially independent wud giv me an hedge n I wud av a say unlike wen m overly dependent on him.

Me telling a guy let's b friend first b4 anytin else is lyk sayin'u don't knw me n I dnt knw u dat much,so let's take tinz slow n steady n if @ d long run we lyk wat we see den we can go ahead''...dis is after is has made his intensions of dating me known.

Thanks again 4 takin time 2 reply,u av really helped a lot...#cheers!

Girl, just ride on with that mentality!

Wonderful piece by 2sexy.
However, a part of me feels all his rants are just a way of forming bad boy on here, I doubt he actually thinks that way.

temi4fash:

You welcome..

is it compulsory for u get ti get attracted on d first day to your potential bf before u can date him

Not dat it is compulsory buh atleast there must be sumtin b4 I decide so I dnt end up dating sum1 I don't like....#dat wud b terrible

2s£xy:
Girl, just ride on with that mentality!

Tanx a bunch...wud sure do#Lord Help Me

beau49:

Wow.....did u jes read wat u wrote? N lemme ask u,those dat av 'freely' given u there pussy where r dey in ur life rite nw?Well if any of those issues arises,b sure dat we wud luk 4 solutions n nt mk it public so pple like u can gloat!

You obviously dont understand how relationships work. You dont go into a relationship most times with the mindset that it will lead to the altar. U just go into one to mingle and push away loneliness. During the period u catch fun and enjoy urself sexually and otherwise while it lasts. U dont expect every rlatnship to head to the altar. If it's destined that way, nature would take its course. Did u understand me?

passionate88: Easier said than done. Think about when you started dating newly, if a guy had given you things like this would you have accepted it with happiness?, wouldn't u have discussed abt him with ur friends and laughd over his "brokeness" and hw he should go get money b4 thinkin of dating cos afterall "no b love u go chop".

Tanx bro. U just nailed it. Easier said than done.

passionate88: Are there girls who can date a guy without gifts or favours?.

yes, those kind of girls are still around you

carmelion:

I would have gone ahead to tell you about my very first love.He gave me the little he had even ashe was yet to get secure a job.But let me save
you the story,of why we didn't get married even though he gave me a
ring, cos you won't believe me.You always have something negative to say
about girls.

Never mind...one day someone will walk into your life and make you see
things differently.I just hope it happens soon

I won't write on this again.Perharps somebody else will take it from
here.

*draws her back*

Come back here and be the one who walks into his life and make him see things differently. Prove it urself jare!

2s£xy:


Ubong(aka RedBenson), hope you see that question staring at you?

It's your life and how you wanna live it, but honestly I wonder why you
act this way.

If sex the ultimate to you,it isn't to everybody.

You talk about this sex ish too often. I know you are a regular
sexuality section fan and I also believe you know kaymanj or so... That
guy has got some good sexual encounter and he often has women come back
for more. I know this cos i have seen him at NAF too but you hardly find
him brag about it or talk about sex so often.

What's wrong if a girl refuse to have sex or chose to live her life the
way she feels comfortable with?

Remember you have a sister... Is this what you would advice her? If you
don't have a sister, you will have a daughter in the future. What advice
will you give her?

Bro, you a matured man. Do the needful like a gentleman.

Haba...

Heard!!! Now b4 i reply u, are u he or she? Just asked cos i want to know how i put my tune.

alutacontinua: Wonderful piece by 2sexy.
However, a part of me feels all his rants are just a way of forming bad boy on here, I doubt he actually thinks that way.

Oh, am pleased here. Didnt know u luv me this much coming here to act in defence for me. Thanks dear. Am not a bad boy, dont mind me online but i culd be a bit naughty on bed with a .... u know what am saying.

RedBenson:

Oh, am pleased here. Didnt know u luv me this much coming here to act in defence for me. Thanks dear. Am not a bad boy, dont mind me online but i culd be a bit naughty on bed with a .... u know what am saying.

Thunder fire your left yansh

RedBenson:

You obviously dont understand how relationships work. You dont go into a relationship most times with the mindset that it will lead to the altar. U just go into one to mingle and push away loneliness. During the period u catch fun and enjoy urself sexually and otherwise while it lasts. U dont expect every rlatnship to head to the altar. If it's destined that way, nature would take its course. Did u understand me?

You are spewing out rubbish bro...
As a matured guy or lady, how will you enter a relationship without having a mindset of it leading to the altar? You mean everyone like yourself, should keep dating just for the fun of it?? Wise up bro before it gets too late... *Smhfu*

LogoDWhiz:
You are spewing out rubbish bro...
As a matured guy or lady, how will you enter a relationship without having a mindset of it leading to the altar? You mean everyone like yourself, should keep dating just for the fun of it?? Wise up bro before it gets too late... *Smhfu*

You are obviously saying what u dont understand. Did i tell u am looking for a lady to take to d altar? If i may ask, u dat has been having d mindset of leading relationships to d altar, how many have u done so? And talking abt too late, dude, this is an undergraduate u are referring to. Do u want me to combine studies with marriage? If a girl knows i am an undergraduate and she still dates me, why would she expect the clause of leading to the altar or are u saying i shldnt date a girl or a girl shldnt date me cos am not ready to take her to the altar? If destiny decides we stay 2gether by going to d altar, then fine, but she shldnt expect such before going into one with me.

alutacontinua:

Thunder fire your left yansh

How abt my right yansh? May i use it to yansh u on bed. dammit!

beau49:

Not dat it is compulsory buh atleast there must be sumtin b4 I decide so I dnt end up dating sum1 I don't like....#dat wud b terrible

Nobody wants u to date some one u dont lik.. Av gat sisters too and i wont wish them dat.. I just want you to know that its not everyone dat will get that luxury of getting attracted to their partner at first glance but as they procede in the course of friendship they might get attracted to each other.. as have said its might work and mayb not work for u.. i just want u to keep an open mind that all.. and remember to always pray..

N.B: the path you av chosen is a very strong one and its against the status quo i just want u to knw their b alot of thorns on the way, a lot of pressure , lot of mockings and so on.. but dont do anything u will look back and regret doing.. i wish the very Best of luck and I pray the lord grants u and all of us the desires of our heart...

Sowi for the sermon...

takia

RedBenson:

You are obviously saying what u dont understand. Did i tell u am looking for a lady to take to d altar? If i may ask, u dat has been having d mindset of leading relationships to d altar, how many have u done so? And talking abt too late, dude, this is an undergraduate u are referring to. Do u want me to combine studies with marriage? If a girl knows i am an undergraduate and she still dates me, why would she expect the clause of leading to the altar or are u saying i shldnt date a girl or a girl shldnt date me cos am not ready to take her to the altar? If destiny decides we stay 2gether by going to d altar, then fine, but she shldnt expect such before going into one with me.

You are getting things wrong... Yes, you are an undergraduate but u shouldn't treat every relationship u enter as if its for fun.... Be committed, u don't neccesarily have to have that kind of mindset cos you are still young, but don't have the other mindset...

Stupidity,immaturity,foolishness..all in one man..the need for counselling..#justsaying

The worst thing that can happen to a single advanced lady is no husband,no money.

So can we concentrate on making money while waiting?

#just saying

daraloiste: Stupidity,immaturity,foolishness..all in one man..the need for counselling..#justsaying

U meant ur village head?

*whistling and strolling by* *waving-hello everybody*

i kinda agree with Redbenson.....
if every body treats d relationship with the view of heading to the altar, then there wudnt be any fun in it. the mindset should be treat every relationship for fun, and if both parties are fond enough of each other enuf i.e till a point of not imagining life without the other, the obvious would certainly set in i.e leading to a marriage. basically u have to be very good friends first, you dnt have to be a wife/husband 1st before becoming friends that's putting the cart before the horse. unfortunately girls/guys get to a certain age and then start looking for husby/wifey material

disclaimer
fun doesnt necessarily mean yanshing

Eneze1:

yes, those kind of girls are still around you

Super story

passionate88: Super story

to you, date the right person and stop running after girls that are fixing Brazilian hair of 100k without any source of livelihood

Eneze1:

to you, date the right person and stop running after girls that are fixing Brazilian hair of 100k without any source of livelihood

I DON'T "RUN AFTER GIRLS". Why do girls assume that it's all guys that chases girls?. I haven't done that b4.

U actually took the time to read all pages?! I lost strength somhwr inbetween. I salute your patience & endurance..u must be a really committed and devoted person...a wifey material indeed. I'm tripped! Can we be friends? Me is single and won't mind being friend.

It'salie:
wooooooooow!! Lyk big Wooow!!!!.

I took my time to read from page 1 to page 175, though it took me almost two wks but i didnt mind cos it was worth every second of my time.

Carmydoll, you are a darling, THUMBS UP TO YOU.

you might not know it but u hv really touched so many lives (especially mine) and prevented me from makin more mistakes, but at d same time understanding dat life is a risk only dat one should thread with caution and use ones head.

TUALE Carmydoll, infact i love u, (am not a lez though)

To others dat v made meaning contributions-- dailynews, maya, missblanche, nbright, aluta, 2sexy, passionate etc etc, 10 gbosas for una. 3 extra for passionate dat made it dis far.

am single and lonely though, i tot i was d only one passing tru d stage,and i was beginning to think am abnormal until i came across dis thrend. tanx Carmydoll, i hv learnt a lot!

Ykman!:
U actually took the time to read all pages?! I lost strength somhwr inbetween. I salute your patience & endurance..u must be a really committed and devoted person...a wifey material indeed. I'm tripped! Can we be friends? Me is single and won't mind being friend.

Omo see gobe! See indirect toasting o. Gudluck sha.

9ce thread I must say,kudos 2 d Op dt created ds timely thread,
Wldnt mind meeting a cool,level headed,God fearing chick with gud height 2 march,preferably a grad,and as 4 me,am gudlukin,fun 2 b wit,5'9" tall,and a strong bliver of d WORD,here's my pin:2B1B3185

Merry christmas to all the single ladies here.its a joyful season


By the way,I heard that plenty guys came back home from Malaysia,Is it true?...haahahahaha.

He might see you this season you know.Have fun(sensibly of course)

carmelion: The worst thing that can happen to a single advanced lady is no husband,no money.

So can we concentrate on making money while waiting?

#just saying

That's frustation

Its more frustrating when you don't have money as well.

temi4fash:

Nobody wants u to date some one u dont lik.. Av gat sisters too and i wont wish them dat.. I just want you to know that its not everyone dat will get that luxury of getting attracted to their partner at first glance but as they procede in the course of friendship they might get attracted to each other.. as have said its might work and mayb not work for u.. i just want u to keep an open mind that all.. and remember to always pray..

N.B: the path you av chosen is a very strong one and its against the status quo i just want u to knw their b alot of thorns on the way, a lot of pressure , lot of mockings and so on.. but dont do anything u will look back and regret doing.. i wish the very Best of luck and I pray the lord grants u and all of us the desires of our heart...

Sowi for the sermon...

takia

I understand wat u mean......I guess u r rite tannx a bunch n I dnt mind d sermon @ all.