After breaking up from a 4 year relationship, how long does it take you to move on?

Hmmm..Dt wld be hard buh luckily I avnt experienced it

Wot sort of question is ds?
Do u knw u've narrowed ur question to only those who ad a broken relationship of 4yrs or more?
Anyone with a lesser yr is nt eligible to reply?
Oya, re-phrase ur english lor

Goshhhhhh------it rilli requires ur soul nd body strength to match ova---is a slow but steady process----nt 4 anyone to witness

KINGwax: Wot sort of question is ds?
Do u knw u've narrowed ur question to only those who ad a broken relationship of 4yrs or more?
Anyone with a lesser yr is nt eligible to reply?
Oya, re-phrase ur english lor

No

Lol, op you're a proper nit-wit!
As if there is a defined conventional timeline for soul healing. Even for wound healing sef, the time varies.
A number of factors determine how long it takes, ranging from personality, cause of the break to the suddeness of the break, thus asking such an open ended question is quite useless.
Also someone that hasnt experienced it for the exact 4 years will never know how it feels!

I heard that it takes at least half of the amount of time you were together to totally move on from a relationship. So if you were together for four years, at least two years to heal. But then again everyone's different.

until she finds someone else lol.

what kinda question is this?

It depends on many factors like:

Who did the ending of the relationship and why
When you might choose to move on
If you are open enough and end up meeting someone
The kind of person you are

Ive been in a 9 month relationship and took more than 2 years to move on( I know,kinda pathetic!)
Ive been in a relationship of a few years and was ready to move on quickly

Just depends

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Flashaldrin: Lol, op you're a proper nit-wit!
As if there is a defined conventional timeline for soul healing. Even for wound healing sef, the time varies.
A number of factors determine how long it takes, ranging from personality, cause of the break to the suddeness of the break, thus asking such an open ended question is quite useless.
Also someone that hasnt experienced it for the exact 4 years will never know how it feels!

Come off this joor, are you telling me there is no such thing as average even in a relationship?
People could probably come and give how long it took them to move on and he can deduce the average time it may take joor! No one person is the same but we still do get averages.

Scratches head
Even 2weeks relationship sef needs some time to get ova not to talk of 4years
Wow

Flashaldrin: Lol, op you're a proper nit-wit!
As if there is a defined conventional timeline for soul healing. Even for wound healing sef, the time varies.
A number of factors determine how long it takes, ranging from personality, cause of the break to the suddeness of the break, thus asking such an open ended question is quite useless.
Also someone that hasnt experienced it for the exact 4 years will never know how it feels!

And for calling the OP a nit-wit you became a zilch-wit.

well. buffie...if.I part.way with my hubby I will never remarry. I.want my kids.to.have one.daddy and I.am not into.sleepin wwith many men.

I.dont think.I.will.never heal.as.fast.

Mrs.Chima:
well. buffie...if.I part.way with my hubby I will never remarry. I.want my kids.to.have one.daddy and I.am not into.sleepin wwith many men.

I.dont think.I.will.never heal.as.fast.

hmmmm....same for me too.

Lord_Reed:

And for calling the OP a nit-wit you became a zilch-wit.

which makes you a dumb-wit.

kandiikane:

Come off this joor, are you telling me there is no such thing as average even in a relationship?
People could probably come and give how long it took them to move on and he can deduce the average time it may take joor! No one person is the same but we still do get averages.

and of what advantage will the average be to him?
The average wont give him a clue as to how it would work out for him.
The average would also be false, as it would take someone that has satisfied the exact four years for the answer to be right.
Thus the fact that he is asking a specific question that will generate many useless and incorrect answers that wont help him anyway makes him a nit-wit.
The fact i'm explaining this to you makes you a zilch-wit (whatever that means )

Mrs.Chima:
well. buffie...if.I part.way with my hubby I will never remarry. I.want my kids.to.have one.daddy and I.am not into.sleepin wwith many men.

I.dont think.I.will.never heal.as.fast.

its not just that. The thing is, no one would agree to take you again. No offeinse.

Flashaldrin:
its not just that. The thing is, no one would agree to take you again. No offeinse.

speaking.from.experience.virgin boy? offense intended.

keep searching.a chick.wud.feel sorry.for.u.and.u.wont be a 40 years old.virgin.

oh.that's.right...u.r.a.gay. my bad!!

Flashaldrin:
and of what advantage will the average be to him?
The average wont give him a clue as to how it would work out for him.
The average would also be false, as it would take someone that has satisfied the exact four years for the answer to be right.
Thus the fact that he is asking a specific question that will generate many useless and incorrect answers that wont help him anyway makes him a nit-wit.
The fact i'm explaining this to you makes you a zilch-wit (whatever that means )

Grow up. I'm sure many have been in a relationship for more than four years or so.


@chima, seriously? I don't believe that. I can just imagine the cobwebs. trust me, living your life for your kid alone is not healthy. Humans have needs especially women and you also would want to be taken cared of.

kandi.I.said.remarry not date.

It will depend on why we broke up and long we have been having problems in the relationship

Flashaldrin:

The fact i'm explaining this to you makes you a zilch-wit (whatever that means )

And the fact that you don't know what zilch is shows how far your wit extends - not much above a gutter.