i just want to hear your opinion on how you feel when you see any grown up man either a cousin or dad, uncle, neighbour etc. I signifies great pain. I saw a man cry and i ask him to takecare and that it is well but i'm too young ask him what happened. What do you think?

A man cry? C'mon. Real men don't cry. I can't imagine myself crying. You wanna ask eventhough I lost a loved one? Yes. I won't 'cos my tears won't bring the person back to life. I may feel touched to the marrow, but to cry? No sir! However, anytime I see a man crying, I'll just say to myself that this one is not a man, rather a boy.

Everybody express their emotions differently. There is nothing bad when a man cries, I will console him.

eyenCalabar: A man cry? C'mon. Real men don't cry. I can't imagine myself crying. You wanna ask eventhough I lost a loved one? Yes. I won't 'cos my tears won't bring the person back to life. I may feel touched to the marrow, but to cry? No sir! However, anytime I see a man crying, I'll just say to myself that this one is not a man, rather a boy.

A man who cries is never a boy but only expressing his emotions outardly which is only natural. Some men have the ability to contain their emotions while others can't. For those who can't are no less man enough. Scientifically, its even heathy to cry. So stop bottling up ur feelings and let out a good cry. Its natural and healthy.

Seeing a man cry is no big deal, doesnt grown up women cry too? The way we handle emotion differs, if someone is really emotionally robbed and feels like crying, pls, let him do, its even healthier like that than bottling up one's emotion, but what will make a man cry must be very weighty and highly challenging, however, i will prefer d man to be left alone without being consoled, when he is thru, he will think strait and be consoled from within.
Personally, when im crying, i dont like pple consoling me, i love expressing my emotion that way, and by d time im through with my crying, an ocean of ideas would have flown on my head as regards d next line of action.
May God help us all.

these are real ideas from real men...thanks

Nothing wrong with a man crying if he has to.
Doesn't make him less of a man that he is.
Even most of these men that act all toughened up cry when alone with themselves.
...and how do I feel?
Indifferent mostly.Emotions need to be let out not bottled all up inside.

chaircover: I feel like putting my church hands round him

Christian Mother arms you mean

Poster, nothing wrong with a man crying, when we go through loss or hard times we cry and comfort each other, better than bottling up, forming fake bragado and falling down dead one day from over load of emotions. Better than going to "drink" ya sorrows away.

eyenCalabar: A man cry? C'mon. Real men don't cry. I can't imagine myself crying. You wanna ask eventhough I lost a loved one? Yes. I won't 'cos my tears won't bring the person back to life. I may feel touched to the marrow, but to cry? No sir! However, anytime I see a man crying, I'll just say to myself that this one is not a man, rather a boy.

i just feel like boxing u direct on ur nose nw wt this ur reply.

It depends on why he is crying. If he is crying because he doesn't have money to meet up his financial responsibilities, I don't feel pity instead I feel like dragging him off his feet and taking him to a construction site to carry cement.
Men have learnt how to cry for silly reasons so one has to be very careful, look beyond the tears; look at the real reason.

^^^^Holy christ, where have you been?

hbabe: It depends on why he is crying. I[b]f he is crying because he doesn't have money to meet up his financial responsibilities[/b], I don't feel pity instead I feel like dragging him off his feet and taking him to a construction site to carry cement.
Men have learnt how to cry for silly reasons so one has to be very careful, look beyond the tears; look at the real reason.

Please shed more light on the bolded, hehehehheeeeeeeeeeeeeee, Sagy and Dayo have been formally invited to this thread.
I am trying to imagine the kain jazz wey you dey use wey man go dey cry because pepper no rest. Please explain am so lost. What kind of financial responsibilities? School fees for kids? House rent or mortgage? Money for food? Wetin?
What will get so bad over money that a man will cry? You only cry about what cannot be replaced, money is just an item, people cry over real things like loss, failures (real failures), terminal illnesses, but to cry because money for pampers no dey haba

I have only seen Two men i know cry! Infact three...

The first was on the phone, if i had been around him then, he could have murdered me..but thankgod na for phone him do the thing...

The second was in my presence, i wanted to laugh but then i discover its no joke...human feelings sha . I respected myself and help dry his tears.

The third also was on the phone, he couldnt talk for almost 5min, trying to calm down, but the cattarh(I always dont know how to spell this, no time for dictionary) no gree am as he was just sniffing...

Dont ask who they are, they could be anybody!

I feel good...

Water don pass garri be dat

chaircover: I feel like putting my church hands round him

debrief08: Christian Mother arms you mean

hbabe: It depends on why he is crying. If he is crying because he doesn't have money to meet up his financial responsibilities, I don't feel pity instead I feel like dragging him off his feet and taking him to a construction site to carry cement.
Men have learnt how to cry for silly reasons so one has to be very careful, look beyond the tears; look at the real reason.

Preach!

I will never cry.

Whatever will make a grown man cry is really worth the tears. #candidme

eyenCalabar: A man cry? C'mon. Real men don't cry. I can't imagine myself crying. You wanna ask eventhough I lost a loved one? Yes. I won't 'cos my tears won't bring the person back to life. I may feel touched to the marrow, but to cry? No sir! However, anytime I see a man crying, I'll just say to myself that this one is not a man, rather a boy.

u get ur mouth to yarn shaa, jst pray dat such temptation no go reach ur side,real man indeed.

yuzedo: I feel good...

saddist

I never seen a man cry never seen a man die, I wonder why man cry

If you minus the nonsense tears Nolly actors shed in films and I'm faced with a real man crying,it will surely evoke my empathy. I'll really want to console him becos I know men usually don't cry. I once went back on my words when a man I knew cried because he needed something I had even though I knew he was a jerk(couldn't stand it). Men in tears seriously touch.

I'll b sorry 4 him

I feel normal cos there's nothing wrong when a man cries to express his emotions.

eyenCalabar: A man cry? C'mon. Real men don't cry. I can't imagine myself crying. You wanna ask eventhough I lost a loved one? Yes. I won't 'cos my tears won't bring the person back to life. I may feel touched to the marrow, but to cry? No sir! However, anytime I see a man crying, I'll just say to myself that this one is not a man, rather a boy.

a man crying is emotionally a communication to his Creator since his burden for crying cannot be carried by any human being. man is a spiritual being....

And I aint too proud to tell ya that I cry sometimes
I cry sometimes about it
And girl that shiit hurt
And aint nobody perfect, still we can make it work but you doubt it - J.Cole
Well, guess i'd just say ''cry cry man, i want to see ur mummy, SHAME!!!''
but seriously, it's very sad to see a man cry

DEPENDS ON THE KIND OF CRY. LOL @ DENZELS CRY WHEN HE WAS IN PRISON IN THE MOVIE MALCOLM X. HE SOUNDED LIKE A HOWLING WOLF.