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| Why Are You Still Married? by Tgirl4real(f): 3:33pm On Feb 13, 2013 |
Call it a resaerch... I see several people around me stay in marriage for different reasons other than cos they love their spouses. Some stay cos of their personal resolve. Some stay cos of the society - church influence, economic situation and all Some cos of their family Some cos of the kids. Lastly, (with the smallest percentage) some stay cos they love their spouses. From my observation, those that have stayed for reasons other than their personal resolve and the love of their spouses end up breaking up at a later year. So, it brings me to conclude that if all these external influences - societal pressure, family, church influence, kids and all are removed, most marriages would not last till their 3 anniversary. |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Feb 13, 2013 |
Same reason I got married in the first place . . . .  4 Likes |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by achinaboy(m): 3:57pm On Feb 13, 2013 |
Ujujoan: Same reason I got married in the first place . . . . |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by Tgirl4real(f): 4:22pm On Feb 13, 2013 |
Lol... Which is? |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by greatgod2012(f): 4:33pm On Feb 13, 2013 |
First and most importantly, because i love my hubby and i want to remain married to him, making him happy d same way he makes me happy. To be associated with my hubby. To cater, raise and ensure brighter future for our children together with their father. 6 Likes |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by achinaboy(m): 4:36pm On Feb 13, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: Lol...wonder why u wants to know why i got married  |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by Tgirl4real(f): 6:27pm On Feb 13, 2013 |
achina boy: wonder why u wants to know why i got married Lol It will help my research. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by Nobody: 11:19am On Feb 14, 2013 |
@OP,greatgod gave you my answer. |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by Nobody: 11:35am On Feb 14, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: Lol... Met a wonderful man . . . wanted to keep him all to myself! |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by Tgirl4real(f): 12:01pm On Feb 14, 2013 |
Ujujoan: Selfish geh! 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by Nobody: 12:03pm On Feb 14, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: LMAO . . before nko! See all the cretin-like men around now. A girl's gotta be smart about these things   |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by Tgirl4real(f): 12:05pm On Feb 14, 2013 |
Ujujoan: U can say dat again... Lol |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by achinaboy(m): 3:38pm On Feb 14, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: Lol...ok,i got married because i was in love,we met in a student hostel,4guys and she was the only girl,the other three guys was like trying to impress her,but for me i was in love with her the first day she moved in,it was like this is the girl i have been looking for so many years,but we never say hi to eachother for more than 4months,along the line,she was also in love without even saying hi to me,then one day i knocked on her door,she open and said can i help u?,i said yes, can i come in?she said yes,then i sat down,and then we talked for 5mins and i told her,am here because am inlove with u,and i would like to marry u if u permit me,and the story goes from there,after 8years with three kids,we are still in love like the day we met jah blesss 28 Likes |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by Nobody: 4:23pm On Feb 14, 2013 |
1: cos i love my hubby n wants to grow old with him. 2: becos of my kids want them to be nurtured and grow up under one roof with their parents. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by MrsSiena1(f): 4:48pm On Feb 14, 2013 |
He is the love of my life, we are inseperable, my soulmate. I am still married cos he is my DELTAN KING 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by scarred: 5:18pm On Feb 14, 2013 |
Ujujoan: Same reason I got married in the first place . . . . Ditto |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by feminineA: 6:17pm On Feb 14, 2013 |
Coz I love him. Love him everyday! He's just the best. Can't trade him for anyother |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by JallowBah(f): 12:33am On Feb 15, 2013 |
Because I love him. He is a good father, a good husband, and he always knows how to make me smile. |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by Tgirl4real(f): 9:40am On Feb 15, 2013 |
Awwww... How sweet! Are u guys telling me my observation is wrong? May be it's only those in love that are talking. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by Nobody: 10:54am On Feb 15, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: Awwww... How sweet! Lol . . . or maybe those not talking just don't want to share! 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by Tgirl4real(f): 11:38am On Feb 15, 2013 |
Ujujoan: Well... This must be d new family section of 2013 cos d women I know here are always eager to share about how loving their husband's are. |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by ferhyntorlah(f): 12:03pm On Feb 15, 2013 |
achina boy: ok,i got married because i was in love,we met in a student hostel,4guys and she was the only girl,the other three guys was like trying to impress her,but for me i was in love with her the first day she moved in,it was like this is the girl i have been looking for so many years,but we never say hi to eachother for more than 4months,along the line,she was also in love without even saying hi to me,then one day i knocked on her door,she open and said can i help u?,i said yes, can i come in?she said yes,then i sat down,and then we talked for 5mins and i told her,am here because am inlove with u,and i would like to marry u if u permit me,and the story goes from there,after 8years with three kids,we are still in love like the day we met jah blesss Awwww, this is so sweet. I wish you both more marital bliss. Eight years together, still in love and going strong. Men like you give someone like me hope that quality men still abound. 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by achinaboy(m): 3:44pm On Feb 15, 2013 |
it`s a matter of give and take,understanding is very important,allow the other person to talk while u listen,then she will also give u your own turn to talk while she listens,works most of the time,,,,,,,am not trying to push it |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by babarazy: 5:51pm On Feb 15, 2013 |
@Op, Why do u care? |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by tomakint: 5:52pm On Feb 15, 2013 |
Chineke me, which kind question be dis  Nairalanders and wonders, dem no dey carry last at all  |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by Troll: 5:55pm On Feb 15, 2013 |
[size=16pt]I Don't Plan To Get Married. I Want To Die Young, Single And Almost Famous Like Goldie [/size] |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by Nobody: 5:55pm On Feb 15, 2013 |
Why do u still ask irrelevant questions |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by Nobody: 5:59pm On Feb 15, 2013 |
TMI |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by Naijalane: 6:00pm On Feb 15, 2013 |
[size=55pt] What kind question bi this? JAMB, WAEC, POST UTME or what?[/size] |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by tomakint: 6:01pm On Feb 15, 2013 |
Troll: [size=16pt]I Don't Plan To Get Married. I Want To Die Young, Single And Almost Famous Like GoldieDude, be careful what you wished for, don't think it's just an online thing...words whether spoken or written have a way of influencing our future beware of the power of the tongue...I hope you will give my advise a thought 10 Likes |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by fairygeh(f): 6:06pm On Feb 15, 2013 |
Troll: [size=16pt]I Don't Plan To Get Married. I Want To Die Young, Single And Almost Famous Like Goldieo ma shey o 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are You Still Married? by tomakint: 6:08pm On Feb 15, 2013 |
Naijalane: [size=55pt] ...all of the aboveeeeeeeeeeeee |
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