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Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Maya2pretty(f): 11:55pm On Feb 21, 2013
Oahray: my interview babe don show smiley how far?
Ur not serious oh, am watchin u closely tongue
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by JuicyGee(f): 1:41am On Feb 22, 2013
Lyk criously?? Dis is duh 21st century.. U dnt expect me to leave ma houx nd com wash hips of clothes 4 a dude. I can do it once in a while, not dat it becomes a habit nd u keep storin dirty clothes coz u kw she will be comin by wk end 2 do de cleaning.
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Oahray: 7:09am On Feb 22, 2013
JuicyGee: Lyk criously?? Dis is duh 21st century.. U dnt expect me to leave ma houx nd com wash hips of clothes 4 a dude. I can do it once in a while, not dat it becomes a habit nd u keep storin dirty clothes coz u kw she will be comin by wk end 2 do de cleaning.
trust me, my clothes' hips don't lie smiley
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by pandorasbox1(m): 8:46am On Feb 22, 2013
[quote
author=luvmijeje]If na becos,I no do wifely duties dat's why he is not
going to ring it then he is not meant for me.[/quote]
for wat reason shud he ring it then? cos I'm sure no man is meant for u.
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by bukatyne(f): 8:54am On Feb 22, 2013
pak:


I was trying to read it but it was a bit difficult without the paragraphs, hence my comments.


I appreciate your taking the criticism in good faith though, its a rare trait amongst Nlanders
Thanks. I will paragraph and punctuate it so you can read. wink
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by miss20(f): 9:03am On Feb 22, 2013
:opeeps r still on dis matter??dats serious o.I tink it all boils down to if ur guy worths it.wat works for u may not work 4 anoda relationship.as somebody sed,d dyanamics of every relationship is different.so girls,if hiz a gud guy,do it all d way.bt if hiz nt worth it(its ur relationship nd u knw how)den.....I rest my case o
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by oribi(m): 12:19pm On Feb 22, 2013
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Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by oribi(m): 12:20pm On Feb 22, 2013
Whatz d stress lol bin readin dis my eye come pain...well if a girl feels dat helping her bf with his chores is stressful or nt worth it i guess d bf too is not her dad too 2 go out of his way to please.Love is mutual period..make all dis girls ere no dey form bruce lee..
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Nobody: 11:59am On Feb 23, 2013
Smart n classy wives don't lift a damn finger around d house
cuz they are smart to employ handymen/women(cuz we know how to spend Our Hubby' moni' ) grin
.
While DUMB girlfriend wash their asses off jst to get a Man put a ring
On it cry
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Nobody: 2:39pm On Feb 23, 2013
fairyprincess: Smart n classy wives don't lift a damn finger around d house
cuz they are smart to employ handymen/women(cuz we know how to spend Our Hubby' moni' ) grin
.
While DUMB girlfriend wash their asses off jst to get a Man put a ring
On it cry
ur husband if u will ever hav one is in serious trouble! Pls dnt quote me at all, else thunder go fire u o. Smh

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Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Idowuogbo(f): 2:40pm On Feb 23, 2013
Jenams: ur husband if u will ever hav one is in serious trouble! Pls dnt quote me at all, else thunder go fire u o. Smh
Lmfaoooo! Oga abeg pardon my belle na... Lwkmd!!!!!
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Idowuogbo(f): 2:42pm On Feb 23, 2013
fairyprincess: Smart n classy wives don't lift a damn finger around d house
cuz they are smart to employ handymen/women(cuz we know how to spend Our Hubby' moni' ) grin
.
While DUMB girlfriend wash their asses off jst to get a Man put a ring
On it cry
Kikikiki... Alice in wonderland! May God deliver u. Ewu!
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Adaeze003(f): 7:34pm On Feb 23, 2013
I'm old fashioned/traditional so I don't think I will. But any lady who wants to is free. Guess it depends on those involved. To each his own.
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by ConfidentVee(f): 8:03am On Feb 24, 2013
ItsModella:
you sef, why? what kind of assumption is this? how many guys have you even met? I hope this your generalization includes your brothers and father.
its includes my brothers and your brothers. I won't include fathers cos we are talking about bf here.
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Nobody: 8:14am On Feb 24, 2013
ConfidentVee: its includes my brothers and your brothers. I won't include fathers cos we are talking about bf here.
And what makes you think her father is not somebody's boyfriend?
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Nobody: 8:18am On Feb 24, 2013
The quantity of foolishness on display on this thread is staggering. Shout out to all my naija bimbos. A toast to all the fecked up children waiting to be born and raised.
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Nobody: 8:22am On Feb 24, 2013
fresh_dude: The quantity of foolishness on display on this thread is staggering. Shout out to all my naija bimbos. A toast to all the fecked up children waiting to be born and raised.

Lol.. Give one example cheesy

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Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Nobody: 3:50pm On Feb 24, 2013
CFCfan:

Lol.. Give one example cheesy
Nna, too many for mention.
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Feb 24, 2013
Jenams: ur husband if u will ever hav one is in serious trouble! Pls dnt quote me at all, else thunder go fire u o. Smh

I know how to control macho men like You after d first date U'll be on Your knees beggin to wash my Undies...
'ny Lady dat stoops so low to be an ordinary boyfriend' slave s a SILLY DESPERADO n CAPITAL LETTERS

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Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Idowuogbo(f): 7:21pm On Feb 24, 2013
fairyprincess:

I know how to control macho men like You after d first date U'll be on Your knees beggin to wash my Undies...
'ny Lady dat stoops so low to be an ordinary boyfriend' slave s a SILLY DESPERADO n CAPITAL LETTERS
Says d street d wh0re! Whoosh!
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Nobody: 7:26pm On Feb 24, 2013
Idowuogbo:
Kikikiki... Alice in wonderland! May God deliver u. Ewu!
Pray-tell when was d last tyme U did dishes or washed Ur Parents or older siblings Outfiit?
Ladies lik U whu pretend in relationship mkes ma bowel churn ....Ewe

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Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Idowuogbo(f): 7:29pm On Feb 24, 2013
fairyprincess:
Pray-tell when was d last tyme U did dishes or washed Ur Parents or older siblings Outfiit?
Ladies lik U whu pretend in relationship mkes ma bowel churn ....Ewe
Pretend? Dis Asaba area Slu.t gat jokes o! Biatch, don't get me started. To d left abeg! Goat!

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Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Nobody: 10:54pm On Feb 24, 2013
Idowuogbo:
Pretend? Dis Asaba area Slu.t gat jokes o! Biatch, don't get me started. To d left abeg! Goat!

I dnt trade words wit second class citizen' 4rm yaba left....kindly delete Ur presence frm ma space

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Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by chikeorji123(m): 11:36pm On Feb 24, 2013
Did l just miss the star match b/w ldowu & fairyprincess?..
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by dmcdad: 11:43am On Feb 25, 2013
favynikky: I have a friend that does it and it is quite disturbing.

What are your thoughts on this?
Personally I don't cut-out for that. I don't like it one bit. She aint my slave or something, why then would she be subjected to washing my things and the likes?

If a girl feels like, then she can but not with someone like me cause I wont take that as I don't like it....
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by ovalrose(f): 11:19am On Feb 26, 2013
Frankly,i see nothing wrong in doing house chores for my man. If i wil visit him,eat the food he probably prepared himself,lie on his bed,then i shouldnt call it a big deal to clean the cooking utensils and wash the bedsheeets and pillow cases for him. Cohabitation is merely a living situation with your man or woman,seeing that person more often on a daily basis. Sometimes,relationships actually improve when the couple cohabit. However,its different strokes for different folks.
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Jacqueline88(f): 2:07am On May 06, 2013
just a teeny weeny piece of advice dolls, cook, clean, vacum, wash, scrub very very well once in a blue moon y? Cos he has to know u can do these things..so he doesnt run for the hills overshakara babes!! (it proves that u really are wife material) but then show him its a privilege not a prerogative. Let him taste the darn milk so he wont hesistate to buy whole the darn cow!! Benevolence is not another name for weakness!

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Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by adabeke12(f): 5:48am On May 06, 2013
fairyprincess:

I dnt trade words wit second class citizen' 4rm yaba left....kindly delete Ur presence frm ma space

lool
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by Nobody: 12:35pm On May 06, 2013
If your heart is against it, then do not do it.

Personally when I visit a friend( male or female), I have the tendency to arrange things which are untidy. If any of them wants me to cook and I feel like: I do it at times I don't.

If your think it is wrong, don't do it!
If you thing it is right, do it!
Do not judge those who do/ do not

It is not a determinant to the success of a marriage!
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by ezemoses(m): 12:37pm On May 06, 2013
it turns me off when a girl is really trying hard
Re: Should A Lady Do House Chores For Her Boyfriend ? by bukatyne(f): 12:44pm On May 06, 2013
eze moses: it turns me off when a girl is really trying hard

LOL!

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