Good Morning.please my colegue has been dating this guy for months now and often times he mentions to her that he loves her but not to the extent that will lead to marriage.am worried about this friend of mine who has refused to move on claiming God told her that guy is her rightful partner.please do you think her staying in the relationship worth the time and prayer?

I'll be back

Please come back..really need an advise...

if the person wants marriage then relationship is worthless

Nkemmu

Re u the 1 or ur GF

Op tell ur friend to have a little pride and alot of self-esteem.No one deserve to listen to that crap and still hope on God.

tell your friend to come and read NL so in about a year she can post about how men are dogs for dating her for 8 years and then dumping her.

she is silly for thinking she heard the voice of God telling her this guy who is being brutally honest with her is the one for her. Even if the guy some how marries her, she would forever wonder if he really loves her

If she thinks he is her 'God's will' let her free him and go 2 God in prayers. If he is meant 4 her, God will touch his heart.
Its nt hard, but its tricky!

@mmm am not the one....my colegue i stated
@ Omega you know the truth is sometimes bitter they say...i have said all these to her but seems am loosing my friendship with her since am not encouraging her to 'fight for love'
@Sapphires dats a nice one there ..thanks

@OP
let that friend handle her own r/ship. if/when she realizes that this guy wont marry her, she can blame God for that......since HE told her that this guy was the one.

worthless as worthless can worthlessly be

Nigerians and this religious syndrome..if a guy tells me such, I would get myself busy with how to get away from the bond holding me back to him.

I had a friend who deluded herself for 6yrs just like ur friend did, the guy she was obsessed with even got married and she bought Aso-Ebi. kindly tell your friend to remove d blinders covering her eyes and let the one whom God has chosen for her enter her optical conea. A word is enuff for the wise.

[quote author=oleku baby]I had a friend who deluded herself for 6yrs just like ur friend did, the guy she was obsessed with even got married and she bought Aso-Ebi. kindly tell your friend to remove d blinders covering her eyes and let the one whom God has chosen for her enter her optical conea. A word is enuff for the wise.

thanks.she soo much love that guy...is such a nice guy doh.I know him in person.his honesty on the marriage issue shows his not them other guys wh will waste a girls time for nathin..I wish my friend knows his reasons of not wanting to marry her so she can probable work on it(if workable)to win the guy's heart...or what do you think she can do?

[quote author=oleku baby]I had a friend who deluded herself for 6yrs just like ur friend did, the guy she was obsessed with even got married and she bought Aso-Ebi. kindly tell your friend to remove d blinders covering her eyes and let the one whom God has chosen for her enter her optical conea. A word is enuff for the wise.

thanks.she soo much love that guy...his such a nice guy doh.I know him in person.his honesty on the marriage issue shows his not them other guys who waste girls time for nathin..I wish my friend knows his reasons of not wanting to marry her so she can probable work on herself(if workable)to win the guy's heart...or what do you think she can do?

She heard God shæ, so she doesn't need ur sympathy... Ehmm, advice.
If U're single U need to be careful oo. U may become her biggest enemy soon.

Thank you all for advices..after going through your comments and I decided to talk to her again yestaday friday,surprisely she told me she has tried walking away several times but observe any time she takes the decision'the guy will become unnecessarily angry with her,he keep caling to tell her he misses and love her...but when they gets back together again he will bring the not marrying her issue again so she's confused but just hanging with him to hope another better suitor comes around.note-they don't have intimate...together as she claim doh I know what she can do

See pharmacist nau!! Why u dey drink panadol for anoda pesin headache? If she is truely ur friend, she will take ur advice into conideration! Maybe she dey enjoy the straffe!!

nkemmu: Thank you all for advices..after going through your comments and I decided to talk to her again yestaday friday,surprisely she told me she has tried walking away several times but observe any time she takes the decision'the guy will become unnecessarily angry with her,he keep caling to tell her he misses and love her...but when they gets back together again he will bring the not marrying her issue again so she's confused but just hanging with him to hope another better suitor comes around.note-they don't have intimate...together as she claim doh I know what she can do

I am just seeing this one!!
Dese are the kind of stories dat touch ma kidneys!! For oda pipo, it dey touch heart, but for me na kidney!

Like seriously, the guy will call her back and she will go n meet him too!! Make she talk tru joor!

Her market value go soon loss oh! Make she go find hubby coz dat guy dey reduce her marketability and mr right won't come charging into her house like a tiff in d night!

Let her get out there and meet nu guys joor

See mother theresea!!

@abohrandy,I said they don't straf..

383 views with just 13 comments?c'mon you guys should stop viewing and start commenting..this is a serious matter oooo which need serious attentions not serious viewing!!!

Babe, what do dey meet and do? Praise n Worship??

Ask her what she gains from dis relationship wif dis guy? Dere must b sth keeping her to this guy coz to me the guy is just being selfish!!

nkemmu: @abohrandy,I said they don't straf..

383 views with just 13 comments?c'mon you guys should stop viewing and start commenting..this is a serious matter oooo which need serious attentions not serious viewing!!!

Dia keyboards are bad!!

@abohrandy,the guy is wonderful that I can attest to anytime,anywhere.again,she finks for once in her life she met someone who matches her, knows her fault and very comfortable with her.in addition,he has really impacted a lot on her because my friend use to be this 'worldly' but now religious..a lot more..reasons dear

As for the viewers keyboards you mentioned?let me think of which jazz to send for destruction..lol..

nkemmu: @abohrandy,the guy is wonderful that I can attest to anytime,anywhere.again,she finks for once in her life she met someone who matches her, knows her fault and very comfortable with her.in addition,he has really impacted a lot on her because my friend use to be this 'worldly' but now religious..a lot more..reasons dear

okay oh!! but she gotta move on wif her life oh time waits for no one!!!!

Bleep her once again and dump her

nkemmu: Good Morning.please my colegue has been dating this guy for months now and often times he mentions to her that he loves her but not to the extent that will lead to marriage.am worried about this friend of mine who has refused to move on claiming God told her that guy is her rightful partner.please do you think her staying in the relationship worth the time and prayer?

What is your problem? She said God told her he's her man and you're here asking us what we think about her staying with the man! Is our thinking going to change God's verdict?

Sapphire86: If she thinks he is her 'God's will' let her free him and go 2 God in prayers. If he is meant 4 her, God will touch his heart.
Its nt hard, but its tricky!

And in the meantime enjoy the single life.

Ladies who were se xually activity when they rock d world term to hav this challenge.
They fall -in obsession with any guy who comes into their lives and love them for who they are and neva takes se xual advantage of them.
Hweva, l dn't fink the OP is a true friend....