I saw this write up on facebook and decided to post it here.
Dear ladies,
Firstly… If you’re still
struggling to find a husband
at an old age because you’re
looking for a perfect man,
something is certainly wrong
with you. Now, your
propaganda magazine tells you
that ‘All men are liars, cheat
and useless’, but let’s be honest
here, which is more likely, is it
there is something wrong with
70 million African men? Or
there is something wrong with
one African women, YOU? The
truth is this, when a product is
not doing well, the sales team
doesn’t blame the customers,
they either blame the product or
sales and marketing strategy.
So ladies, have you being
marketing yourself? Do you
think you will be picked out of
the shelf and placed in a
basket of matrimony if you are
always hanging out with coven
of witches you call friends?
Those ladies who intimidated
any man who approaches you?
Hmm drinking yourself to
stupor every Friday and
Saturday night does not exactly
makes you looks like a marriage
materials. Neither will any
product (YOU) do well in the
market if the sales team (YOU)
reek of desperation. Nagging,
whining only tells a man that
he is watching a preview of
what will be like if he walks
down the aisle with you. If
your precious EX’s all
complained about your nags, get
a gag!
You want a husband? …. Invest
in a good wardrobe and dress
well. When a man comes to you,
smile and be polite even if he
doesn’t fit to your mental
image of your kindof man. At
18, most ladies already have an
image of her perfect
man,which includes height,
body type and wealth. As times
goes on, a lady will add more
qualities to her list. Such that
by the time she is dating for a
marriage, not a single man alive
can meet her exact standards.
Ladies, stop coming to
relationship with a chip on your
shoulder. If you believe all
men are ‘bad’ all men are Dogs,
then it will become a self
fulfilling prophesy. No man is
perfect, if you want to find a
perfect man, you will have to
do a Genesis chapter one and
make him out of clay, and
breathe life to him. And even
then, chances are, he may still
disappoint.
You say you can’t marry a blue
collar guy like a mechanic or
carpenter, now if a carpenter
was good enough to marry
Mary mother of the Jesus
Christ, why isn’t one good
enough for you? Do not focus
on where a man is now, but look
and see where he has the
potentials to be. Don’t focus on
some petty physical features
that are not up to your Mexican
soap-opera standards.
Hmm your dream man, will he
be faithful? Will he be a good
father to your kids and a good
husband to you? Will he love,
cherish and respect you? What
the point of being beaten to a
pulp every nightby some rich,
good looking and womanizer
jerk? Do you want a future
where you will sit in traffic in
your BMW X6, GUCCI sun
glasses covering your swollen
eyes and you look out of
window and see a happy couple
in 1972 Old Crap Non-silencer
Volks Wagen holding hands,
laughing and giggling like
new wedded couple even after
12years of marriage.
I believe wherever you are, its
full of good men, you’re just
so caught up day dreaming
about your fantasy man that
they are passing unnoticed
before your very eyes. Don’t be
cynical, fussy and uptight.
Improve your product, and how
it’s marketed and demand for
it will grow through the roof.
And remember you’r e competing
in a modern African market.
Don’ t fake pregnancy or get
pregnant to trap him, that
doesn’t works anymore!
Your perfect man is out there,
he may not look like what you
want or expect, but if you give
him a chance, the two of you
will find joy, companionship
and completion like you have
never thought possible.
Everybody can love a rose but it
takes a great heart to include
the thorns.
Wish you the best in your quest
for a life partner.
Hope u learnt something from it.

Smh. How did i miss my road 2 find my way in this miserable thread

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etoroh: Smh. How did i miss my road 2 find my way in this miserable thread

them force u to post?