NeeFEmi:
He's someone who has brought joy to my life.

Davico: At OP i know how u feel BUT There is no smoke without fire, u are not telling us the whole truth. This guy can not come up with this aligations without evidence so pls tell us the whole truth so that we can help u.tnx

baibijay@yahoo.:
from my opinion, he isnt in love with you...
advice: if you have to go with what his mum said, then you will kip tryin to make things work, hu knows one day he mit love you bac as much.

but if it ma problem, i would have left long before now, right from when he started givin all the attitude of not calling and so on..
knowing his parent doesnt mean he would love you, xo be wise, marriage isnt for 5years, its for - everrrr......

Le Ostrich: nah by force to date the guy?

Sniffa: If he doesnt love u anymore y dont u go?afterall is he the only man on earth and i think all he is saying is not mere accusation cos he cant tell u switch off ur phone when it always on and flirt with his friends when u dont,it might be de way u play with them or maybe he was just using u.

NeeFEmi:

Nope, not by force. I dnt praay for u to be in my shoe where one partner truly loves and the other doesn't. See it

KateSpade:

He doesn't trust you, asks for your passwords so he can spy on u and insults you. This doesnt sound like joy.

overdrive: Is he the last man standing u shld learn to appreciate and value u self before any man can take u serious.I advice u mourn him for some time then move on wt ur life no man (who doesn't value u)is worth having sleepless nights over.

alutacontinua:

Compare this ^ statement with ur signature and tell me if u were actually the one that typed both. After then, i can dish out my advice.

tellwsdom: How can he like you when you don't have a big yanshh

luvmijeje: Op when u love some1 then you respect that person.As babe to babe,if ur hand is truely clean ur phone is not suppose to be switch off.Your guy has a reason to be suspicious of u.
If u really love him,clean up ur act,as u can see,he is not a fool.

NeeFEmi:

Av tried asking him if he's willing to make this relationship work and
he's like he would ccall when he gets back home that he can't talk
now.

alutacontinua: well, this is a one-sided story and I don't like one-sided stories. But i promised to dish out my advice and here it goes:

Besides, why is your phone always off when you are with him? You can earn trust in your relationship, but you have to earn it, guyz don't just trust anyhow, especially our niger girls!

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baibijay@yahoo.:

dear it the right thing, you guys should talk about it. and work things out
i feel you have put alot of your feeling into this relationship and if it end you will feel vry bad.
all i can say is you try and be strong. hope for the best from you talk with him but still expect the worst...
wish you luck

starlight®®:
Too much of sex or lack of sex is involved here....i ve a feeling you cut out the bad part in your story anyways I think the guy has lost interest in the relationship..... take some timeout to breathe

alutacontinua: well, this is a one-sided story and I don't like one-sided stories. But i promised to dish out my advice and here it goes:
The guy you described above does not respect you one bit and I don't know how ladies cope with that but I can't. At the same time, i think this might be a trying time in your relationship(seems like the relationship is pretty young), so, i wouldn't say you should bail out just yet. Just have a good heart-to-heart talk with him and tell him you want to be treated like a princess. If he's not ready to do that, tell him he can't have you. Guys tend to take girls for granted when they notice that the girls are sooooooo much in 'love' with them. That's why a little bit of tough won't hurt, @least, till he learns to love and respect you.
If he continues with the act, then, maybe it's time to look elsewhere but the truth is "NO GUY DESERVES YOUR TEARS". And where is the joy thing coming from if he's been treating you like this since you started the relationship.
Besides, why is your phone always off when you are with him? You can earn trust in your relationship, but you have to earn it, guyz don't just trust anyhow, especially our niger girls!

NOTE: I'm giving out advice strictly based on your side of the story. Although, it seems to me like there is more to it. Have you ever had side boyfriends in your previous relationships or when you just started that he knows about

MRbrownJAY: bwaaaah! women and their one sided way of looking at life......see as the OP first started her story by numerating the stuff that this guy is doing that is "so wrong to her"...... no dp photo bla bla bla. i was expecting to read that she dumped him, but the catch was that the guy got fed up of her complaints and probably bounced out of the r/ship. now she is here asking us where is the love bla bla bla. lol!


@OP
if you had any clues about what love was (to begin with), then you would have accepted this man for who he was, and enjoy love life with him, instead of nagging till he ran away from you.
as for why your family never met him.........

here is MBJ's advice: a man doesnt want you, you move on with your life!

MRbrownJAY: ^^^^ how can you say that you accepted the guy for who he was, yet COMPLAIN about the stuff that you supposedly accepted?! lol! abeg make some sense in your posts. if you love someone, then take them as they are, and love them, basta!!!!! dont come up with IFs, BUTs or MAYBEs. now you thought (like most women) that you could change a man, and it backfired on you. oh well

baibijay@yahoo.:

tell me what i dont know.

How far??...msg me...do u wear g-strings?