But why naa? I have a son now and a brother.I dont get what in this entire world would make me want to be a THREAT,THREAT and in this case take the life of my DIL or SIL .Who are these people?If i dont like her sebi i will kuku sit in my house and we will saying fake hello hello when our paths cross.Gosh.geez.

Life is really really not that hard or serious.I dont get it. .I guess thats why we are different sha.

ileobatojo: I think the bigger issue here is still the I must be married by force culture. That is still the underlying reason why the woman didn't throw the MIL out of her house. The fear of her husband throwing her out would not allow her. Also because of the 'I must be Mrs by force' she kept coming back to the home after moving out even though the situation was unchanged.

Absolutely positively correct!!!

Read the thread debrief posted and you will see the issue is exactly what you have depicted here.

Until we start relating to one another on human being to human being level where no one is more important than the other and stop believing set of people have more rights than others. ...issues like these will continue to happen.

Culture should not over shadow normal human being relations. The fact that mother in laws are supposed to be put on a pedestal in our culture does not mean one can't demand to be treated like a human being. The fact that it is a good thing to be married does not mean one should becomes less of a human being to remain so.

Efe I totally understand where you are coming from blaming the wife but let's be honest how many people would have told her to stay away compared to those who will "advice" her to stay?!!

damiso: But why naa? I have a son now and a brother.I dont get what in this entire world would make me want to be a THREAT,THREAT and in this case take the life of my DIL or SIL .Who are these people?If i dont like her sebi i will kuku sit in my house and we will saying fake hello hello when our paths cross.Gosh.geez.

Life is really really not that hard or serious.I dont get it. .I guess thats why we are different sha.

Some people are simply evil troublemakers.

Lesson well learned-

So if you chose not to fight nor throway your mother inlaw then you are suffering from 'I must marry by force syndrome'
Epic! Profound!

You people better warn your friend o. She will soon find what she's looking for one day.

Mtcheeeew !!!

Sisi, I don't blame the wife. Not one bit - simply because the scales were tipped against her (re: culture, people's perception of her {including her parents!} if she walked out, her husband viewed as never in the wrong, pastors / religious leaders that would have told her to go back & fast and pray harder...)

No, I blame her parents for making/letting her go back there...especially her mother.

I would like for such mothers to come out here and tell us how it really feels now, to have a dead-married-daughter as opposed to a living-divorced-daughter.

A grown a*ss woman going from thread to thread pulling this same shyte despite being ignored countless of times. If I answer, she and her id*iotic amebo apologists will start spewing rubbish about bullying (and I'm not referring the the person who sent a nice pm).

I've said my own. Keep looking for it, you will soon find what you're looking for.

God pls we ladies r not greedy so we only beg 4 a nice Mother inlaw IJN Amen!

Ohhhh you already got your leash pm and you're still ranting like a rabid dog that you are? Pele e go beta ...
Looks left and right... Ignored ? By who? Oh you ? Come on you know you're a nonentity to me .. wannabe fool ...
Amebo apologists? Ummm , now who could that be?
ASHI!

ileobatojo: A grown a*ss woman going from thread to thread pulling this same shyte despite being ignored countless of times. If I answer, she and her id*iotic amebo apologists will start spewing rubbish about bullying (and I'm not referring the the person who sent a nice pm).

I've said my own. Keep looking for it, you will soon find what you're looking for.

Hian

pastie: Wish her quick recovery

Read the headline again. Did you not just read that SHE DIED?

Women are an endangered species in Nigeria. RIP

Oops! This story don make front page...

jidegirl12: Ohhhh you already got your leash pm and you're still ranting like a rabid dog that you are? Pele e go beta ...
Looks left and right... Ignored ? By who? Oh you ? Come on you know you're a nonentity to me .. wannabe fool ...
Amebo apologists? Ummm , now who could that be?
ASHI!

Please carry on. Display your local madness for the world to see. Razz thing.

I've never seen such a brainless human being before in my life. If someone is a nonentity to you, then why go around stalking their posts and making snide remarks constantly? Do you have any common sense? Re*tard.

Smh. Wat a world!!!

pastie: Wish her quick recovery

Did you even read the title let alone the post itself before posting?

pastie: Wish her quick recovery

They stabbed someone to death,ur wish her quick recovery...are u a learner

MONSTER INLAW ON D LOOSE!!

na wah for some mother in laws o! so what is chasing her from her house that she decided to sit in her son's house for 4 years.

anyway rest in peace to the dead wife. its the 2 daughters i pity now

991: I swear, wives don suffer this year, so so stab dem dey get from their husbands and mother in law.

Most mother-in-laws are very wicked. But that husband nah very stu.p1d man.

Why will your wife always live in fear of your mother and you allowed the old witch to cohabit with her? He contributed to her death. He was obviously supporting his mother over any rift with his wife. He should have been the one shouting the old witch down whenever she wants to usurp his wife's responsilities.

may her soul rest in perfect peace!

pastie: Wish her quick recovery

Am sure you are having partial brain contact...

Y will dat happn may be smthn is wrng btwn both of them.

Women are generally less tolerant than men when it comes to all these spouse vs inlaw issues.
May her soul rest in peace.

pastie: Wish her quick recovery

Who ® u wishing quick recovery D dead

Such violence from a fellow woman. Hell has no fury like the Woman's scorn

Women are trouble makers. Two women who live together in a house always fight not to talk of two women who cares about one man. People should always learn. A wise mother in law can't stay in the son's house for more than a month depending on the issue of her visit. Is she marrying her son? It's good to give 2 couples their own privacy. But it seems like they always want to stay and monitor their son, too bad. A wise woman should always look back to the days when she was only a wife and try to understand how uncomfortable it is to live with a mother in law even if there's no problem. The son may not see this. Believe me, Couples sometimes need their own privacy not to talk of when a third party's eyes are always following u, too bad. Future mothers should understand this. What I found out here is that the boy is Mama's boy which makes him one of the worst men I can never date in this lifetime.. Watch who u date ladies, if he listens to his mother more than u, u're in trouble.

Kaaaaaiiiiiiiiiiiiiii dis kind story dey make me vex. D mother in law dey craze?