I never intend to bore you with this my personal experience on how unfaithful ladies can be.
I have a girlfriend of close to 2 years that has almost become my wife because we are planning to have our introduction in a few months time. She is 23 years old while I'm almost 29. She is completing her NCE by september and thats about the time I will be resuming for my Masters. She respects and adores me (Don't know wether it's as a result of the difference in status) and I equally cherished her. She stays on campus and comes around on Fridays. She is becoming a part of me - like the proverbial missing rib. To be frank, I'm always happy around her.
My trouble with her started a few weeks ago when she began to exhibit traits of a girl who wants to test the waters. I called her, made my observations known, softly scolded and advised her. She practically went on her kneels weeping with a promise to be a good girl afterwards.
This new episode started last Sunday when I registered a new account on her favorite social media with a new identity. I sent her a friend request which she accepted promptly, then the conversation began! After she had given me her details all of which were accurate, I requested that we should exchange numbers, as a team from my office is likely to come to her town for a meeting with some government officials and I will like to meet her. She was reluctant initially, but dropped the number after a little persuasion. I had thought the number was fake because I didn't know her with that number. You can imagine my bitterness when I dialled the number and was greeted by her voice. So this girl operates a secret number I didn't know of!
I kept my cool and continued calling her as a stranger with a strange voice on this line. We exchanged messages both on the social media and on phone.
Then on Friday, I called to inform her that we are already in her town lodged in a hotel for the meeting and asked if she would come around. Her excuse was that she couldn't make it that night but promised to show up the next day. I couldn't wait for the next day to break when I've started calling and sending messages to make her realise how important it is for us to meet. She promised to come by 2 p.m and exactly on top of the hour, she called to inform that she is setting out. All these while I was becoming restless. I left my home immediately so as to get there before her. Everything worked out as planned. I was stil lurking around when she called to announce her arrival. I told her to stand at a spot so that I could come pick her, she did. When I eventually showed up as her date, she nearly collapsed. Enraged as I were, I managed to stop a cab, took her home and gave the red card. She requested that I give her writing materials, which I did.
Her excuse was that I didn't allow the game to end properly as I didn't know her plan for showing up there. That even made me mad the more! What reason could it be?
She is pleadin for forgiveness now and thats why I need candid and matured pieces of advice from fellow nairalanders.
I must state here that througout our unfortunate dating period, I never cheated on this bitch not even once!

She is lying and i dnt think u are a fool live that gal she is not a wife material, many women are out there but few are wife material.you may want to no my reason they are 1, why would a gal u dated for 2years hide a private line if she is not a runs gal. 2, If the person that went to pick her was any other rich guy he would has F**k the living day light out of her because of her long troat for material tins. God has helped u so be wise.

@op.Never trust gals.

Even when i tot have seen it all with ladies they still tend to come wit alot of suprises..From my analysis of women, have come to realise that most them are easily swayed with words..they like the idea of new and unknown entity. Back to OP, what ever her reason for going to see some1 she just met is really flaw. My 1 cent, if u still love her wit wat she has done, forgive her but if not kick her ass out of ur life

erm, its okay!!!! erm, its alright!!! erm, well what can i say??

Will u all jst STFu
Wat has she done? Jst meetin wit u, so?
Don't u guys do way dan dat?
Now u claimin innocent
Shior

190: Another Good reason why I don't trust

Well Done OP - nice Job

You forgot to add 'Nigerian girls'

190: Another Good reason why I don't trust

Well Done OP - nice Job

Confused dude

joudini:

You forgot to add 'Nigerian girls'

U might end up with one o

@ OP pls give her a secnd chance but be careful

Having a second line which u r not aware of is a sign she's up to something. cheat! cheat!

mechummy: U might end up with one o

l was only reminding him of his special rhetoric, which is essential to his philosophy

mechummy: U might end up with one o

Why your profile pic con look like ojuju #HoldsLaff

Kai! Women sha! The way 'I Love You' drops from my mouth these days is proof that it doesn't mean anything anymore.

And even if i start feeling traits of love and emotions i kill that nigga sharp sharp. Love beclouds judgement. And I need both eyes wide open!

#nuffsaid

We are learning..that's why l love N/L..lmagine how she lost a relationship of 2yrs..later at 30yrs plus they will begin to visit all kind of churches under the sun for any man to trap as husband..

joudini:

l was only reminding him of his special rhetoric, which is essential to his philosophy

Lool I forgot to- add

Nigerian girls

190:

Lool I forgot to- add

Nigerian girls

l for say..even wondered wheather someone hack ur account.Now comfirmed is intact.

cfc:
Why your profile pic con look like ojuju #HoldsLaff

Wetin carry u go der? Ashawo guy*hisses*

Dyt: Will u all jst STFu
Wat has she done? Jst meetin wit u, so?
Don't u guys do way dan dat?
Now u claimin innocent
Shior

ashawo i know u do the same tin

Excuse me, but are u guys any better? Always spewing different jargons about girls especially Nigerian girls!
Abeg make we hear word. Mtchew!

ayswags: ashawo i know u do the same tin

Ashewo is a name dat is tagged to every gal
And wat are u? Low life 5exually starved hungry inmate
Unam ikot

poster your damn fault that happened to you. why did you have to start this game in the first place. look let me tell you, whether man or woman nobody like to get bored and we all wana explore once in a while. there is nothing wrong with some exploring before one ties the knot so that when she is married she becomes a proper wife. she is only 23 and needs time to play and make er own mistakes. she was not there when you explored your youth so stop being such sour grapes. By the looks of things, you never even gave her a chance to play coz you turned her into an unofficial spouse from the tenter age of 20 or 21 and that is the time someone wants to see life. your fault again that yalls was fiance for over 2 years. who the hell wants to be a fiance for soo long. nigga pleassssss

Sometimes when someone tries to claim that he or she is good and all that, and later he/she is caught red handed, the person may feel guilty and become quiet but sometimes the person becomes defensive and tries to point out the guilt of the person who caught him or anyone who tries to talk to him/her because of that thing done.
That is the problem with the girls on this thread that are being vexed and lashing out at guys for their comments at what the girl in the story did... The girl has demonstrated how many girls act everyday in different scenarios especially when they try to act like it's the guys that always do the cheating and all that...
Someone is even saying that she has not done anything "only meeting him", can you imagine such a comment... It is the biggest form of self delusion or lie because the lady herself knows what happens in those circumstances, what business do you Have going to See a guy you met on social network when you have a guy and you know deep down what the other guy is looking for....
I Smh for girls today

^ kip shakin it till it falls off
Wat wrong has she done in meetin someone?
U guys can count worthless things sha
And no one is blamin d dude for playin such game
Go ahead n b payin d games na
Mtcheeewwww

She is pleadin for forgiveness now and thats why I need candid and matured pieces of advice from fellow nairalanders.
I must state here that througout our unfortunate dating period, I never cheated on this Naughty Lady not even once!

You are planning introduction, she is exploring other men and you still wonder what to do? Marry her at your own peril!

see dem girls trying to protect the name GIRLS.....@op don't use your own hands to spoil your relationship..... why go such length to test your gf?

put yourself in her shoes n think....a government worker n a wanna be master holder.... who will u choose?

ileobatojo:

You are planning introduction, she is exploring other men and you still wonder what to do? Marry her at your own peril!

U better suspend dt introduction for now or u may regret later.She needed someone better if not she won't be doing hid and seek.

Dyt: Will u all jst STFu
Wat has she done? Jst meetin wit u, so?
Don't u guys do way dan dat?
Now u claimin innocent
Shior

You are kidding right?
A girl in a SERIOUS relationship meets a guy ONLINE, gives him her number, a number her boyfriend DOESN'T HAVE!, agrees to meet with him, dresses up, leaves her house and goes to meet with the guy. Pls tell me what intentions she had if not to cheat! Is it friendship she is looking for online? Companionship? If she hadn't gone it would have been better. But she followed through. Point is she was BUSTED!!!! and you are saying she shouldn't be chastised?

@op this is the way guys catch their cheating girlfriends but most guys do not have the time for this. I think she isn't content with you. There's something she is obviously looking for that you do not have, So pls allow her to go and find it. I do not believe that a girl in a serious relationship who has found everything she wants in a man would be meeting with random guys. Doesn't make sense to me.

Choicegirl:
@op this is the way guys catch their cheating girlfriends but most guys do not have the time for this. I think she isn't content with you. There's something she is obviously looking for that you do not have, So pls allow her to go and find it. I do not believe that a girl in a serious relationship who has found everything she wants in a man would be meeting with random guys. Doesn't make sense to me.

she has sed it all!! any more questions?