please, be sincere in your opinions

It goes for good girls too.
But I think it's due to loving someone not good for you.

Because they choose blindly and beleive that all that glitters are gold.

       If you're a victim, next time choose someone that has something in common with you,  they never fail.

oziomatv:

Because they choose blindly and beleive that all that glitters are gold.

If you're a victim, next time choose someone that has something in common with you, they never fails.

exactly.

goes both ways abeg.

Busta:

goes both ways abeg.

Please explain how.

oziomatv:


Please explain how.

What is there to explain?
Both good girls and good guys suffer in relationships. The sufferness is not limited to only guys

My answer is the reason why they suffer.

its nature

@ Oz,

They are in love with an ideal or image.

you're right lady.

oziomatv:

My answer is the reason why they suffer.

- wrong spouses
- fear of being lonely
- stupidity
- not being able to understand that "NO" means "NO"

Good Question, let's break it down shall we. . .
In a relationship, A guy

Lords over their girlfriends/wife - Obey his Au.tho.Ri.ty or he'll accuse her of not submitting to him as the Bible instructs.
Can have all the sex they want with or without their girlfriends - Body no be wood now
Is waited on hand and foot by their slaves. . .err. . .I mean their lovely girlfriends (because the sad women have been brainwashed into thinking husband is scarce)
Believes compromise is only a word in the dictionary.
Never takes responsibility for his failings. . .why should he? After all the women there to be blamed for everything
Goes and comes as they place. . .They who must not be questioned.

You ARE right oh, look how much these men suffer. Eeeya, I think this calls for a party to celebrate men. They soooooo deserve it. I'll buy the cake.

because good guys are very foolish and also they r not smart!

Because good guys think showing weakness is a way of keeping the girl.
The secret to the success of a bad boy is the air of "i could care less" he exudes . . . some call it confidence.

Ahhhhhh! Good topic. i used to be a good guy in a relationship and i suffered terribly from it. Now am a born again convert of the bad guys club and relationships are so good and beautiful to me that i sometimes knock my head and ask myself "what took me so long to become this bad and enjoy the fruits of a one-sided relationship?"

The I dont care Syndrome is the key to a girl's heart especially when you break up with her with no remorse.

Being a good guy is simply been a mumu. End of story!

®~^Sly^~®:

because good guys are very foolish and also they r not smart!

Meaning you are a bad guy?

4Him:

Because good guys think showing weakness is a way of keeping the girl.
The secret to the success of a bad boy is the air of "i could care less" he exudes . . . some call it confidence.

Which one are you?

good guys my feet, if they are really good guys y are they suffering

@post
because he's not dangerous enough. . . i like a man that can put an alive crab in his pant and still not feel the pain

stillwater:

Which one are you?

Thou knowest.

I'm not a mind reader, which one are you?

Any body here so we can discuss about why we good guys always suffered in relationship and i really want to share my experience with you guyz, my name is Oluwashola male from ketu, lagos.

A guy may suffer in any relationship but as long as he reaches the promise land, all the suffering is worth it

If u want to suffer u surely will!

@poster
Its a vice-versa thing, both ladies/guys suffer in relationship
It is not anyone choice,but rather the turns of fate sometimes not fair on mankind

because guys too dey Bleep up na hm make them dey suffer pass

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efuah:

If u want to suffer u surely will!

lol

Then again, they say love turns u into a fool . . .

Because good boys always go for bad girls just like good girls go for bad guys!

michelin89:

Because good boys always go for bad girls just like good girls go for bad guys!

not always

ibkaye:

not always

But it's always so exciting (for the bad I mean)