A friend of mine(a guy) confided in me a while ago about his big cousin broda who is a medical doctor and dated his fiancee for five years. Now,he finally wants to settle down n went for an HIV test,turned out positive. Now this friend of mine is confused,he doesnt know if to tell his cousin's fiancee since his cousin hads made him promise not to tell her. I didnt know wat 2 tell him so I want nairalanders to help with suggestions or options. D gal is not aware cos the doctor dat did the test knows her fiance n was also sworn to secrecy.

Pls do tell.you'll be saving a life.and God will bless you

So you want us to advise you not to tell the girl? My friend go and be a hero by telling her. She might love you who knows

only you can prevent d disaster that lies ahead,if the truth eventually cmes out...y not do it?

Is it not a crime?

Just ask her if she knows her HIV status......she's likely positive too.

Mynd_44: Is it not a crime?

^^^^

the truth is better but it will save a lot of mess if dis issue is properly addressed by all involved

Mynd_44: Is it not a crime?

Big one for that matter...

dmcdad:
Big one for that matter...

I wonder ooo

Just imagine she was ur sister

You better tell her because in some churches before the pastors decide to conduct any wedding they require you must do a test in their church,infact some parents demand it so its better you tell her the truth now because if you decide to plant a seed of wickedness by marrying her,wickedness will not cease in your household,apart from all your kids getting infected,you will be spending a whole lot of money on your kids for antviral drugs for your entire family for as long as you live.its just not possible to get away with deliberate wickedness and inconsideration for the havoc you will be causing for others,let me not talk of the mental,emotional and psychological trauma you will cause for your wife and kids and your generation

Drop an anonymous note where she ll see it asking her to find out her and her spouse Hiv status and not reveal her motive for getting it shekina.if big cousin askes u if you sold him out deny it like a motherfucker

Tanx all but am a gal. D person in question is my male friend's cousin. I will relay ur suggestions to him because its his problem.

kimberluge: A friend of mine(a guy) confided in me a while ago about his big cousin broda who is a medical doctor and dated his fiancee for five years. Now,he finally wants to settle down n went for an HIV test,turned out positive. Now this friend of mine is confused,he doesnt know if to tell his cousin's fiancee since his cousin hads made him promise not to tell her. I didnt know wat 2 tell him so I want nairalanders to help with suggestions or options. D gal is not aware cos the doctor dat did the test knows her fiance n was also sworn to secrecy.

The topic is married men who cheat, right? Ok. Could please help me find a nexus between that topic and the scenario you just created. Am i missing something?

hardbody:

The topic is married men who cheat, right? Ok. Could please help me find a nexus between that topic and the scenario you just created. Am i missing something?

U gat a problem dude!

hardbody:

The topic is married men who cheat, right? Ok. Could please help me find a nexus between that topic and the scenario you just created. Am i missing something?

U gat a problem dude? Buzz off my thread,must u comment?