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11 Steps On How To Keep Your Lady (for Guys) by Morgan1092(m): 12:46pm On Feb 25, 2013
It is often much easier to get something than to hold onto it. As everyone knows, the same goes for relationships. Want to keep your lady in your life? Here are some ways that you can stay closeand happy together.
Steps
1. Call her atleast twice a day, just to talk, say hi, or get to know each other better. No one ever wants to be forgotten throughout the day. If for some reason, you can't call her, at least send a text message or email telling her that you care.
2. Listen to her attentively when she talks . There is an art to deep listening. It's more than just hearing her voice. You have to know what she is saying and understand that she is trusting you with what she says.
3. Take note of her likes and dislikes . You want to make her happy, and giving her her favoriteflowers is a lot better than her least favorite candy. Keep in mind what she enjoys.
4. Compliment her honestly as often as possible . If it's not sincere, it's not worth anything. Women appreciate it if you comment positively on their appearance from time to time.
5. Buy her flowers sometimes . It doesn't have to be all the time, and it doesn't always have to be two dozen roses. While red roses are popular, they are also very cliche. Try to be original. Remember, it is the thought that counts. A casual bouquet of flowers picked from a park or lawn on the way to her house letsher know that you are thinking about her. Try some bright colors,such as yellow, orange, and pink. Peonies are usually favorites.
6. Take her to dinner . You don't always have to take her to a 5 star restaurant. Just go out to a place where you are both comfortable. Also, remember to cover the bill, but if she insists upon paying, let her pay the tip.
7. Be affectionate but not aggressive . You don't want to come off the wrong way.
8. Make sure she is comfortable . Her needs should always come before your own.
9. Do some things you like to do (baseball game, biking, etc .), and do some things she likes to do (see a movie, go shopping on occasion). You want to attain a happy medium between the two.
10. Buy her things that are meaningful and that she will enjoy . The gift does not have to be very expensive, as it is the thought that counts, but do try to steer clear of places such as Wal-Mart. You get the idea.
11. Be sure to spend quality time together . Schedule outings together like going to a movie, out to dinner, or just going to each others' houses to spend time together.
TIPS:
Be nice to her pets, relatives, friends, etc. Impress her parents, but don't overdo it. Honesty is the best policy.
Trust and respect are foundations of a good relationship.
If you love her, tell her. You don't want to wait.
Escort her to family and friends' functions such as picnics, weddings, holiday parties, etc. You may not want to go, but it is the respectful thing to do. She will appreciate you more if you go with her, and it shows you care about what is important to her.
WARNINGS
Avoid making her do things that are dangerous or disgusting.
Try to avoid making promises you already know you cannot keep.
http://www.wikihow.com/Keep-Your-Lady
Re: 11 Steps On How To Keep Your Lady (for Guys) by dopeJemi: 4:42pm On Feb 25, 2013
1⇨ do it 4 a Month or 2.. She'll get tired and say u r disturbing her

2⇨ I agree

3⇨ no be only fLowers, na scent Leaves undecided

4⇨ I agree buh she mite begin 2 fink dat u r fLattering her

5⇨ abegii.. We r in NIGERIA, majority of our Ladies don't fancy fLowers dah much.. I'd rather buy her a wrist-watch, a neckLace or ear-rings (cheap buh beautifuL ones)

6⇨ I agree

7⇨ I concur

8⇨ You say? ​A♏ I her father

9⇨ basebalL gini? 4 nigeria? Guy wake up

10⇨ same with number 5.. I agree

11⇨ I agree buh not alL d time, u guys mite get 2 used 2 each oda and it can Lead 2 disrespect
Re: 11 Steps On How To Keep Your Lady (for Guys) by tunapawizzy: 5:27pm On Feb 25, 2013
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Re: 11 Steps On How To Keep Your Lady (for Guys) by Nobody: 6:44pm On Feb 25, 2013
I hiss at those warnings. I want to live dangerously and drift off into fantasy with my male occasionally undecided
Re: 11 Steps On How To Keep Your Lady (for Guys) by Serendipity: 6:54pm On Feb 25, 2013
This is the most asinine and daft rambling post i have ever read here. In fact the converse is the opposite in alost all the cases.
Call a girl 2 to 3 times?
I mean she should have space. Or do you want to smother her?
This must have issued from a juvenile. Gosh!
Re: 11 Steps On How To Keep Your Lady (for Guys) by DExplorer1: 7:03pm On Feb 25, 2013
Serendipity: This is the most asinine and daft rambling post i have ever read here. In fact the converse is the opposite in alost all the cases.
Call a girl 2 to 3 times?
I mean she should have space. Or do you want to smother her?
This must have issued from a juvenile. Gosh!
Damn! ENDorsed!
Re: 11 Steps On How To Keep Your Lady (for Guys) by Nobody: 7:36pm On Feb 25, 2013
The tips aren't bad.

With #1, 2-3 times a day can be too much for some people and once a day is fine. Really depends on what you're both okay with and this's different for every couple. Some couples talk every day or at least communicate via text every night before going to bed, others ...every other day or once in three days. The most important thing's not to wait too long before having some type of communication, otherwise the lady'll start to feel distant or disconnected from you and the r-ship itself. One week is too long. Two weeks is a definite no-no; I wouldn't even call that a r-ship. While you both need to have your own life apart from each other and do your thing, you should still remember to keep in touch.

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Re: 11 Steps On How To Keep Your Lady (for Guys) by Nobody: 7:40pm On Feb 25, 2013
whats bad with the tips/steps?
Re: 11 Steps On How To Keep Your Lady (for Guys) by Nobody: 9:23pm On Feb 25, 2013
3/4 of the tips are absolutely dustimonious.

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