Well, I believe there must be a driving force that makes a lady stay with a man for a longtime. This is peculiar with almost all the ladies that see themselves being in a serious relationship.
I must confess that men are not that way; men are polygamous in nature which makes me wanna know why most ladies stay with a man for so long, even when they know he might be cheating on them. You see some ladies fighting another lady they caught redhanded with their bf. And in such a scenario, rather than talking to their bf they prefer doing things the rough way with their fellow ladies....
I also realize that so many ladies dream a lot. Instead of them working on their attitude and character, they begin to tell you about marriage some few months into a relationship. Isn't that absurd?
Whatever and however a woman thinks aint the bone of contention now, but I believe the ladies have answers to this question of mine.

Not a lady but it still depends on the reason why she wanted to stay with u from the biggining or what shes gaining from the relationship,or the fear of lonely out there

Mostly, you'll find insecure ladies sticking to a chronic cheat because their minds are unable to comprehend the fact that there could be faithful or better men for them.

For some, it is love and for others it is nothing short of stupidity. An old uni friend married her chronic cheat boyfriend after several years of dating even after her consultants(alfa's) predicted his unfaithfulness.Her reason was that she had made a vow that the man who disvirgins her would be the one she'lld marry.

Different strokes for different folks

raqueal: Mostly, you'll find insecure ladies sticking to a chronic cheat because their minds are unable to comprehend the fact that there could be faithful or better men for them.

For some, it is love and for others it is nothing short of stupidity. An old uni friend married her chronic cheat boyfriend after several years of dating even after her consultants(alfa's) predicted his unfaithfulness.Her reason was that she had made a vow that the man who disvirgins her would be the one she'lld marry.

Different strokes for different folks

Wow, u have successfully pinned out some of d reasons y people stick 2 cheating partners, bt above all, its an emphatic demostration of foolish stupidity.

It has nothing to do with love, what people call love is actually a temporal feeling which diminishes with time, love is a confused word.

But atttimes I don't blame them.
Dey always think ddey won't meet another guy like dear present especially wen dear lady is gettin to 30.
She always feel it's better to stick with de one dey have and work on it than hop around-HOPE!

I dont know oo.. I couldnt do it.

Not a lady but i think they stay with him when he has too much money.

Love and de hope dat he ll oneday change.

Popowaa: Love and de hope dat he ll oneday change.

Hmmmnnn...A lady can't change a full grown man unless the man is ready for a change! Take your man the way he is and if you can't live with certain habits, do not date him! You may hope for a change, but don't bank on it.

This always happens to ladies that are over-depending on their man.

raqueal:

Hmmmnnn...A lady can't change a full grown man unless the man is ready for a change! Take your man the way he is and if you can't live with certain habits, do not date him! You may hope for a change, but don't bank on it.

perfect

xynerise: This always happens to ladies that are over-depending on their man.

not true

marro: But atttimes I don't blame them.
Dey always think ddey won't meet another guy like dear present especially wen dear lady is gettin to 30.
She always feel it's better to stick with de one dey have and work on it than hop around-HOPE!

Thats exactly the definition of stupidity.

How cud u start sometin u know u will end up regrettin? When one marries wit dat kinda of mindset and under dat kinda platform, its jst a question of time

I still wonder why so many ladies end up falling into this trap... [s][/s]

Giggles
Some jst hav thick skin
Like I don't rili give a F