There's a girl at church that really likes me, but she covers her feelings up by calling me Pastor, brother, uncle, but she's always calling me to tell me she loves and likes me.... why can't she just stop calling me "brother" or pastor and just tell me her true feelings... Everyone at church knows she likes me, but I don't know if I can't be with a girl that can't be true to her feelings...

What do you guys think? why do adults like to pretend about their feelings and who they like or don't like? Its immature. IMHO

But I'm confused o. If she calls you to tell you she loves you and she likes you, which other feelings do you need her to be clear about? The uncle, pastor and brother sound more like 'church etiquette' to me. I'm pretty sure once you start a relationship, she will drop all the formalities.

More importantly, why are you pretending about your feelings for her?

But seriously, if you like her, you can always teach her and encourage her to be open with her feelings about things in general. You know in Nigeria, it's the men that do the toasting, so many women don't go around broadcasting their feelings to the guy involved in the beginning. This lady has already even gone very far in toasting you sef. She don try.

Why posting d samething 2 times with different headlines?

Obowumi, na church levels we dey now?
Lolx

Obowumi,his romance tales and girl problems...
What part is this again?

slimyem: Obowumi,his romance tales and girl problems...
What part is this again?

Part 3 wetin dey ?

I feel it is because they are afraid of rejection, Like ileobatojo has said, she has given you all the signal, stop dulling and make your move

Oooohh... Someone has someone crushing on them... How sweet