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| Nil by ovalrose(f): 7:07am On Mar 01, 2013 |
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| Re: Nil by Chanchit: 8:08am On Mar 01, 2013 |
Of all the sexuality topics I've been reading of recent, I think this one still makes a good reason to start a thread, wait let Rokiatu and Idowuogbo or perhaps Ilekedi come around to advice you. |
| Re: Nil by deols(f): 11:56am On Mar 01, 2013 |
op, are you circumcised? |
| Re: Nil by ovalrose(f): 12:52pm On Mar 01, 2013 |
@deols,yes, i am. |
| Re: Nil by vb0mb(m): 2:56pm On Mar 01, 2013 |
Op the truth is that u are circumcised. The clitories has been cut off. |
| Re: Nil by ovalrose(f): 3:17pm On Mar 01, 2013 |
So,i can never experience an heavenly feeling because i was circumcised? |
| Re: Nil by touchmeder: 7:40pm On Mar 01, 2013 |
ovalrose: So,i can never experience an heavenly feeling because i was circumcised?  |
| Re: Nil by Nobody: 7:55pm On Mar 01, 2013 |
I just couldnt read and run after seeing that comment of the clit being cut off. There are many people that have been circumcised and still are able to achieve orgasm. Even women that were not circumcised could have problems too. @op, since you are not able to get there by penetration alone, you have to start by knowing your body yourself before any man can satisfy you. If its not against your morals or religion, I would advise you to stimulate yourself. Try it gradually,and one day you will get there. Then during s.ex with your husband let him do it or during penetration touch yourself. After a while you will be able to get orgasm with penetration alone once your husband knows your body and the right spots. It is easier to get clit orgasm than G. spot orgasm. So start with the clit. Every woman is different, so communicate with your husband what works for you. Good luck |
| Re: Nil by deols(f): 8:33pm On Mar 01, 2013 |
ovalrose: @deols,yes, i am. pls what part pf the country are you from and do you know the type of circcision-describing it might help |
| Re: Nil by deols(f): 9:30pm On Mar 01, 2013 |
I wanted to know the types of circumcision for many reasons. I assume op's is d type mostly performed in southwest Nigeria that involves removing some parts of the clit.oris. This should not totally prevent you from having an orgasm-it can reduce it though. the clit.oris goes beyond its tip, or the part usually called d cli.toris( the clit.oral hood and glans). d other parts are embedded deep into the labia minora-stimulating those parts may be of help. I am not experienced on sex matters but talking from my knowledge of anatomy,the clito.ris has more nerves than the vagina and is more likely to help you achieve orgasm but with genital mutilation, it's function is reduced. speaking with your spouse in relation to that as well-and making him take the time are hopefully helpful. 1 Like |
| Re: Nil by ovalrose(f): 8:32am On Mar 02, 2013 |
@deols, i am from the Ibo tribe of Nigeria,and having explored my body i observe my clit.oris to be a short stump(you couldnt even pinch it if you wanted to),but i didnt think that my sexuality could be linked to it innately. I mean,i do enjoy s*x,but no climax. |
| Re: Nil by ovalrose(f): 8:36am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Thank you @Beloved |
| Re: Nil by deols(f): 9:13am On Mar 02, 2013 |
the condition is called anorgasmia.. I dont think much has been done on it yet... orgasm is described as a learned process which in ds case you have to communicate with your partner to achieve. |
| Re: Nil by ovalrose(f): 11:51am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Great. A condition. Now i feel better.  |
| Re: Nil by deols(f): 2:08pm On Mar 02, 2013 |
ovalrose: Great. A condition. Now i feel better. dont be sad please. pls pls *smile*..  I have checked about ten books today. They don't have much to say. But some mention the need to see psycho-sex.ual specialists. If u are in Nigeria, I think that is ruled out. I dont think they exist there. I will continue to check for solutions and try speak with my professors on it. Let me play the specialist and ask certain questions they would have asked- 1. do you get well lubricated during intercourse 2. have you felt pain at any time during intercourse. dont be sad please. pls pls *smile*.. 1 Like 2 Shares |
| Re: Nil by yuzedo: 2:27pm On Mar 02, 2013 |
Ladies who have been circumcised experience orgãsm, don't mislead the OP. I am proud to say I have delived a mind-blowing orgãsm to a lovely circumcised calabar lady, but only once out of three tries. Madam Ovalrose, if u want to cùm, pray to God first before fornicating!  Ok but seriously, explore your own sexuålity. I believe mãsturbating will help you understand your body and channel your mental energies and direct your man's efforts during sex. Understanding your body, being at peace and comfortable with the fact that sex is good, and being with the right partner is key. Female Orgåsms start in the mind. But a skilled partner helps bring it to fruition.  Please do not contact me to help you achieve your first orgãsm. Thanks and cheers!  3 Likes |
| Re: Nil by ovalrose(f): 2:52pm On Mar 02, 2013 |
Gee,thanx@yuzedo. U are a swell brother. No kisses 4 u.  |
| Re: Nil by yuzedo: 3:02pm On Mar 02, 2013 |
ovalrose: Gee,thanx@yuzedo. U are a swell brother. No kisses 4 u.No kiss?  No punny even??  Then no orgåsm for you till further notice!  Unless you buy me fufu & egg.. 4 Likes |
| Re: Nil by ovalrose(f): 3:09pm On Mar 02, 2013 |
@deols,alright,im smiling. . In answer to your questions,yes,im often well lubricated during fo.replay,and have never experienced pain at any time during intercourse. There is one thing,though: i tend to dry up easily. At this point i start to enjoy it less and my mind often wanders off. Its not like this happens often,but after that time i just like,tune out until its all over. Resignation,hm? |
| Re: Nil by ovalrose(f): 3:13pm On Mar 02, 2013 |
yuzedo:Lolzzzz. U gon die,man. Fufu and egg? No be me go give you cardiac arrest o!  |
| Re: Nil by uchbabybaby: 8:58pm On Mar 03, 2013 |
That word heavenly feeling is somehw pls. Stp using it. 1 Like |
| Re: Nil by CArt(m): 3:11pm On Mar 11, 2013 |
ovalrose: @deols,alright,im smiling.Is there any reward for me if I help you to overcome this challenge of yours? |
| Re: Nil by ovalrose(f): 3:19pm On Mar 11, 2013 |
@CArt,abeg gimme a break. Im engaged,remember? You want to help me,please 'opendential' it,not behind closed doors. |
| Re: Nil by Nobody: 5:22pm On Mar 11, 2013 |
@OP. U barely have a problem. The only problem I think u have, which I assume is already half-solved, is ignorance. U r perfectly normal. Tho' wif d clitoris tampered with, orgasm will c.u.m a little harder, n u myt be a very tough job 4 any man 2 satisfy! I know this Nairaland dudes will claim they can! Trust me, they can't either. Stay faithful 2 ur man, but once in a while, u two need 2 employ d services of intimacy gadgets (vibrator etc) to get things all jiggy. It works. I hope u can locate an Adult shop. Best wishes! 1 Like |
| Re: Nil by CArt(m): 3:56pm On Mar 12, 2013 |
ovalrose: @CArt,abeg gimme a break. Im engaged,remember? You want to help me,please 'opendential' it,not behind closed doors.I never said we were going to solve the problem behind the closed doors. My dear,my point is that I offered free services no more A trial will convince you.Let me know whenever you are ready |
| Re: Nil by Youngpo413: 11:58am On Aug 28, 2014 |
@Op how far?do you now have orrrgggasmmm? I hope you are now married? 1 Like |
| Re: Nil by 100Cents: 10:59am On Nov 01, 2014 |
Ohms..
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| Re: Nil by Nmeri17: 9:46pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
yuzedo: amunekeuto!! |
| Re: Nil by Lexusgs430: 12:25am On Jan 02, 2015 |
It's called FMG, Female Genital Mutilation. Billboards should be placed by health organizations and NGO's to stop this barbaric act. Uganda is acting, why not Nigeria ?
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| Re: Nil by Anibaba1(m): 6:36pm On Mar 15, 2015 |
I do wonder why women would subject their daughters after they know the implications of the act to FGM.And what the op is complaining about is the direct result of that and somtimes complications during child birth. 1 Like 1 Share |
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