People o! please help. my cousin said a few days ago, she saw a pack of some sort of sexual enhancement oil that her husband has been drinking. she says while they were dating, she remembers seeing some tablets called 'something 100' (she cant remember the exact name but it had 100 in it) in his car and he said they were for his friend who he gave a lift.
Her husband doesnt seem to be too keen on sex and now she thinks that the 'something 100' meds she saw in his car were actually his. she confronted him bout the oil and he said he takes it to 'increase his sexual enjoyment' not like he has any erectile or sexual dysfunction or that he doesnt enjoy sex with her. but me I no know o. why will a man be taking all sorts of so called sex enhancement tabs and oils if he doesnt have issues. He also told her it was normal that most guys take such things to make sex more enjoyable.

when she tries to discuss it with him, he dodges and almost turns it to quarrel and says she's over reacting.

Please, guys, is it normal for guys to take meds and oils? what is their exact use? should she be worried that he has some issues? even impotence?

ti-ebe:
People o! please help. my cousin said a few days ago, she saw a pack of some sort of sexual enhancement oil that her husband has been drinking. she says while they were dating, she remembers seeing some tablets called 'something 100' (she cant remember the exact name but it had 100 in it) in his car and he said they were for his friend who he gave a lift.
Her husband doesnt seem to be too keen on sex and now she thinks that the 'something 100' meds she saw in his car were actually his. she confronted him bout the oil and he said he takes it to 'increase his sexual enjoyment' not like he has any erectile or sexual dysfunction or that he doesnt enjoy sex with her. but me I no know o. why will a man be taking all sorts of so called sex enhancement tabs and oils if he doesnt have issues. He also told her it was normal that most guys take such things to make sex more enjoyable.

when she tries to discuss it with him, he dodges and almost turns it to quarrel and says she's over reacting.

Please, guys, is it normal for guys to take meds and oils? what is their exact use? should she be worried that he has some issues? even impotence?

Abroko, wetin concern you? Na you be the wife now?
I tire o!

LOL! no vex o. but as e be say she come tell me and we no know wetin we go do, that one still qualify as aproko? all the things wey we de talk for nairaland don turn to aproko? anyways, she's really worried, we dnt knw what to do. thot i'd ask people here. na d same aproko make u branch here na.

cantell:
Abroko, wetin concern you? Na you be the wife now?
I tire o!

S.ex enhacement has existed from time immemorial
Before I say anything I will ask do they have kids
And age gap between them

They dont have kids yet. they just got married. and she's just wondering if he's taking the drugs because he doenst enjoy being with her or if he doesnt enjoy it at all (even though he has gist about other girl friends) or if its a dysfunction thing. we only know that these drugs are taken by people who have issues.

biolabee: S.ex enhacement has existed from time immemorial
Before I say anything I will ask do they have kids
And age gap between them

Well in that case I belive it's too early for her to engage in speculation

It may be he does not have the stamina for prolonged s.exercise or he has gotten used to the enhancement aids and feels inadequate without them

Luckily getting pregnant is not linked to these aids so that is out of the way

I wish you could give us an insight into the age gap; if it is much that may be an indicator

More importantly she could reseach the aids being used to be sure there is no adverse effects
If there is no problem she should enjoy the s.ex before child stress and whatnot sets in

biolabee: Well in that case I belive it's too early for her to engage in speculation

It may be he does not have the stamina for prolonged s.exercise or he has gotten used to the enhancement aids and feels inadequate without them

Luckily getting pregnant is not linked to these aids so that is out of the way

I wish you could give us an insight into the age gap if it is much that may be an indicator

More importantly she could reseach the aids being used to be sure there is no adverse effects
If there is no problem she should enjoy the s.ex before child stress and whatnot sets in

Oh you mean age gap between the couple? e no plenty na. 2 years. she's 30, he's 32. which is why she's a lil worried cos he's supposed to be at the age when he's at his sexual prime. so, without the 'supplements' will she have to be begging for it?

The age gap is next to nothing ...


Well i dont know what to say again
This one na man and hin wife mata.. just be diplomatic about it

The koko is if she shoud check for health concerns and if there are none, should enjoy the best of what she has now

biolabee: The age gap is next to nothing ...


Well i dont know what to say again
This one na man and hin wife mata.. just be diplomatic about it

The koko is if she shoud check for health concernsand if there are none, should enjoy the best of what she has now

That's where the problem lies na. how does she diplomatically check for health concerns? she cant drag him to hospital na. and she cant force him to tell her anything. she doenst wanna bruise his ego. but she also doesnt want a situation where he only bothers with the supplements till they have children. as soon as they do, he throws them away then they only have some once in 3 years!

op, how long havee they been married?
How long did they court?
Why I ask is because a man who is active in the past, may come to a stage that he notices that he no longer lasts as usual ( it has happened to yours truely before).
At that stage he may panic and start taking s,ex enhancing meds. But your coz she allay her husbands fear and let him know that it is not about how long you last but how well you use ur God given tool.

NB.
By the way I have overcome my fear and have sinced bounced back.

ti-ebe:


That's where the problem lies na. how does she diplomatically check for health concerns? she cant drag him to hospital na. and she cant force him to tell her anything. she doenst wanna bruise his ego. but she also doesnt want a situation where he only bothers with the supplements till they have children. as soon as they do, he throws them away then they only have some once in 3 years!

She gets the name of the enhancement aids to get the name of the constituents of the oil etc and checks online if it has any harmful effect
Because oils get absorbed in the skin and could do some damage to the alkanity of her g.enitals

if there is no concern, well she has to bear her cross cause afrikan men no dey like harassment from their madams

I NO WHY YOUNG MAN GO DEY USE THIS KAIN THING

biolabee:

She gets the name of the enhancement aids to get the name of the constituents of the oil etc and checks online if it has any harmful effect
Because oils get absorbed in the skin and could do some damage to the alkanity of her g.enitals

if there is no concern, well she has to bear her cross cause afrikan men no dey like harassment from their madams

I NO WHY YOUNG MAN GO DEY USE THIS KAIN THING

ask me o! lol. she's semi panicked that she'll soon have to resign to the life of a married nun. or maybe its just that she doesnt do it for him. . .
men, thanks a bunch. will tell her. but she been say na drink e de drink am o. not applying it on himself.

eagle,eye:
op, how long havee they been married?
How long did they court?

NB.
By the way I have overcome my fear and have sinced bounced back.

They dated for like 2 years but then it was distance dating and they only saw once in a while. and s.ex wasnt always on the menu. so, its normal for a dip in the libido for guys? and congrats to you on your bouncing back.

@Op....Biolabee has said it all. She need to check the stuffs he use to know their side effects!!
As for weather its ok for a man to enhance his performance with some drugs....I will say "are you a learner?".
Really its been over a century men have tried to keep up with their show as age goes on! Your cousin should please stop making issues out of this!
I suspect the "OIL" you keep referring to is a Delay Spray to keep him longer in that holy land.
Nothing to worry about madam!!
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Adun ma ma t'eke.....yalumo yalumo....!!!

Baba Oyo: @Op....Biolabee has said it all. She need to check the stuffs he use to know their side effects!!
As for weather its ok for a man to enhance his performance with some drugs....I will say "are you a learner?".
Really its been over a century men have tried to keep up with their show as age goes on! Your cousin should please stop making issues out of this!
I suspect the "OIL" you keep referring to is a Delay Spray to keep him longer in that holy land.
Nothing to worry about madam!!
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Adun ma ma t'eke.....yalumo yalumo....!!!

ok, its either i've been blind since, or i'm really a learner. cos this is the first time we're seeing a healthy young man taking these things. hence the worry. and its not a spray. she said he drinks it. soon as she checks the stuff and knows what they do, then her mind will be at rest.

ti-ebe:


ok, its either i've been blind since, or i'm really a learner. cos this is the first time we're seeing a healthy young man taking these things. hence the worry. and its not a spray. she said he drinks it. soon as she checks the stuff and knows what they do, then her mind will be at rest.

Okay madam!! She should be at peace! A lot of guys drink loads of stuff....from herbs to drugs & mixtures just to keep the macho man performance!! It would be a problem only if your cousin notices that even at that, his performance is still way below average!! Then time to blow the whistle!!!!
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Ko ni funny rara o!!

Baba o mo gbadun yin (I enjoy you so much)

@ti-ebe Baba has said it all

This is for Baba o
ki i jeyan ki i jeresi
Omi ladun omi sororo
Ojo weli weli

Yalumo yalumo

...

Many guys use this medications Thats what is called Alomo, Ogidiga, Oshomo, etc

In America there is Viagra, Cialis etc.

Maybe your friend doesnt get to promised land easily and the guy needs more motivation

Fakafiki mo le goke mo le so

Why would she be discussing their private bizniz with you? Ahh I get it now....

Nice one CC

@ti-ebe to add to the issue of tip desensitisation, using a CD helps
She needs to be informed of health hazards of the stimulants

biolabee: Nice one CC

@ti-ebe to add to the issue of tip desensitisation, using a CD helps
She needs to be informed of health hazards of the stimulants

No be she de take am na. na the man de take am na. anyways, spoke to her earlier. she says she's been checking online for hazards of stimulants but she's not found anything serious. also, as she no remember the name of the oil, she cant check for the exact components of the oil.

No be she dey take am but the thing wey take am dey enter am
But if you say no problem and your chi says no problem then all is well

chai! no o. i no talk say problem no de na. no be because problem de i come dis side? well, I don tell am as we been talk sha. wetin d babe go do before? she no fit tie d man neck na. make she even try hypnosis sef to get the man to say exactly whats up and save everyone the issues of dancing around circles.

ti-ebe:
chai! no o. i no talk say problem no de na. no be because problem de i come dis side? well, I don tell am as we been talk sha. wetin d babe go do before? she no fit tie d man neck na. make she even try hypnosis sef to get the man to say exactly whats up and save everyone the issues of dancing around circles.

its important so the man does not resent her..

cantell:
Abroko, wetin concern you? Na you be the wife now?
I tire o!

I tire o. Some wives sha...

I wonder how some women manage to expose their hvsbands this way to friend's and relations,nawaooohhh!!!

If the man knows his wife is a blabber movth,he probably will never open vp to her abovt this issve.Tell yovr covsin to let this rest if it is not cavsing any health concern or issves in her marriage.How comes a man that yovng needs a booster to get his groove on??


Please tell yovr covsin that there are certain things she shovld never tell a relation or friend abovt her hvbby,this happens to be one them.Women shovld learn to protect their men's dignity abeg.

She needs to tell him about what she saw and understand why he uses it. Also research the drug to make sure it is not dangerous and won't cause fertility problems. If he is having issues with his john thomas, they should see a good doctor who can help him out. In his desperation, he may be using the wrong things. Your cousin should also learn to keep her mouth shut to others about her personal iSsues at home.

This is just the effect of active communication in a relationship.

Surprise surprise!! Most non-busy body men ( I mean who has a JOB and not sit in NL 24/7) who wants to last long before ejac use male enhancement .... so cuz shut your face and stop poke nosing, enough of your curiosity already!

# Inu ile eni lati nje ekute onidodo#

@Jidegirl,Yov know some men can't trvst their wives with sensitive issves,hence commvnication is difficvlt.

byvan: @Jidegirl,Yov know some men can't trvst their wives with sensitive issves,hence commvnication is difficvlt.

What is wrong the letter U on your keyboard?

My son plvcked it off.