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10 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out by dotcomnamename: 9:40am On Mar 28, 2013
Sometimes it’s hard to know if a girl is sending you signals to ask her out, or if she is just friendly, or is actually obsessed with your friend, or what. But watch closely for these cues, because if she’s throwing them at you, it means she’s probably hoping you ask her out.

So just work up the courage to do it and do it. Godspeed!

1. She starts liking something random you like after you mentioned you liked it. Oh, what’s that? She likes Neko Case all of the sudden? Wowza, what a huge coincidence. She knows all about the Manchester United game even though two days ago she knew shit about soccer? Holy smokes. She knows all about the new Kid Cudi album that just dropped after you were just saying how excited you were about it? Yeah, these aren’t coincidences, so don’t overlook them. Don’t make her feel dumb by saying, “Oh please you said you hate soccer!”
Follow her lead. Let her brag about her new knowledge. Teach her something new. Plan a date around it. Because you’re definitely going to want to ask her out.

2. She touches your arm a lot. Sorry, it’s all we’ve got, guys. We want to touch you but many places seem off limits. Touching your face would make us feel like we are in a Hallmark commercial, touching your chest would make us feel like we were in a Lifetime movie, and touching your junk would make us feel like we were in a P0*no. Basically, that leaves the arm. So we touch it a lot if we are interested. If you can think of something better let us know.

3. She laughs at everything you say. Yeah, even when you aren’t really saying anything that funny. Sorry. It’s something we can’t help and we probably aren’t proud of. It’s not that we are faking it, we are just really giddy to be around you if we have a crush on you. So everything seems a little lighter, a little more fun, and a little more likely to make us bust our gut or snort or… I’m just not going to say it.

4. She keeps asking you to do the most odd, unrelationships things. If she keeps asking you to do non-date things, like going to weird comedy shows that are sort of far away or going to her brother’s baseball game or feeding the neighbor’s cat, she is doing the dance of doing absolutely everything except for asking you out on a real date. So why don’t you do everyone a favor and ask her out? You both will have a better time doing something other than working her hectic charity event or helping her move.

5. She sends you mail. Real mail. She had to get paper and a writing device — which are increasingly becoming hard to come by. She had to write with her handwriting, which she hardly does anymore. She put way more thought into her words since she wasn’t just shooting them out on her keyboard. And she licked and sealed the envelope. That is love. Or at least mega-like. Ask her out, for goodness sake.

6. She always wants to be in pictures with you. Are there a disproportionate amount of pictures of you with her than with other people? Especially guys? She wants be be part of your life. She wants to show you off. She wants you to remember her. She is inserting herself into your life in the only way she can without asking you out.

7. She has agreed to do anything you have suggested so far. If you’re asking her to do anything with a group of friends or anything non-datey, and you hardly have to finish the question “Do you want to go rock climb…” or “Do you want to grab a bee…” before she says yes, she’d rather be doing these things as your girlfriend.
Especially if she says it like it’s not even a question. Of course she will! With gusto, she’ll be there with bells on! She’s psyched about anything because you will be there.

8. She hasn’t mentioned any other guys in your presence. That’s because she’s not thinking of any other guys. And she won’t even bring up friend boys, because she doesn’t want you to assume they are boyfriends.

9. She brings you something when you’re sick or similarly cooks you anything ever. Yeah, she’s showing you her nurturing side. It’s not because she’s filling some gender role, she’s just seizing the opportunity to be sweet. It’s an easy in to make you a casserole or drop by with some ginger ale.

10. You have met her friends and they seem surprisingly psyched to meet you. They are already excited to see you and already know what you do because they have heard about you. In fact, they might be sick of you. They might be thinking, “Will you just ask her out already?” So go ahead and do it.

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Re: 10 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out by Kaxmytex(m): 9:48am On Mar 28, 2013
chai....i no dey notice all diz tinz o.....i don miss die

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Re: 10 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out by UjSizzle(f): 9:48am On Mar 28, 2013
Kool smiley

but i don't fully subscribe to no.2.
Some people are 'touchy'. They can hardly make a sentence without body contact....that doesn't mean they have an out of the ordinary interest in you.
Re: 10 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out by Nobody: 10:01am On Mar 28, 2013
Abeg abeg u guys shld stop feeding us wt all dis western junks. Translate 2 simple 9ja setting
BTW Is it a crime if a gal walks up 2 a guy and jst tell him how she feels?
Re: 10 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out by Nobody: 10:26am On Mar 28, 2013
Yungwizzzy: Abeg abeg u guys shld stop feeding us wt all dis western junks. Translate 2 simple 9ja setting
BTW Is it a crime if a gal walks up 2 a guy and jst tell him how she feels?

You will wait for a looong time cool.
Re: 10 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out by xcitedjay(m): 2:26pm On Mar 28, 2013
If e reach 15. I'd ask her out.

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Re: 10 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out by Nobody: 3:17pm On Mar 28, 2013
I know they want me to ask them out cos each time we meet or in a chat they always ask about my girlfriend even though I always tell them I'm single tongue
Re: 10 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out by xynerise: 3:25pm On Mar 28, 2013
@op. No 3 sometimes comes in a negative direction. Some of them will always disagree to whatever idea or contribution you make in any discussion. They always want u to argue with them so as to get your attention. Weird but true cool
Re: 10 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out by pleep(m): 4:36pm On Mar 28, 2013
9. She brings you something when you’re sick or similarly cooks you anything ever. Yeah, she’s showing you her nurturing side. It’s not because she’s filling some gender role, she’s just seizing the opportunity to be sweet. It’s an easy in to make you a casserole or drop by with some ginger ale.

10. You have met her friends and they seem surprisingly psyched to meet you. They are already excited to see you and already know what you do because they have heard about you. In fact, they might be sick of you. They might be thinking, “Will you just ask her out already?” So go ahead and do it.
lol... who lets it get this far?

i would have asked this hoe out a long time ago grin
Re: 10 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out by Rooneyboy(m): 4:50pm On Mar 28, 2013
All these are definitely not for my Naija girls , my naija girls that I know too well just want ur money .

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Re: 10 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out by iykmora(m): 6:22pm On Mar 28, 2013


we are listening ooo



what if she does all dis and you instead have ur eyes on another gurl?
i will like to see how she reacts...but if she vex you beta run fast or...
Re: 10 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out by pleep(m): 6:47pm On Mar 28, 2013
^

Re: 10 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out by Nobody: 6:51pm On Mar 28, 2013
^^ they are known to make that to themselves
Re: 10 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out by nikkyshyne(f): 8:11pm On Mar 28, 2013
As a matter of fact, I exhibit quite the opposite of all these embarassed undecided
Re: 10 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out by ikechukz(m): 7:53am On Mar 29, 2013
Make she continue to jonse.If she no go ask me out herself,make she forget.
Re: 10 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out by fitzmayowa: 8:57am On Mar 29, 2013
ikechukz: Make she continue to jonse.If she no go ask me out herself,make she forget.
Mate you are sitting on a long thing...

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