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Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by OrumbaS89(f): 4:55am On Apr 01, 2008 |
When I got to college, every future plan I heard always included matrimony. With America topping lists of infidelity and divorce, I used to wonder why everyone was so determined to get married. Where they influenced by culture or their religion? Was their marriage or bust mentality due to socioeconomic factors? Or do this people believe in the age old adages of love and soulmates? I am an Igbo women. Growing up in alaigbo and America, I was taught that marriage is a vehicle that delivered love, financial security, and companionship. I want to know what to other Nigerians think about matriomony. My people, please tell me why we get married. |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by echelon(m): 4:30pm On Apr 01, 2008 |
Why we get married > To have a legitimate sex partner > To raise kids > To have a companion > and so on |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by ifyalways(f): 6:01pm On Apr 01, 2008 |
why i wud get married : to have the love of my life all by myself,always to make and raise lovely kids in the best enviroment. . .a loving home. to have companion. to have people i can call my own and a home of myself. to cook those lovely dishes and have people eat it with me in love. heheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee i cant even wait to get married |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by echelon(m): 6:10pm On Apr 01, 2008 |
ifyalways: Can this be construed as an invitation to tender? |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by ifyalways(f): 10:04pm On Apr 01, 2008 |
echelon:rofl anything. . .something. . .everything you wud know when its known |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by Nobody: 1:57am On Apr 02, 2008 |
why does anyone get married? |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by Nobody: 2:22am On Apr 02, 2008 |
echelon: Gbam! |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by TheSly: 2:32am On Apr 02, 2008 |
To have a legitimate sex partnerOppsss another one tonight!! So all the ones we are having now are not legitimate? . . . . .pls go n check the meaning of ''Legitimate'' i beg! |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by Nobody: 2:35am On Apr 02, 2008 |
don't say I didn't forewarn you |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by TheSly: 4:34am On Apr 02, 2008 |
nwando:Nothing dey happen. . . . . . . . , .Ko si ewu loko afi girigiri aparo! |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by echelon(m): 8:29am On Apr 02, 2008 |
®~^Sly^~®: Guilty conscience |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by Kashif(m): 8:56am On Apr 02, 2008 |
the poster has run away Marriage = Love sharing |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by OrumbaS89(f): 6:14pm On Apr 02, 2008 |
I didn't go anywhere! I still need insight on why you think the world promotes marriage. Keep the post coming. |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by superman(m): 10:19pm On Apr 02, 2008 |
and why do j-lo get married multple times to say the least in the so called god bless america ehhh be real. fake we are out |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by Nobody: 3:22am On Apr 03, 2008 |
superman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! where have you been |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by superman(m): 6:36pm On Apr 03, 2008 |
nwando bro spent x mas in nigeria then bk to london dey hostle small small thanx to noticin my absence here. we nt goin anywhere |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by coolier(f): 7:22pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
I wonder o! |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by superman(m): 10:09pm On Apr 24, 2008 |
hmm it look like there is some pop corn or sweet corn out there for me. ha we arent goin anywhere |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by Tattooboy: 6:55pm On Apr 25, 2008 |
@poster damn |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by OrumbaS89(f): 6:38am On May 21, 2008 |
Tattooboy- Why "damn"? |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by liquid7: 4:46am On May 25, 2008 |
OrumbaS89 (f) San Fran, CA Posts: 21 Offline Why Do Nigerians Get Married. « on: April 01, 2008, 04:55 AM » -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- When I got to college, every future plan I heard always included matrimony. With America topping lists of infidelity and divorce, I used to wonder why everyone was so determined to get married. Where they influenced by culture or their religion? Was their marriage or bust mentality due to socioeconomic factors? Or do this people believe in the age old adages of love and soulmates? I am an Igbo women. Growing up in alaigbo and America, I was taught that marriage is a vehicle that delivered love, financial security, and companionship. I want to know what to other Nigerians think about matriomony. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Money for hand back for ground.Dey still dey teach this one |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by Anuliph(f): 1:04am On May 26, 2008 |
Is this a question? |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Get Married. by redsun(m): 8:28am On May 26, 2008 |
Just for name sake most times.Most people don't understand the basis of relationship yet all they think about is marriage,especially black african girls,,just because my friend or my cousin is married,i want to marry as well,without even having a clue of what your roles are as a partner in marriage,put the traditional clues aside,the realistic clues. Some of them use their live savings to do that thing,even if it means starving the children,i have seen people do that,no love,no compromise,yet they want to be a MRS. Marriage as we know it today is a man made institution,traditions,the true marriage is the relationship,how real it is.You can't give what you don't have. |
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