Coefficient: Stop seeing him if you are really not interested, you're leading him on with the attention. Find something else to kill your boredom.

ayoola2002: Ask him to buy u a new blackberry Bold 10 precisely.

fluid26: I have seen this topic before.

Anywayz, do what you may. Persistence is what he is banking on. Perhaps, you may notice something about him that keeps eluding you.

butta: Stop hanging out wit him so as not to complicate things

Chrisbenogor: Yo,
Its very simple, be open and honest about it. Ask him to define your relationship, ask him what he thinks it is and where he thinks this heading. Be open enough to admit to him how exactly you see him and you are concerned that someone might get hurt if things are not ironed out at this stage.
The biggest problem is when you lead someone on and expecting them to "get" the message he might be thinking you are just playIng hard to get. If he is mature enough he will admit that he likes you in that way or you might be shocked that you are just sorely mistaken.

butta: Do u know u can avoid him in a decent and polite manner without a fuss ?

LadyTC: This guy seems not to be getting the picture or is turning a blind eye to the fact that I don't like him in that way. I don't call him or send him messages.bt if he asks me to hangout out of boredom I will. He asked me out on a date I said its not a date and we can just hang. He said okay. I hope am not leading him on.

butta: @esere826 well did only point I can reckon with your post is why she is not interested in him.

butta: Was not that hard was it ? Good girl u have lightened ur load hope he understands at least u were honest about ur feelings . Way to go girl

butta: @lady Tc pls why r u not interested in d Guy can u pls shed some light to at least have a clear view of your reasons

butta: @esere826 I can identify with what u mean the truth is women are like that they tend to think they know what they want and in reality most don't they are easily waivered by whatever is thrown at them

LadyTC:

Okay physically he is my type. But he is not a clean guy e.g he doesn't brush his teeth very well I mean I got a whiff one time, he smokes too much and drinks too much and parties too much and his friends are all known douche bags. He lied about one of his universities he went to I guess to impress me cos I went there. I do my research before I even think of dating a guy.he still dresses like he is a teenager saggin his jeans e.t.c I like my guys prim and proper.he is shallow. I can say he is money miss road. There are so many things that are just off with him. I mean onetime I hung out with him and his friends a friend of his from a different click of his told me explicitly not to that him that he thinks am a nice girl ( a married friend of his). I mean really why will I step into fire I love myself ooo

esere826:

A couple of girls were not interested in me
reasons varied from money to they having boyfriends etc (I could smell the reasons)
Some of them ended up being interested in me later, when I had lost interest in them (I naturally related with them based on thier initial reasons)

I had my cake, and I ate it
.....see what i mean

LadyTC:

Well me am not all women. I know what I want. Am not fickle. I am a drama free kinda girl. If I can avoid drama I do, except I have to deal with it. I would rather be his friend nothing more I really can't. I wonder why its always hard to find guys that want just friendship. I actually like having male friends its stress free.

esere826:

So u see that he is actually ur type to some extent
so let him down gently
Sometime in the future if ur still single and he comes ur way again
tell him the reason why u were not enthusiastic then, and how he has changed

he'll appreciate it and not think u're a gold digger or a broken record needing to be hooked

LadyTC:

That is wicked behaviour why not let them go since you lost interest. Guys u won't kill us.

esere826:

naaa dear
there's nothing like 'just friends' in the male world
except he's probably gay or goodie goodie

Ever wondered why ur mum doesn't have 'just male friends'?

Male and female's friendsip always tend to gravitate towards p.p.'s u see