greatgod2012: Sir, if the pregancy is not a high-risk one, abeg, dey fire dey go, 1st, 2nd and 3rd trimester, just dey go, you cant hurt any of them(baby and mother), the baby is already protected with and by amniotic sac, so, no qualms, if your wiffy ask, give her, if you feel like, ask her, talking from experience, all my pregnancies never put a gap btwn i and hubby, so, do away with that fear that you are going to hurt the baby or the mother.

I guess you are a first timer, if yes, then your fear is normal, so, no problem, you only have to change position aroud 5-term because of the protruding belly to maybe, from behind or other position in which you will not have to rest on the belly.
All in all, enjoy your wife and let your wife enjoy you.
You can ask your wife to get the book"everywoman", if she hasnt got one, its helpful for you both, most of what you may be afraid of are explained there.

Wishing your wife safe pregnancy and joyful delivery in advance.


Thanks sister. Actually my first time.
Cheers.

Darlene babe: women tend to b sexually active during pregancy. u can sleep wit her witout fear n stop during her 3rd trimester

uboma: Having sex during pregnancy is safe for both the mother and child. Your doctor can confirm that for a fact. Try positions comfortable for her like lying side by side with her. Avoid penetrating too hard. By all means, please do have sex with your wife. But discuss with her to ascertain if she is comfortable with her

Nice advice there , make he no go puncture him pikin eye

chaircover: There are 2 things here.

1. Poster doesnt feel like making love to his wife
2. He doesnt last as long as he used to

sir, you have received very good advise here about the safety of sex during non high risk pregnancy's, however one thing no one has asked is if you still find your wife attractive. Many men see their wives as more attractive and blooming during their pregnacy, while a smaller number dont, so you need to be truthful to yourself on the real reasons why you are finding it difficult to make love to your wife. Hopefully its just that you are scared of hurting the baby and your fears have now been allayed.

chaircover: cooger this is for you

chaircover:
That means you have a very crooked something

dayokanu: If the baby grabs the invading Kondo and bites it off nko?

dayokanu: ^^ Especially male infants, If you see the way they attack bo00bies you would think there is cocaine in it

coogar:

male infants have always loved boobs - i breastfed for 3 yrs!
legend has it that i wanted nothing else but boobs. the milk wasn't even the motivation but having something to suck on.

chaircover:

That means you have a very crooked something

coogar:

well - my ancestors were warriors in the desert of senegal - they were well-packaged.
however, your online shop would come to my rescue. i am ordering about a dozen toys in the coming months so brace yourself.

true talk.....
these babies of nowadays - very aggressive feeding habit! the son of my friend finishes baby food in a day or two. boy eats like a giant! i told my friend the baby must have been from a famine-ridden country in his other life.

dayokanu: If the baby grabs the invading Kondo and bites it off nko?

dayokanu: ^^ Especially male infants, If you see the way they attack bo00bies you would think there is cocaine in it

Darlene babe: women tend to b sexually active during pregancy. u can sleep wit her witout fear n stop during her 3rd trimester

dayokanu: ^^ Especially male infants, If you see the way they attack bo00bies you would think there is cocaine in it

chaircover: There are 2 things here.

1. Poster doesnt feel like making love to his wife
2. He doesnt last as long as he used to

sir, you have received very good advise here about the safety of sex during non high risk pregnancy's, however one thing no one has asked is if you still find your wife attractive. Many men see their wives as more attractive and blooming during their pregnacy, while a smaller number dont, so you need to be truthful to yourself on the real reasons why you are finding it difficult to make love to your wife. Hopefully its just that you are scared of hurting the baby and your fears have now been allayed.

Heartibaby:

Good point. The Op's problem may not be the fear of hurting the baby but the fact that he does not find his wife attractive sexually in her pregnant state. He should ask himself what the problem truly is in order to be able to solve the problem.

rugcarpet:
My wife is four months pregnant, since then, the urge to be intimate with her like before is low as I am Nt dat comfortable with being intimate with her in that condition, even if I try to, I won't last till like 5mins, the funniest thing is dat She is like demanding more at this time than before......... didn't know Wat to do oooh