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60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by Myah001(f): 8:05pm On Apr 10, 2013

1. PRAY TOGETHER ALWAYS
2. READ THE SCRIPTURES TOGETHER ALWAYS
3. Go on regular date nights
4. Hide notes in secret places
5. Go to bed at the same time
6. Listen to music together-share ear-buds
7. Buy him gifts he will love
8. Revitalize the romance with intimate dates
9. Wear shirts that tell the world you love your spouse
10. Praise your spouse to other people
11. Read a marriage devotional
12. Sleep in his t-shirts
13. Renew your vows privately with whispers and memories
14. Renew them publicly with cake and bubbly
15. Go away together at least once a year


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16. Hang pictures of the two of you around your house
17. Make his favorite dessert
18. Make sex a priority (UNDERLINE)
19. Spend time apart occasionally
20. Learn to enjoy something he loves
21. Surprise each other
22. Meet him at the door
23. Text each other from across the room
24. Set reminders on your phone to remember him/her throughout the week
25. Call him right now and tell him you appreciate him

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26. Leave work on time and come home early
27. Engage every day in meaningful conversation
28. Compliment each other
29. Take one day a month to make your spouse your total focus
30. Argue fair: avoid these words “you always” and “you never”
31. Kiss every day
32. Find tangible ways to serve your mate without complaining
33. Forgive quickly
34. Be honest.
35. Get on the same page: plan your budget together
36. Look your best as often as you can
37. Guard your marriage
38. Laugh together
39. When you are together-BE TOGETHER (take a break from phones, technology, etc)
40. Tell her she’s pretty, especially when she’s not feeling it

Both
41. Make each other breakfast in bed
42. Do her chores for her
44. Get a couple’s massage or host your own privately
44. Dance together-soft music (both of you alone) or rocking music with the kids
45. Exercise together- hikes, bike riding, etc
46. Choose not to be annoyed by an irritating behavior/disappointment from your spouse
47. Thank your spouse often even for the least reason or gesture
48. Lay in bed together and stare into each other eyes, without talking
49. Learn something new together-take an art class, cooking lessons, etc
50. Leave a sweet comment on the Facebook wall
51. Support each other’s goals
52. Bring her flowers/gifts (even when she says they are too expensive)
53. Wear something your spouse loves
54. Share furniture-sit in his lap
55. Fight for your marriage
56. Make a point to eat dinner together most days of the week.
57. Never let your spouse feel like they come second place to your career or any other thing.
58. Talk about your dreams and aspirations. Be supportive of each other and dream big together!
59. Maintain a united front as your motto: Meaning- “Me and you against the world.
60. Speak well of your spouse

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Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by kishy53(f): 8:12pm On Apr 10, 2013
Wonderful piece

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Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by Nobody: 8:25pm On Apr 10, 2013
lol @15, he go pick another woman..
Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by Nobody: 8:38pm On Apr 10, 2013
Nice.
Abeg Op, can u help me with a little romantic piece to write on his facebook wall right now? *thinking****
Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by Nobody: 8:41pm On Apr 10, 2013
This one is not a very good advice: 19. Spend time apart occasionally
Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by jasgold1: 2:13am On Apr 11, 2013
Nice.
Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by jasgold1: 2:16am On Apr 11, 2013
MrBible: This one is not a very good advice: 19. Spend time apart occasionally

I think dat one is to help refocus d marriage and the couples individually.

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Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by greatgod2012(f): 5:48am On Apr 11, 2013
Nice write-up, though, i dont agree with some points.



No two marriage can ever be the same, s, i will say, you continue that which your spouse love about you.
Conclusively............do unto your spouse that which you want him/her do unto you.


May God help us all.

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Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by Nobody: 8:25am On Apr 11, 2013
jasgold1:

I think dat one is to help refocus d marriage and the couples individually.

This can destroy marriages: 19. Spend time apart occasionally
Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by jasgold1: 9:33am On Apr 11, 2013
MrBible:

This can destroy marriages: 19. Spend time apart occasionally


For your marriage ok i agree.
like what the poster before you said what works for you might not work for some one else.

The topic is one persons point of view take what helps to heart and ignore the rest. SIMPLE.....

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Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by Nobody: 1:39pm On Apr 11, 2013
jasgold1:

For your marriage ok i agree.

I return to sender one Billion ............ Centillion times. Only God knows how many marriages you have destroyed already.

For the wise:
Spending time apart occasionally can easily become a regular event rather than an occasional event, whereby one partner starts over doing it. Why leave room for the devil to tempt you. Only spend time apart if it cannot be helped.
Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by hbabe(f): 1:43pm On Apr 11, 2013
Nice write up.
#48 sounds funny.
No time to lie and stare o.
Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by jasgold1: 3:49pm On Apr 11, 2013
MrBible:

I return to sender one Billion ............ Centillion times. Only God knows how many marriages you have destroyed already. shocked shocked shocked

So you are afraid... interesting. it cant return to me because you pointed out what you wanted.
I laugh in your face Mr... grin grin grin grin tongue i know i have made my self very clear in my last post. cool
I rest my case since it will make you sleep at night. i also no you will reply me so sharap in advance and stop acting like a kid that just spilled his milk.

And Let others Learn from the Tips posted

#justsaying grin tongue tongue tongue cool

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Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by nikkyshyne(f): 3:52pm On Apr 11, 2013
hbabe: Nice write up.
#48 sounds funny.
No time to lie and stare o.
grin

Nice tips. Mi likey. I have printed it out wink

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Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by Myah001(f): 3:55pm On Apr 11, 2013
hbabe: Nice write up.
#48 sounds funny.
No time to lie and stare o.

grin grin abi now
Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by Nobody: 7:43pm On Apr 11, 2013
jasgold1:
So you are afraid... interesting. it cant return to me because you pointed out what you wanted.
I laugh in your face Mr... grin grin grin grin tongue i know i have made my self very clear in my last post. cool

You have only made your foolishness clearer. All your curses will continue to return back on your head one Centillion times and they will remain on your head forever. You are a waste of time and I won't even read or reply your post anymore.
Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by sholay2011(m): 9:04pm On Apr 11, 2013
MrBible:

You have only made your foolishness clearer. All your curses will continue to return back on your head one Centillion times and they will remain on your head. You are a waste and I won't even read or reply your post anymore.
MrBible! You've started displaying foolishness again on this thread again! Kai!
Ppl shud spare me all these 'different things work for different ppl' excuses.
There are still some basic principles applicable to every SUCCESSFUL and ENJOYABLE not ENDURABLE marriage.

Asking spouses to be apart for few times is definitely a right point. Everybody should still try to rediscover him or herself, re evaluate and ponder on how to do tinz (even for ur spouse); evri1 needs to still retain that individuality stuff.

Also, I believe it also makes you cherish what time you have together more. Or why don't spouses work in the same company just to 'save' their marriage?

MrBible, a pity you love to expose ur ignorance too quickly.

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Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by Nobody: 9:10pm On Apr 11, 2013
sholay2011:
MrBible! You've started displaying foolishness again on this thread again! Kai!
Ppl shud spare me all these 'different things work for different ppl' excuses.
There are still some basic principles applicable to every SUCCESSFUL and ENJOYABLE not ENDURABLE marriage.

Asking spouses to be apart for few times is definitely a right point. Everybody should still try to rediscover him or herself, re evaluate and ponder on how to do tinz (even for ur spouse); evri1 needs to still retain that individuality stuff.

Also, I believe it also makes you cherish what time you have together more. Or why don't spouses work in the same company just to 'save' their marriage?

MrBible, a pity you love to expose ur ignorance too quickly.

Another fool has reared its ugly head. With the likes of you around no wonder so many marriages are in trouble today. You evildoers will all reap your reward in full.
Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by sholay2011(m): 9:13pm On Apr 11, 2013
MrBible:

Another fool has reared its ugly head. With the likes of you around no wonder so many marriages are in trouble today. You evildoers will all reap your reward in full.
Lol@ calling me an evildoer. God help your sorry ar.se. But instead of wasting much tym on NL spewing trash, y dnt u go sit down wiv d Bible and meditate so ur common sense can be restored.

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Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by Nobody: 9:17pm On Apr 11, 2013

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Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by Nobody: 9:18pm On Apr 11, 2013
sholay2011:
Lol@ calling me an evildoer. God help your sorry ar.se. But instead of wasting much tym on NL spewing trash, y dnt u go sit down wiv d Bible and meditate so ur common sense can be restored.

What do you expect when adults like yourself who are still babies are allowed to post what they like on this section.
Re: 60 Ways To Make Your Marriage Rock! by Chinwem(f): 6:26pm On Apr 12, 2013
Lovely

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