State Of Confusion

fIRST OF ALL, WOULD LIKE TO SAY A BIG HI TO EVERYONE. tHIS IS MY FIRST POST ON NAIRALAND!!

And would like to know on the whole, If a guy's confused (keeps giving u mixed signals, but doesn't necessarily say he is iconfused) it generally means he doesn't want to be with you right?

No not at all. it migth be you,u are not sending the rigth signal OR[b][/b] he migth be the type that have attitude, or let me say mood-swing. Some guys are like that.u may have to deal with that if u really like the guy.

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No not at all. it migth be you,u are not sending the rigth signal OR[b][/b] he migth be the type that have attitude, or let me say mood-swing. Some guys are like that.u may have to deal with that if u really like the guy.

please you are not in a relationship and he wants to have mood swings? on your bike my son.


Hi Hot-cocoa
Maybe you should tell him if you like him and then you will get your answer, maybe he is scared lol

Sending mixed signals? It's a deliberate strategy used by some men to attract women. There's a newsletter they listen to that adminishes them not to be "wusses". According to the theory, when you send mixed signals to a woman you are playing her own game against her and it works really well to get them into bed (i.e. relationship).

riiight. well guess this guy's game just backfired. Already starting to lose interest

it's already working. You started an entire thread about him! he only needs to avoid overdoing it!

Seun:

Sending mixed signals? It's a deliberate strategy used by some men to attract women. There's a newsletter they listen to that adminishes them not to be "wusses". According to the theory, when you send mixed signals to a woman you are playing her own game against her and it works really well to get them into bed (i.e. relationship).

@seun, so u are one of the disciples of Deangelo (Asiri ti tu)

Mixed feelings can come from anyone, depends on who's looking for what.

Sure he don't already gotta girl?
Oftentimes when it's gettin' hard to decode a guy it's because he's playin'.

That may also be the case. Men are fairly straightforward most of the time, compared to women.

Sometimes when we guys have a lady friend that we like and will want to go beyond just being friends we are scared of saying it cos we think she may say no and the realtionship as friends will not be as it use to be.Girl its left to u.flow with whatever signal the guy brings if u want to have something to do with him,dont run into ur shell when he is trying to open up.

@hot-cocoa

welcome to NL

first, I guess you must put your man on the table and dissect your thoughts with him in focus.

what is your definition of his "signal", signal that what: love? sex? marriage?

once you get his signals straightened out, then you can talk of mixed signals.

huh?

my 2 cents

when a man gives u mixed signals, u give him mixed response

GBAM

he is not that into you

just realised this post is from 4 years ago,

if a man is giving mixed signal, then you need to CARVE OUT LOVE & CONNECTION TIME.
Take 1-2 minutes (or more) at least once each day to stop everything else, and focus on your love, admiration, appreciation of him, even if, for now, it is one-sided. A good time might be when your partner just comes home. This is not the time to talk about the toilet backing up or overdue bills or your frustrations at work. Don't mix problems in with connection time. Think of this as sacred time. If you have children, train them that this is mommy and daddy together time, then will come their time. What could be a better model for your children to observe than their parents loving each other. If u apply these principles, be sure the man will return love in great ways as He will feel respected and loved.

Firearm:

my 2 cents

when a man gives u mixed signals, u give him mixed response

GBAM

Exactly my words

Firearm:

when a man gives u mixed signals, u give him mixed response

It is give and take.
When a man gives u mixed signals,u take mixed signals.

The best way to find out sometimes if a person is as into u as u can appreciate is to withdraw Ur presence from them.

i had an experience like this but in my case the guy was playin are sure he doesnt have another girl somewhere press him to find out

tweetch:

i had an experience like this but in my case the guy was playin are sure he doesnt have another girl somewhere press him to find out

Tweetch is twitchy itchy and I got just what the Doctor recommended. The Cure for the Itch!

He`s not that into you, Move on.

I do not understand why you all find this hard to believe. Several people on Nairaland do this. My life may be in danger for exposing this but I will go ahead. Seun is the same person as Kobojunkie and Becomerich. Eze-Uche is the same person as Jarus and Ajanlekoko. Jakumo is the same person as Beaf, Kosovo, Davidylan, and dayokanu. Micellin99 is the same person as Tudor. And so on. I cannot believe that you guys are ignorant of the double personalities on Nairaland. I guess this is why Nigeria lacks the intellectual capital to move forward.

Double I D? chei! what a fraudulent and deceitful tendency.

I have access to highly classified information from the database that stores the information. That is all I can said for now. I will be coming with more details as the days go by. This is going to be ground moving. Just wait and see.

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why
old thread

Who dey bring all these thread back now