I like a Lady thats shows she is interested!

But many of you seem to prefer to sit back & wait for the Man to come along.

Really I think its very hard to tell what a person is all about off here,& the fear of rejection,or the ouch of rejection puts a lot of us off making the first point of communication.What say you all!

Males, do you prefer hearing from the lady first? When you see how many check you out & don't leave any sort of a message I'm thinking, what's up?

The question is: do they like you?!

It's called playing hard to get, women and their pride sef

Death to 'playing hard to get'! or something like that

meeen, women are really in a tight corner here.
when they ask a man out, they are like whores.
when they play hard to get , we say they are full of unnecessary pride and seek revenge after we eventually woo them.

i like it both ways. if a pretty girl tries to ask me out, i feel on top of the world and try not to make her feel bad about her decision to chose me(that is if the feeling is mutual)

if i ask a girl out and she accepts, cool , i still try to prove my self. but i think its very cool, lovely and sexy if a girl i have a crush on askes me out

only kids play hard to get. on the other hand im iffy about freebies

omo ibo r u from umuahia

Freebies dont go down too well with men, but playing hard to get is a waste of time if she eventually falls for it all.
A real woman goes for what she wants in a systematic manner

YES, im fom UMUAHIA

Let the brave take the first step

the thing i if i am feeling you and i knw yu like me, ill def let yu knw, most guys i like know i like them and shit, i aint telling yu to start a relationship or anything, feelings shuld be expressed in my own opinion, if i cant date yu i'll let yu knw and stuffs,

Cadet:

If I like you, I'll let you know

If I don't like you, I'll still let you know

If I can't stand you, I won't hesitate to let you know

If I think you're unattractive and trying to hit on me, I'll let you know you're unattractive

If you have some flaws you're unaware of, you'll be the first to know

2 thumbs up

aloib:

2 thumbs up

Cadet:

If I like you, I'll let you know

If I don't like you, I'll still let you know

If I can't stand you, I won't hesitate to let you know

If I think you're unattractive and trying to hit on me, I'll let you know you're unattractive

If you have some flaws you're unaware of, you'll be the first to know

Word girl.

Cadet:

If I like you, I'll let you know

If I don't like you, I'll still let you know

If I can't stand you, I won't hesitate to let you know

If I think you're unattractive and trying to hit on me, I'll let you know you're unattractive

If you have some flaws you're unaware of, you'll be the first to know

I know something you don't know

I can't help it, You'll be the first to know . . .
Anyway what did you do this time?

@topic
I wouldn't care less, will get what I want anyway.

Oh I can sense you from miles
I can see when you smile
Me and your dad's money . . . we belong together babes

Cadet:

If I like you, I'll let you know

If I don't like you, I'll still let you know

If I can't stand you, I won't hesitate to let you know

If I think you're unattractive and trying to hit on me, I'll let you know you're unattractive

If you have some flaws you're unaware of, you'll be the first to know

why do i not believe u? i partially agree with the bolded bit.
the rest is what ud want to do but end up not saying. u'd rather avoid any contact.

now, u know im right!

OMO IBO:

why do i not believe u?

ok

OMO IBO:

the rest is what ud want to do but end up not saying. u'd rather avoid any contact.

Since you don't know me apart from what I show on NL, you won't understand.

OMO IBO:

now, u know im right!

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You really dont have to wait for a woman to show interest.

I love putting the fact out there that i am interested in a guy when i meet him and i like him.
Some of my friends have said its not a good thing - but i only do that when i see that the guy himself is interested.

@Poster

In other words you are scared of approaching a lady. Look here bro'. There is nothing wrong in approaching a lady, it is not a crime. What if she doesn't show interest? She might be going through stuff. And you might be the dude to cheer her up. "You might be the medication her doctor ordered". You just never know a woman's heart, it's as deep as an Atlantic ocean. The only way to find out is by checking. Talk to her and if she is not in the mood, politely leave and compliment her.

Just in case you need a pick up line, here is one. Depending on what she is doing: carrying some weights, waiting for a cab or just walking along. If she is carrying stuffs, walk up to her and ask her if she needs some help? Tell her"A pretty Lady like you shouldn't be sweating like this, Do you mind if i help?".

If she is waiting for a cab, greet her politely without a handshake wait till she gets the cab and ask her if she doesn't mind you helping her get one. say this "Hey, sorry for the wait, it might be a little hard sometimes catching a cab around this neck of the woods, do you mind if i help"? Once you get the cab, introduce yourself and give her a soft handshake, trust me she will come back to that spot! Unless she is married or engaged.

If she is just walking by. slightly walk up to her and greet her (Hey, beauty queen, how are we doing today? etc etc). If she responds, follow up nicely by complimenting her saying "it would be a mistake if i didn't tell you how gorgeous you look in that dress, i really appreciate a good dress and a nice body to match it must be a top of the line kind of dress". If she doesn't respond to your kind words, forget it she is not interested or having a really bad day. But don't forget to compliment her as you leave. Good luck Buddy. NEVER START A CONVERSATION WITH A LADY BY ASKING FOR HER PHONE NUMBER!!! THAT'S NO NO !

@sweet t
nice lines there, surly gonna apply them in my latest quest for a soulmate, my prob with ladies is that they make it so difficult for a guy that is interested in them even though they like the guy, am not the kind of guy with so much patience, am not d type that drools over a lady for so long, sometimes a feel i have a problem wit my relationship with ladies cos i am the reserved type but quite jovial, wat do u tink,
@ adeboo
checkd ur profile, nice pics but which of them are u

It's damned if you do, and damned if you don't

First you want us to be able to tell you we are interested or we can do the asking, why must it be the men asking only?

Later, it's - as women, don't show desperation we should play hard to get, why must the woman ask? Isn't it the job of the man?. . .

People and their wahala


I totally agree

@ topic, who woulda thunk it .

I come to realize they too shows interest but they will start giving attitude as if relationship is a disgusting thing to go into with a boy

Me I believe the man have to come or show interest first and the lady SHOULD reply only by body language. Any thing above that is bulshit