WackyJ1: That's the reason why men cheating and women cheating should never be equated, so far as i know guys cheat for just two straight forward reasons.
But for ladies they are so varied and most times ridiculous.

190: chikk be nice to me remember we are dating

onye ego: She cheat, u cheat.
Mata settled

onye ego: She cheat, u cheat.
Mata settled

hiden_conyo: i.dont think it's acceptable for a girl to cheat on her man

chikk:

I have interest in these statements. But do you mind throwing more light on them please?

chikk:

What?? Like seriously?? But you think its acceptable for a man to cheat on his woman abi?

WackyJ1:
Well, i won't go into much here, i am writing an article on why women cheat and it is also 8 microsoft pages long, with contributions from some guys around me who have seen many cases it will soon be complete.
but as for the reasons why men cheat, first reason is that "Variety is the spice of life, they may not necessarily feel anything for the girl but they just want to taste something different. as for the other reason, they just want to have backup in case their current babe goes astray because guys are becoming increasingly aware of the tendency of ladies to cheat these days (after all the stress they go through in the relationship, they have to live with the fact that it may all be for nothing later).

chikk:

Its so unfortunate that from your post, you limited 'relationship' to just dating. You forget that married people are on this section of the forum and, they may read your posts.

What you're saying is that, to men, cheating on their women is JUST A BACKUP? In the case of a married man, what's the backup for?

You're writing an article on 'why women cheat' and you take contributions from guys around you? Do I take it that your conclusion that men cheat for just two reasons, was brought about by the contributions given to you by the women around you?

Seriously, I'd like to read this article!

WackyJ1:
yes the married men. Well i'd like to believe that those men went through the long process of dating in order to know who their wives were before tying the knot. And i didn't really consider the marriage angle, there really should not be cheat from anyone once marriage sets in.
For the married men, they don't need backup just the first reason given: variety

nah from the guys as well, and also from my own personal feelings (i would never cheat but whenever i get temptations i sit down to analyse why). Do women really know why guys cheat? Don't they just jump to assume that guys are dogs and liars?.. Guy's reasons are just short and boring because they usually cheat with their eyes wide open, they walked into it..
But for the ladies, there are so many reasons, some so ridiculous as i said that you wonder whether the female specie has any sense at all, sometimes they don't know they're going down that path until they find themselves there. One reason eg is self delusion, they see the sign but choose to ignore that the sign is a sign.

chikk:

dating??
Moon man? Is that you?
Be nice to you? With the silly post above? If I hear!

Chikk honey but u know Nigerian girls 80% of them are money freaks and thieves
so this OP could have met one of those lucky 80%
please be nice to me, u know nigerian girls are BAD!

and please dont curse me - remember we are dating

190:

Chikk honey but u know Nigerian girls 80% of them are money freaks and thieves
so this OP could have met one of those lucky 80%
please be nice to me, u know nigerian girls are BAD!

and please dont curse me - remember we are dating

chikk:

Moon man, where did you get that statistics from? Source please?? See you asking for mercy in advance. Sorry for you.

Nigerian girls are bad, I'm a nigerian girl. Therefore, I'm bad. That's a deductive reasoning. Don't expect me to be good. I won't curse you though, 'cos I'm sure u know what you're doing. Carry on.

Thats why you love me dont you

190:

Thats why you dislike me dont you

chikk:

Yeah. I do

one thing i know is when a woman says NO she means yes
Thanks for disliking me loving me anyways
the feeling is mutual

190:

one thing i know is when a woman says NO she means yes
Thanks for disliking me loving me anyways
the feeling is mutual

chikk:

Good! U dislike me, I dislike u. So can we leave it that way? I promise I won't quote u again

damn this girl hard!
ok lets settle our beef with a kiss
but im still the same moon man u know
while u be my chick

chikk:

Good! i like 190,190 likes me. So can we leave it that way? I promise I will quote u again

190:




damn this girl hard!
ok lets settle our beef with a kiss
but im still the same moon man u know
while u be my chick

hiden_conyo: this is serious

Flytefalls:
Wahoo

wow baby

was just talking with my cuzin chikk

hiden_conyo: this is serious

190:


wow baby

was just talking with my cuzin chikk

chikk:

Can't u just remain hidden?

Flytefalls:
I'm your cousin from now