What habit does your hubby have that you cannot tolerate and what are the things they do that interest us despite our differences?

Running red lights in slow traffic areas because no cop or camera around to catch him over here like he is in Onitsha market! No matter what I say. . . it is like a disease! Incurable! Even citations upon citations by the cops only has a momentary effect.

The worst. . .inside grocery store parking lots with pedestrian crossings. . .He just goes blind. Very annoying! Then he will argue on top of it like a "malu"!

Long hisssssssssssssssssss! Anyway, thank God the auto insurance policies payments come from his own checking account not mine! I know it still eats into the over all budget of the house. . .but I'd rather not be reminded of that foolishness by writing having those premiums debitted from ma account monthly.

Well Trooe, i hope for your own sake, there is nothing naughty on there, or you might find urself becoming F@£king star on the internet overnight.

Oh how I wish the guys are reading, so they'll  change, hopefully.

Mine has a bad habit of biting his nails. He would bite in the morning, noontime and night time. You know the fingers cannot be clean all the time and yet he would chop on like no man's business Ive teased and teased and he's not moved. Ask me how I expect such an old habit to die, what his Momma couldn't take from him!

Like OBJ he also clears his throat much too often and that gets on my nerves

Mine has a bad habit of biting his nails.

Why do ladies like to obsess over irrelevant things?
I swear I'll dump any girlfriend I have if she turns out to be a nag.

Seun:

Why do ladies like to obsess over irrelevant things?
I swear I'll dump any girlfriend I have if she turns out to be a nag.

Seeun, how can you call nail-biting by a 40something-year old irrelevant?

Good luck to you if you dump every girlfriend who points out that she's not comfortable with a bad habit of yours.

Why don't you just post the bad habit(s) of your girlfriend (if you have one), at least that is the simple request of the poster .

his carelessness pisses me off he can be very careless wt things,and keep looking for his things everyday,ive told him one day he will forget his name

the worst of all is he's sometimes disorganised ,i dont know it wasnt like dis wen he was single,ever since we got married i dont know if he thinks he brought a house girl into his house ,wen he comes home he flings his shoes to d toilet,his shirt to the parlour,ties to the bedroom and the trousers he flings on my face

jennykadry:

his carelessness pisses me off he can be very careless wt things,and keep looking for his things everyday,ive told him one day he will forget his name

the worst of all is he's sometimes disorganised ,i don't know it wasnt like this when he was single,ever since we got married i don't know if he thinks he brought a house girl into his house ,when he comes home he flings his shoes to d toilet,his shirt to the parlour,ties to the bedroom and the trousers he flings on my face

lmao

lmao

my sister no be small thing oooo

Having no navigational skills whatsoever!
Plus he can't cook for sheet. I mean atleast just know how to boil rice; am not asking for too much

Plus he can't cook for sheet. I mean atleast just know how to boil rice; am not asking for too much

guess im d lucky one here my own sabi cook pass me sef

jennykadry:

his carelessness pisses me off he can be very careless wt things,and keep looking for his things everyday,ive told him one day he will forget his name

the worst of all is he's sometimes disorganised ,i don't know it wasnt like this when he was single,ever since we got married i don't know if he thinks he brought a house girl into his house ,when he comes home he flings his shoes to d toilet,his shirt to the parlour,ties to the bedroom and the trousers he flings on my face

LMAO

But most men seem to be like that. Most married women I know complain of dat.

But most men seem to be like that. Most married women I know complain of that.

i don't know why most of them men are like that,its crazy u know,una no marry house girl ooo,afterall when una dey swear d oath na I TAKE You NGBEKE(OR WATEVER HER NAME IS) AS MY LAWFULLY WEDDED WIFE;una no say I TAKE You (D GIRL NAME)AS MY LAWFULLY WEDDED HOUSE GIRL

I am also like that but i do help her out and sometimes dish wash and cook for her. I like to pamper her

Jennykadry, I know what you mean! I start to pick up after my hubby from the front door! Shoes, shirt, bag. My living room will turn into a dressing room if I don't.
He is so forgetful! It's "Babe remind me of this and that and that." Like my own head is empty, just waiting to fill it with his reminders.

Jennykadry, I know what you mean! I start to pick up after my hubby from the front door! Shoes, shirt, bag. My living room will turn into a dressing room if I don't.
He is so forgetful! It's "Babe remind me of this and that and that." Like my own head is empty, just waiting to fill it with his reminders.

my dear no be small thing ooo,d other day he was looking for his shoe,one was in d bedroom and d second leg was in d sitting room,dis men will never change ehn,i decided i wont b picking his things up again,but if i no do am,who go do am

interesting,

If you can't tolerate his domestic habits, why should you marry him? Don't marry what you can't accept!

If you can't tolerate his domestic habits, why should you marry him? It won't happen to me.

because at d time he was single he was a little bit organised cos if he scatters he has to rearrange it himself,but wenever they bring a woman into d house they scatter and leave it for d woman to rearrange

Seun what kinda man do you plan to marry then?

I'll marry a woman I can accept just as she is. Habits and all.

Seun:

I'll marry a woman I can accept just as she is. Habits and all.

Even when she picks her nose at every given opportunity.

Seun, abeg leave dis issue 4 ppl dat re already in it ok. come n join after a wk of ur wedding ok. is so sweet n easy to say, actn is d koko abeg. men wit thier sweet tongue.

Infact sm1 told me dat d different b2 a hubby and a male child is just SEX. so my dear sis, keep keeping on we all will get there and those dat married d homely kind of guys, u re truely blessed, pls do cherish him because it is real.

bluehorizo:

Even when she picks her nose at every given opportunity.

Kewlllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll . . . . iyanma

Mine . . .although we ain't married but he tends to be sooooo right all the time . . .most time he is anyways

@Busta

Do you mean he is the perfect lover? No one is perfect my sister.

The simple truth is that a woman marries a man expecting him to change but he doesn't and a man marries a woman expecting her not to change but she does. Either way, you never know the true and complete character of a man or woman until you are married. No matter how long your courtship lasted. My people say Ile oko ile Eko ni. Matrimony is a new learning institution. So if you are in it, go on learning until you become a professor emeritus.

bluehorizo:

@Busta

Do you mean he is the perfect lover? No one is perfect my sister.

neva said he was.

I tot the topic was "Bad Habits Of You Spouse That You Can't Stand?" and not " habits of your spouse that makes perfect"

madam hates d fact that i watch cartoons,am an obsessive computer nerd + book worm while i hate the fact that she watches the style channel, (dr 90210, snoop doggs fatherood ), africa magic and those latin soaps

Have you tried flinging the shoes, shirt and so on into the trash can as soon as he's flinging them around the house

Very easy! he flings the shoe, you catch am with right hand and fling the sh**t with left hand enter trash can! simple

This thread is funny. Prince onx you are not serious