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Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Matthewbriggs(m): 8:56pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
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Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by webizone(m): 9:07pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
AjanleKoko: Me no get o 4 uni, now wey I don dey finish service, no hope again? Haba. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 9:09pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Matthew briggs: .you just repeated all what the OP said in fancier language. Ishilove:why I go leave you? No be you promise me marriage that year? |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by FXKing2012(m): 10:01pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
I'm glad I made it to 400 level but I have a question for our lecturer, Prof. esere826. I have seen several cases where the lady is on a higher social stratum yet goes for a guy of a lower stratum despite several offers from guys of her stratum or even higher stratum. My point is I think love cannot be reduced to mere formula because many a time it defies logic. What do you think sir? 2 Likes |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by sayso: 11:38pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Topic looking like a wake up call to guys/ladies. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by biolabee(m): 12:10am On Apr 23, 2013 |
Matthew briggs: What a very smart analysis at OP, from you post I deduced the following. Sweet!! The esere briggs theorem is getting traction |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 12:38am On Apr 23, 2013 |
brokoto: you just repeated all what the OP said in fancier language. Yes and he admitted by saying that those were his deductions. He is just giving a summary for anyone that needs a crash course. Trust NLers, some will gate crash at 400 level and make insipid contributions. His summary is to help forestall that and help some understand the whole theorem better. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by webbjamie(m): 1:03am On Apr 23, 2013 |
Look what adverse economic conditions have done to society's psyche... |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 7:28am On Apr 23, 2013 |
webb jamie: Look what adverse economic conditions have done to society's psyche...welcome to Nigeria. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by esere826: 7:41am On Apr 23, 2013 |
FXKing2012: I'm glad I made it to 400 level but I have a question for our lecturer, Prof. esere826. I have seen several cases where the lady is on a higher social stratum yet goes for a guy of a lower stratum despite several offers from guys of her stratum or even higher stratum. It would be great if u share one or two of the stories. It would also be nice if we have some contextual background information like: Age of couple; economic standing of couple in the preceeding 10 years period; height of couples; look of couples; religious inclination of couples etc This should help us in better understanding what went 'right' with them |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by chronique(m): 7:44am On Apr 23, 2013 |
Where are the final year students? lecturer is around o. Pls take ur seats ASAP. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 7:52am On Apr 23, 2013 |
FXKing2012: I'm glad I made it to 400 level but I have a question for our lecturer, Prof. esere826. I have seen several cases where the lady is on a higher social stratum yet goes for a guy of a lower stratum despite several offers from guys of her stratum or even higher stratum.Love does not exist in this strictly differential dx/dy assembly. At best it can be defined as fuzzy. It is phucking moot. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by esere826: 7:52am On Apr 23, 2013 |
@Matthew briggs, ishilove et al I appreciate your critique which insists that love in itself is ethereal and immeasurable. This might be the case but we'll try our best to peel as much measurable layers off love much like understanding sperms, eggs, zygots, fusion, fission, all in trying to understand LIFE itself 1 Like |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by biolabee(m): 7:57am On Apr 23, 2013 |
chronique: Where are the final year students? lecturer is around o. Pls take ur seats ASAP. Seated I finally cleared my carry over |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by esere826: 7:59am On Apr 23, 2013 |
My wilderness years of breaking down LOVE lead me to these important questions 1) Why is it that when a partner dies, the living partner can later love again? 2) Why is it that someone can 'love' someone; if rejected he/she goes on to love another person later on? 3) Intelligence agencies have this way of sometimes waiting for years then appealing for people that have past information to come forward. They believe that at some point in future, bonds might have weakened 4) Why do some people fall inlove with more than one person? 5) Do we really have 'A' sould mate? 6) what happens if that soul mate is in Japan? (ref taken from TD Jakes) 7) What happens if the person whom we 'love' is married? 8 ) What happens if we love someone, the person gets missing for 6 years; we then love the 2nd person; then the 1st love appears (a rough example is Winnie and Nelson Mandela) 9) Is love only applicable when both parties love themselves? what if I love u, and u dont love me back. What happened? Did cupid missing and strike only one instead of both parties? Look through these questions, critique, answer and draw some conclusions 2 Likes |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 8:14am On Apr 23, 2013 |
^^^ I de come, make I go baff. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 9:07am On Apr 23, 2013 |
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Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 9:15am On Apr 23, 2013 |
esere826: My wilderness years of breaking down LOVE lead me to these important questions In my opinion, @1-4----Human capacity to love is infinite, hence we can love more than one person simultaeneously though in varying degrees. It is all about the mix. A combination of innate qualities and characteristics that we desire in the other person usually serves as the trigger. The more desirable qualities a prospect has, the higher up the desirability quotient ladder he/she moves hence the more the prospect is 'loved' above others. @5-6---I'd like to think of a soulmate as one with the most number of desirable qualities that we can find yet before making that commitment.I think the soulmate factor comes to play when we meet that someone who meets or surpasses most of our expectations of our desirable qualities. However that can change if someone with more desirable traits shows up but it is very rare. Unfortunately, many don't get to meet their soulmates and only settle for those they can accommodate the most and vice versa. Ooops! Gotta run, be back later. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 9:15am On Apr 23, 2013 |
FXKing2012: I'm glad I made it to 400 level but I have a question for our lecturer, Prof. esere826. I have seen several cases where the lady is on a higher social stratum yet goes for a guy of a lower stratum despite several offers from guys of her stratum or even higher stratum.This case is only possible if the boy is very handsome, Tall,very funny, or very inteligent in relation to the girl. And also the girl needs to be very comfortable financially and also young. If any of this desirable trait is present in the guy, then the OP position on dating UP by women still remain valid. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by troy20(m): 9:34am On Apr 23, 2013 |
esere826: .......Pastor paul continuedall dt story na lie.na 2day? |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by troy20(m): 9:41am On Apr 23, 2013 |
esere826: Analysing Paul's relationshipbt u said his father waz a chief judge n he even had d means 2 venture abroad once? den we wey neva see border hw will u rate us.Pls cut dis bull crap of a story.its annoying |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by biolabee(m): 9:51am On Apr 23, 2013 |
Darn.. Too much anger in the system Some people here travelled abroad for the first time in their 40s Na wa o 1 Like |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by esere826: 9:57am On Apr 23, 2013 |
sayso: Topic looking like a wake up call to guys/ladies. You are extremely correct |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by FXKing2012(m): 10:00am On Apr 23, 2013 |
chronique: Where are the final year students? lecturer is around o. Pls take ur seats ASAP.I'm a bit late to class today ooo, hope I wont be sent out. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 10:17am On Apr 23, 2013 |
troy20:comprehension mate, comprehension. Its not enough to just know how to read o. Lol. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 11:08am On Apr 23, 2013 |
atbu1983: This case is [b]only possible [/b]if the boy is very handsome, Tall,very funny, or very inteligent in relation to the girl. And also the girl needs to be very comfortable financially and also young. If any of this desirable trait is present in the guy, then the OP position on dating UP by women still remain valid. What about a situation where the guy is humble and 'level headed' or the pity factor? Some unions are born out of pity for the other fellow, some urge to be seen as the hero or redeemer. How about the rebellion factor? Some people may want to get involved with people from a particular social stratum in defiance to family traditions. Lecturer esere, I'd like you to touch on some of these points as they seem not to have a place yet in your theorem. Assistant Lecturer, Ajanlekoko pls assist in throwing more light, your views are highly appreciated. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 11:22am On Apr 23, 2013 |
mekula:Such unions are inherently unstable, like plutonium. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by walan(m): 12:13pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
biolabee: No be small theorem o. More peops need to see this. As this education is seriously needed. This kind of analysis is really outside what one usually sees around here. @OP I think this should be developed further and documented. It will serve as instruction for the upcoming, myself included(even though i be old man! ). Nice one sha. Please dont let this insight die here o! |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by AtheistD(m): 12:51pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
@ OP What about "bedroom power"? Did you account for that in your detailed equations and analogy? Do you not think that it plays a role in attaining and even holding partners? What about the fluidity within a relationship? Some partners date up but are more likely to stick to their partner if their social or financial status changes... other are not. How can we tell which will stay and which will leave? 1 Like |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by troy20(m): 1:00pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
brokoto: comprehension mate, comprehension. Its not enough to just know how to read o. Lol.comprende broda.just didnt like his choice of example.tired of dem pastors leasurely serving us anytn n it becomes our life identity.somtn real instead. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Unluvable(f): 1:44pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
@ OP I think some people fall in love 'desired' qualities and not with the individual. That's the reason a they can fall in love with several persons that possess those qualities. E.g. If Obi loves ada because she is pretty, smart, artistic and funny Obi later loved nkem because she is pretty, smart, artistic and funny. What this means is that obi is in love with pretty, smart, artistic and funny not necessarily ada or nkem. And the level of love Obi feels is directly proportional to his desired qualities. Love aint blind indeed!! 3 Likes |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by AtheistD(m): 1:51pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Unluvable*: So if Obi met both together, how would he choose between the two? |
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