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Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by 2sexyus: 11:00am On Apr 25, 2013 |
So true... That is why I love the Chinese Government. In China, no facebook, only specific program are allowed to be aired on TV( mostly educative ones)and here in Nigeria, it the direct opposite. MTN, Glo and all other big brands are also making it worse with their washed talent hunt shows... Just a while ago, I was telling myself I need to do some more reading and explore more. Truth be told, I have deviated from who I used to be, a little, but when I see post like what the OP has done here, I am more compelled to go back to the drawing board and re-orientate my mind on the right focal length. God bless US! mekula: |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by esere826: 1:07pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
2sexy.us: Truth be told u don deviate from what u used to be well, well In Your case, forget Chinese government U need the Saudi Arabian or a Taliban government corrective educational program to reorientate u o 2sexy.us |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 1:16pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
yea right. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by 2sexyus: 1:20pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Hahaha esere826: |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by esere826: 1:34pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
BoboYekini: lol, on guard sir! Let us duel for the it feels more appealing and duel-able that way (but una say she's in her mid-40's naw. I no get liver to stretch that far) On a side note, what are your thoughts on the pick-up artist scene? Do you think such aids to seduction might work in Nigeria? maybe with a little local spin? wetin that wan mean? |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 1:56pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
esere826:Its a movement that suggests that you can seduce almost any woman by employing specific body language, verbal suggestions e.t.c., regardless of your financial or physical limits. As per Ishilove, I confess she remains a mystery to me. Still attractive nonetheless. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Insanity(m): 2:24pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
BoboYekini: Its a movement that suggests that you can seduce almost any woman by employing specific body language, verbal suggestions e.t.c., regardless of your financial or physical limits. Exactly. @esere, I will like to get ya response to this question using the earlier quoted theorem 'cuz I hav a 'Coach' junking ma spam box with mails on how to vibe wif any lady of ya choice in no time. Nice Thread BTW! |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by esere826: 2:32pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
BoboYekini: Its a movement that suggests that you can seduce almost any woman by employing specific body language, verbal suggestions e.t.c., regardless of your financial or physical limits.+ @insanity O that. I have my views on that alright But I think I have a better suggestion. Why wouldnt the person use body and verbal languages to make money instead If one can use it in seducing babes, one could also use it garnering business and in turn use the finances so gained in toasting What do u think? (u can also refer to my post #93 to 97 for a glimpse of what I think ur referring to https://www.nairaland.com/994349/how-create-economic-success-out/5) |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 3:40pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
esere826:very interesting, your other business thread. hmm, well the PUA school of thought argues that man is intrinsically wired to pursue different forms of success all to one end - to get to mate with desirable females. So, why not cut to the chase and approach the target directly? Lol, I am not that base so I suggest one can apply the skills to making money AND toasting chics. If pressed to pick one, abeg gimme the money! p.s. I am committed to reading all 7 pages of this :https://www.nairaland.com/994349/how-create-economic-success-out/5) |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by AjanleKoko: 4:44pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
@esere, Oya head out to the Religion section and Gladwell them with your breakthrough thinking. Some perspectives on the religious dynamics in Africa would be interesting to debate |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Ishilove: 7:23pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
esere826:Chei, I don suffer!! |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by DrBobbysmart(m): 8:02pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
Well all I can say is "wow, am impressed!". Av always gone thru threads on NL as a guest, buh afta going thru dis post and comments, I changed my mind & decided to register! This is so impressive...so far frm d norm...keep it up, guys!!! 1 Like |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Ishilove: 8:55pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
BoboYekini: lol, on guard sir! Let us duel for the nyansh of that fair damsel yonder (ishilove)You can't afford my nyash BoboYekini: As per Ishilove, I confess she remains a mystery to me. Still attractive nonetheless. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by adconline(m): 8:09am On Apr 26, 2013 |
esere826: My wilderness years of breaking down LOVE lead me to these important questions Romantic love is the most selfish thing. Love is in consideration for something......its not free and never will be.You can only love that person if he/she has most of the qualities you are looking for. It's like marketing..3ps. place, price, product. All these things must fall in place before a buyer pays,so is romantic love. most of the desirable traits must fall in place before we can settle. This we do in order to protect our selfish interest. So falling in love involves protecting one's interests; expanding those interests and gaining more ground. Falling in love has never been altruistic, it's like using what you have to get what you would not have gotten if you were to be alone. 1 Like |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Matthewbriggs(m): 7:15pm On Apr 27, 2013 |
adconline: The above is lust not love. Love is selfless. I have once fallen in real love with someone who didn't have the qualities I wanted in a woman, I fell in love with, who she was not what I wanted from her. also I have friends who have the qualities I want in my ideal woman, but I am not attracted to them talk less of falling in love. In my opinion this qualities increase the probability of you liking or fancying someone but not a sure bet to induce love. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by lordkrato(m): 1:12am On May 01, 2013 |
first,i salute oga prof,sori 4 being late sir,na stab i dey stab o. i had to sign attendance so that at least my progeny would feel proud of me being part of this. serious! i have saved the pages of this material for further study, dxy no be joke o! |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by lordkrato(m): 1:20am On May 01, 2013 |
Also its very sad that our people r nt stimulated by analytical nd non emotional topics, such a shame. a thread lyk ds suppose gt part 2,if na derailers paradise nw, b4 i update,25 people 4 don kill server,i dy pity 4 seun,takin care of retards,smh! |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Unluvable(f): 7:55am On May 01, 2013 |
lord krato: Also its very sad that our people r nt stimulated by analytical nd non emotional topics, That's how nairaland works, people respond more to thrash and gossips. And this thread doesn't really give room for insults!! 1 Like |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by adconline(m): 10:39am On May 01, 2013 |
Matthew briggs:So if the woman asked u to name one thing that made u fall in love, what would that be? |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Matthewbriggs(m): 5:54pm On May 01, 2013 |
adconline: I will tell her the qualities I see in her, that I love about her, Because that's what she wants to hear. But deep down I know that that's not the main reason, because there thousands of women with same qualities and I never fell for them. Love is a force I can't explain, no matter how we try it remains a mystery. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by adconline(m): 7:55pm On May 01, 2013 |
Matthew briggs:There is something that drew u to that woman.. Maybe physical..b0oty |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by walan(m): 3:42pm On May 03, 2013 |
adconline: True, something physical may draw you to a person but that is at one level. If you really look within yourself, you may find something deeper - something more like the need to connect/commune, to experience the sublime! - like MBriggs called it - something like a force that defies explanation. There is a flip side to all the materialistic lustings we humans engage in - call it the spiritual (i don't know but its there!) - that after all our graspings and gettings, still needs fulfilling and we glimpse it when we are with someone we truly truly like. The physical features might play a part but it doesnt end there always! 2 Likes |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by kristofa09(m): 10:42am On Jun 21, 2013 |
esere826: esere very beautiful write up...honestly we need to talk...especially on d love axis.i still feel love can make things tilt. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 2:08pm On Aug 27, 2013 |
dis is really gud ish ...na how 2 port enta dyy guyz be koko oohh but why d thread kan stop na "sad" |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 4:25pm On Aug 27, 2013 |
Just WOW!!! @esere...you're an intellect. I love reading articles that are written with wisdom and devotion. You really carried out a deep research on this topic. In fact, I am enjoying the whole posts, the comments from readers (the intelligent comments though), really educating, enlightening and entertaining. Wonderful!!! You just earned a medal from me...I hardly give out medals, but u earned one with your intelligent write-up. Why hasn't this thread hit the front page pls This merits a national forum/discussion for national enlightenment. Well done. Well done! I'm so impressed, will come back to finish the remaining pages |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by tpia5: 4:29pm On Aug 27, 2013 |
didnt read the thread but i think women have to up their game somehow. its not good seeing so many single bachelors who prefer to remain unmarried because of what they see around them, or whatever other reason. by up your game i dont mean sex, since you've already upped that. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by topsquino(m): 8:02pm On Aug 27, 2013 |
I think we need to re-define dis verb called 'LOVE' (in naija context) but before dat i wud lyk us to go back to history . those days , a man marries a woman dat he barely knew and there is a high probability dey both end up loving each other but these days the reverse is the case, most girl(Dxx) wants to date a guy with d pretext of wanting to know him better and knowing whether he is financially capable to tk care of her.she does this before finkin about love. in conclusion, I fink we can learn to love anybody provided we r mentally prepared for it and I fink Love is a function of d qualities we see in an individual, d moment those qualities r missing, d love eventually fades away with time. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Ugosample(m): 2:44pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
esere826: You are so right bro. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by justwise(m): 10:03am On Aug 21, 2016 |
mirob: You are absolutely right! 1 Like |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by chronique(m): 9:11pm On Aug 21, 2016 |
Someone liked a post I made here 3 yrs ago and this brought me back here. Glanced through this thread and thought it would be nice if we get lalasticlala to move it to the fp. 1 Like |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Ugosample(m): 10:18pm On Aug 21, 2016 |
chronique: So that small children of Nairaland will spoil the thread? lol; D There is no harm in your suggestion, but Nairaland had really degenerated |
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