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Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by Nobody: 1:53pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
biolabee: Gladly |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by jidewin(m): 1:53pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
debrief08: I agree with with her, I don't think she is refering to all married women but those but those who love to harass single women.My sister,where have you been?.I have been following your posts closely on Nairaland and i'm impressed with the maturity displayed in your write ups.Keep it up and endeavour to share some with many of the single babes here please. nuff respect. 1 Like |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by Connoisseur(m): 1:54pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Godmother: Mehn, I hope her husband never gets to see this oh. Would do well. We all have an idea of what marriage in Nigeria is all about, but most women wud never come out boldly like this for fear of d repercussions exactly what she s been saying |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by jidewin(m): 1:54pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Coldfeet: BIG OROBOLICIOUS LIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Author borrow me ur ear lemme tell you about my husband! I will stand on the highest peek and shout it out for the whole world to hear MY HUSBAND IS EVERYTHING!! You just wrote there. As for number 5 not really clear to me but then why would I want to leave a man (borrowing the words of Princess) who took away my shame? A man who saw beyond the wayward and stubborn young girl I use to be and made me his Oriaku? A man who God used to liberate me? A man who makes my toes wriggle uncontrollable each time{u know na } A man who can't go an hour without hearing from me? Abeg pack well joor if your husband na agbero no come console your self here saying no woman can have it this good welder soda that hand weh u use type this lubbish.hehehehe fantastique (in french) |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by Coldfeet(f): 2:03pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
sage_:AMEBO 1 Like |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by timbuk2u: 2:05pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Blazinraj01:Gee. I wonder why. |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by konn: 2:05pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
this is not true because one person is in a prison of marriage dosent mean another is not enjoying hers |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by Nobody: 2:05pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Thank You Jidewin. Bless you. Truth is the best a single person can do for himself/ herself is not to pretend. Don't accept things you can't take just because others tell you its the norm. Know that people are different, seek to know and understand the differences, no one is perfect but cheating and abuse are not normal acceptable behavior. You can't force anyone to love you, you can't bribe anyone to love you, you can't cook, clean and wash your way to anyones heart. A man/ woman who loves you will respect you and do things that will never put you at risk or hurt you. Keep an open mind. 1 Like |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by Nobody: 2:09pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
All these people trying to sound clever, na dem sabi jare. If your happiness depends on another person you are screwed simples!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by konn: 2:10pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
babestell: You all need to take a chill pill. we know she is not insinuating that all married women who make these statements are lying. But we also know that most of the time people will not tell you the truth about the harsh realities of their individual marriages. why should they tell u d truth about their marriage so that people like u will go about gossipping and poknosing around take it or leave the advantages in marriage is greater than d disadvangages |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by Nobody: 2:11pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Wait!! (In Lagos NSCDC ex-boss's voice) Audu the Mayguard will crawl unto ur bed like an "OMO NILE" tonight... |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by Nobody: 2:13pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
konn: . True sha |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by Nobody: 2:20pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Coldfeet: BIG OROBOLICIOUS LIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Author borrow me ur ear lemme tell you about my husband! I will stand on the highest peek and shout it out for the whole world to hear MY HUSBAND IS EVERYTHING!! You just wrote there. As for number 5 not really clear to me but then why would I want to leave a man (borrowing the words of Princess) who took away my shame? A man who saw beyond the wayward and stubborn young girl I use to be and made me his Oriaku? A man who God used to liberate me? A man who makes my toes wriggle uncontrollable each time{u know na } A man who can't go an hour without hearing from me? Abeg pack well joor if your husband na agbero no come console your self here saying no woman can have it this good welder soda that hand weh u use type this lubbish.You dey mind am? Abeg ride on but pls lemme borrow u my own ear so u can whisper to me what he does to make your toes wriggle 1 Like |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by Kechybee(f): 2:25pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Funke pls get a life and speak for yourself. There are still some faithful and responsible men/husbands out there. 2 Likes |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by Hugoboi(m): 2:28pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Kechybee: Funke pls get a life and speak for yourself. There are still some faithful and responsible men/husbands out there. You need to realise that she is a journalist and she's doing what she knows how to do best. Is that really hard for y'all to understand? Kai! 1 Like |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by onegig(m): 3:14pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
konn:even if it results in her death? No one is saying you turn the street gossip by telling every baba kasumu problems you are facing in your marriage but dont also pretend and tell heavenly takes as if all is well whenl there is a fire. Its better to seek help from the appropriate quaters 1 Like |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by eljp(m): 3:22pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
A-ZeD:TRUE TALK, SHE THINKS EVERY MAN IS LIKE HER HUSBAND? |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by mamacy: 3:28pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
What abt this one? Your Vj goes back to normal even after 4 kids? Shoo :ohow, after 4 human beings? Plss enh, make una dey tell us single ladies the real thing, so dat we r prepared |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by Nobody: 3:35pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
GOd i weep for the nigerian education system wtf adults can even read and comprehend that the author is a journalist and it neccessarily does'nt mean thats what she is experiencing in her marrige but just a common writeup about what' going on i n some marriages 1 Like |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by dasparrow: 3:37pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
timbuk2u: Gee. I wonder why. No need to wonder why. Average life expectancy in Nigeria is a miserly 52 years. Roads in Nigeria for the most part are very bad - just ask your politicians who are also victims of them - and Nigerians for the most part drive recklessly thereby endangering their lives and the lives of other drivers. Healthcare in Nigeria is a joke - again, ask your president's wife and all the politicians who fly to the western world for treatment of every minor ailment - and the quality of life in Nigeria is nothing to write home about. So what's there to wonder about why her husband is dead (late)? Besides, are we mortals meant to live forever? konn: @Bolded Go tell that to the young daughter of a woman in my area who died not too long ago after her philandering father infected her mother - his wife - with the deadly HIV/AIDS virus. Who is raising the orphaned kid now that her parents are both dead and gone and the families of both the late man and his wife want nothing to do with the child? A SINGLE never been married before church sister. So I politely disagree with you. Women with no self esteem that have really nothing going for them and who contribute nothing to the world other than overpopulating it with children who grow up to be Nigerian adults with questionable character - think scam, blood rituals, corrupt, material greed - have sadly a tendency to reason like you. @Post This thread does not tell me anything I don't already know. Nigerian women are the only women I know of who hassle other women for being single and the reason they do that is because most of them are not in happy marriages themselves. Misery they say loves company and so these toxic married Nigerian women want to harass single women into rushing into marriage so that the women can live out their temporary lives on earth miserably in a bad marriage. Now tell me if that is not wickedness which of course most Nigerians are known for. Besides, Nigerians should be the last set of people on earth to talk to anyone about marriage because the average married Nigerian man cheats with reckless abandonment and will not remain faithful to his wife while some Nigerian women go and get pregnant for their previous lovers if their husbands cannot impregnate them on a timely manner. There was an article I read quite recently that says most first born children born to Nigerian men by Nigerian women are not their biological kid. So what does that tell you? Truth is, most Nigerians are just obnoxious hypocrites and toxic losers. They have time to harass people based on marital status but they will not talk about the rampant child sex*ua*l molestation going on in Nigerian society by ped*ophi*les. They will not harass the thieves who call themselves politicians who leave them raising their kids without adequate basic amenities such as light, clean pipe borne water, access to affordable healthcare, good roads, state of the art universities, etc. No wonder these kids grow up to become the 419 scammers, drug traffickers, pro*sti*tutes, cultists, armed robbers, and corrupt politicians that the whole wide world knows Nigeria for. Mtshew! 4 Likes |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by FXKing2012(m): 3:38pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Kechybee: Funke pls get a life and speak for yourself. There are still some faithful and responsible men/husbands out there.Thank you dear and I love you too. |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by dasparrow: 3:38pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
ayswags: GOd i weep for the nigerian education system wtf adults can even read and comprehend that the author is a journalist and it neccessarily does'nt mean thats what she is experiencing in her marrige but just a common writeup about what' going on i n some marriages You should not be surprised. Most Nigerians are educated illiterates. They go through school but education does not go through them. 2 Likes |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by Nobody: 4:03pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
"I'm happy in my marriage" We have many of dem liars plenty for this section sha. Na the reason why dem dey fight each other past people in the romance section. |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by Nobody: 4:12pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Dasparrow, honestly the rate at which cheating is an acceptable norm is alarming. How people do not mind sacrificing their lives through diseases just to get an keep a husband is just amazing. I was communicating with a friend who is turning 30 and single, she broke up a relationship with someone who is addicted to nud3 pictures from girls on facebook and BB contacts, just 2 of us supported and encouraged her, the rest of the married crew told her to hurry and manage him like that, that the other ladies will grab him iif she slacks. Thankfully she has enough sense to say no to a life of misery and manage manage. There is nothing more horrible than a bad marriage, turn the other eye however you like the rot will affect every aspect of your life. No one who has any sense will allw herself/ himself to be emotionally blackmailed into a married life of misery. 1 Like |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by Nobody: 4:52pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
TYTAN: ? ? ?. The guilty ones are very very very silent.actually its the reverse. They're the ones cursing the writer. |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by baby124: 5:01pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
This has got to be a joke, and the journalist is a comedian. Otherwise she semms angry, unhappy, pessimistic, se*x starved and rejected. Misery definitely needs company. . I dey laugh o. 1 Like |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by isaco(m): 5:11pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
She is 80% right! Many married women die in silence, yet, trying to keep their home, good though! 1 Like |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by repogirl(f): 5:12pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
melojames: Great article by Funke Egbemode Actually I think its rubbish although funny as hell. She should speak for herself, she married an ogre not a man. Pls stop scaring others, even though it can never be perfect, some marriages are good. |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by Nobody: 5:25pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Fairgodwin: You're one fine lady, I must confess. Smiles, thanks...I thank Baba God and d genes of my parents.... |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by madjune(m): 5:30pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
MARRIAGE IS A UNION BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN WHERE A SECOND WOMAN SHOWS UP AT HIS FUNERAL. |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by babestell(f): 9:03pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
dasparrow: This is scary, very scary. How is the nation to move ahead if people cannot even understand when someone is speaking from a professional or 3rd person point of view. Most every issue be personal to the writer 3 Likes |
Re: Public Lies Married Women Tell by damiso(f): 9:24pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Funny and should be taken at face value.Very witty as well.I dont get why people are taking sides on whether its true or not take a chill pill peeps . Generalisations tend to be just that,generalisations which this article utilises to a t.There is no one size fits all prototype for marriage jare.Like life you have the good days and you have the bad ones. I sha hope people are not coming on NL to get marriage prototype on good and bad marriage cos if they are,they are on a very looooong ting. |
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