fellis:

Sorry if I sounded harsh.I just thought the meaning of what I said was obvious enough.

biolabee:
Was wondering at first but no problem
That's cool but don't you think you are generalising
Most men I know in my family (extended and nuclear), workplace are exceptional leaders
I know some good women too
But most bad leaders I've met are male because there are more male leaders in the workplace
What do you think?

fellis:

Of course there are men who are good leaders, I never said it isimpossible for a man to be a good leader. I said most men, ie some of them but not all of them, are bad leaders.

biolabee:
In that case we need to compare apples with apples
What % of male leaders are bad
What % of female leaders are bad
This will guide us to see how the world will be if women rule

fellis:

Go ahead, compare them. I'm curious to find out the answer.

biolabee:

i dont have access to that kind of info moreover i dont believe men are bad leaders

Most bad leaders are male that i agree with
Some females are bad leaders too. lack of opportunity just seems to be the issue

See the former and current First ladies of the country
See Ellen - Sirleaf, she started well but has dabbled into nepotism

Okonjo has lost focus
ADM lets keep quiet

women too have shown when they have the same opportunities as males can be corrupt

sam4xadams:
What are you guys saying? U deviating away from the topic. It's not about comparison? It's about relationship n marriage to older woman. Pls let's stick to the topic instead of arguing who is bad among gender.

cleverdude:


If your idea should be implemented,this thread would as be boring as hell. Bro,exposure and vast tendencies make a thread interesting and enlightening,for the fact that morality is being ensured.

sam4xadams:
Are you now saying that gender inequality should be the base of argument? Pls I support women right n I don't discriminate good women. I suggest u open another thread to such topic

coogar:

i would have loved to marry an older woman but ex-boyfriends, ex-husbands, children, ex-step-children, pending divorces, business pressures, financial obligations, and debts can often be part of the package.

I Hate 9ja: Honestly,i am attracted to ladies older than me,but i cant do this in d nigerian culture,but in europe/usa i can date them and if she possess all i want in a wife....am good to go
@least my late uncle married a wife 5yrs older than he is and it was platonic....*usa* and mind u,not becoz of papers.
Irrespective of my parents decision i wld love to marry an older babe,but the age max. Of 5yrs.....its my life and if it goes wrong,i wld start all over.....
#go for Love,whereva u find it#.....destinies are diff.

keeked:
I don't really understand this part. Ex-boyfriends and children as parts of the package shouldn't be an obstacle or a stumbling block. Don't you love children? Are you saying you cannot marry or date a single mother?

coogar:


i would have loved to marry an older woman but ex-boyfriends, ex-husbands, children, ex-step-children, pending divorces, business pressures, financial obligations, and debts can often be part of the package.

biolabee:
as long as you are happy.. go for it