Okay so my bf and I just broke up because he was dating a lady who knew of my existence.
I was thinking to myself that I could never date a guy who is in a relationship or married.
I was wondering what is feels like to be dating another person's girlfriend/wife/boyfriend/husband.

Which leads me to the following questions:

Have you ever dated someone in a relationship or married?
If yes how did you find yourself in such situation?
Did you feel guilty?
Were you the relationship just for the fun of it?
Did you trust your partner?
Did you have plans to marry the person?
Did your plans materialize?
What was the whole experience as a whole?

It would be nice if ladies/guys who have been in this situation can share their experiences.
Thank you.

PS: Please dont't mind that I used only mistress in the title, I do not know the male equivalent. Maybe I will learn that here on NL.

Oya o mistress and mistresses, come and answer your questions