I have observed that, no matter what lead to breakups in a relationship,the women always claim to be the victim. they blame the man even if they are responsible for the breakup. Why ? Why do women always blame men for failed relationship?

It is sometimes a defence mechanism to prevent from feeling guilty or the pain of a break-up, and failure to understand where things went wrong. We women and men are all guilty of this.

because most men re worst n deceitful, lies n untrustworthy. d only think about demselves n re so self centered. if a lady tells u wat she passes tru in d hand of men, u will b amazed. 2. some men re always d cause of d melt down in a relationship.

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author=jntyjnty007]yes but on most occasion, d men re always guility. e.ga woman can endure everything to b wit a man n once he hammers , he starts looking for a fresh egg. men re decievers . full stop n there need to b blamed

whether in a marriage or a relationship there is always 2 parties or 2 sides to everything and both these are always the same its always the guilty party/bad person and the wife/woman. woman will the correct ones in any situation, even in situations which are clear that its their faults. Guy go anywhere u want, you wil never find a woman who would admit that she was wrong

Are you saying women are always right in relation? Or that they should never accept their wrong doing?

have u met every woman in the world - how do u kno they all blame the man? Also, based on posts on nairaland and my experience so far in general, nigerian men tend to blame women for things going wrong in relationships and never look at themselves. Most of the posts on relationships on nairaland involve men asking why women are this or that. They never look at themselves - always looking to blame women for one thing or other just like you are doing now. We women must be cause of all the worlds problems ehhh. lol

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