Of course, as Meg Ryan proved in another movie, “When Harry Met Sally,” women can use their voices to fake an orgasm, too. In Brewer’s survey, more than 25 percent of women routinely used vocalization to fake it. They did it about 90 percent of the time they realized they would not climax. About 80 percent faked using vocalizations about half the time they were unable to have an orgasm.

Women do this because their men are so goal-directed they won’t stop until a woman climaxes, the authors say.

emiye: Make i talk my own too, Talking about size, it could be length or width(diameter).

A womans vj is about 4.5inches on the avg, the g spot is some 2 inches. so all the 7 inches or more noise is mere psychology, but psychology also matters in sex.

The width(diameter), i think matters considerably than the length, a woman with a narrow opening will feel pain until the expansion happens

A wide opening will also mean the man will barely enjoy, the more reason doctors reccomend kegel exercise for ladies after vj child birth.

Sorry Op, for the diversion.

coogar:

i bagged a master's degree in this field at 19.

biolabee: Stats show 80 percent of women fake orgasm...

Also most women are stimulated clitorally rather than vjay-wise





http://www.nbcnews.com/id/38006774/ns/health-sexual_health/t/sorry-guys-percent-women-admit-faking-it/

Toks2008:

Ok, go ahead since your mind is made up but what follows?

1. Start fornicating with any girl that catches your fancy.
2. Probably get married to another lady that may be worse than your wife.


Let me even tell you this fact many guys don't know. Giving up your wife to another man is a sign of weakness. Adultery or no adultery.

So let me be frank with you and i believe this will solve the situation. Let her stay and don't give her up but you can still go ahead and marry another lady that will give you a clean start.Let her be the one to walk away if you are resolute that you cant stay with her any longer but save yourself the stress of divorce.

Some may see this advice as stupid but its better than divorce.

Just like i have told my wife that i will not divorce her and if she stays away too long and i venture into another affair then i will be marrying two wives because i will never let go of the new lady even if she ever comes back. So let your wife pay that price for cheating on you rather than go through the stress of divorce.

I wish you well.

A survey of more than 1,000 men in India has concluded that condoms made according to international sizes are too large for a majority of Indian men. The study found that more than half of the men measured had joysticks that were shorter than international standards for condoms. It has led to a call for condoms of mixed sizes to be made more widely available in India. The two-year study was carried out by the Indian Council of Medical Research.

Over 1,200 volunteers from the length and breadth of the country had their joysticks measured precisely, down to the last millimetre. The scientists even checked their sample was representative of India as a whole in terms of class, religion and urban and rural dwellers. The conclusion of all this scientific endeavour is that about 60% of Indian men have joysticks which are between three and five centimetres shorter than international standards used in condom manufacture.

Doctor Chander Puri, a specialist in reproductive health at the Indian Council of Medical Research, told the BBC there was an obvious need in India for custom-made condoms, as most of those currently on sale are too large. The issue is serious because about one in every five times a condom is used in India it either falls off or tears, an extremely high failure rate. And the country already has the highest number of HIV infections of any nation.

"Not a problem", Mr Puri said that since Indians would be embarrassed about going to a chemist to ask for smaller condoms there should be vending machines dispensing different sizes all around the country. "Smaller condoms are on sale in India. But there is a lack of awareness that different sizes are available. There is anxiety talking about the issue. And normally one feels shy to go to a chemist's shop and ask for a smaller size condom."

But Indian men need not be concerned about measuring up internationally according to Sunil Mehra, the former editor of the Indian version of the men's magazine Maxim. "It's not size, it's what you do with it that matters," he said. "From our population, the evidence is Indians are doing pretty well. "With apologies to the poet Alexander Pope, you could say, for inches and centimetres, let fools contend." -BBC

Source: http://www.standardmedia.co.ke/?articleID=2000066632&pageNo=1

emiye: Make i talk my own too, Talking about size, it could be length or width(diameter).

A womans vj is about 4.5inches on the avg, the g spot is some 2 inches. so all the 7 inches or more noise is mere psychology, but psychology also matters in sex.

The width(diameter), i think matters considerably than the length, a woman with a narrow opening will feel pain until the expansion happens

A wide opening will also mean the man will barely enjoy, the more reason doctors reccomend kegel exercise for ladies after vj child birth.

Sorry Op, for the diversion.

emiye: Make i talk my own too, Talking about size, it could be length or width(diameter).

A womans vj is about 4.5inches on the avg, the g spot is some 2 inches. so all the 7 inches or more noise is mere psychology, but psychology also matters in sex.

The width(diameter), i think matters considerably than the length, a woman with a narrow opening will feel pain until the expansion happens

A wide opening will also mean the man will barely enjoy, the more reason doctors reccomend kegel exercise for ladies after vj child birth.

Sorry Op, for the diversion.

coogar:

even the width hardly matters - it's about knowing which positions to take. the only reason any woman would think size matters is because she only practises missionary position.

secondly, the first one-third of her vagïna (the third closest to the opening) is the area that houses all of the nerve endings and is, therefore, the only area that actually registers sensation. so ramming it down the whole length is just a waste of time and effort....

BABE!:


Right .... 90% of the intercourse/fun itself is all about friction. The Women that cry "size matters" have slacked VJs and their partners PNs aren't big enough (even if they're average size) to cause the necessary friction.

So size does matter (not all women are super young), however, too much of everything .....

A woman with a perfect sizeVJ wouldn't complain about her partner's size; her main thirst will be for good performance ...

coogar:

even the width hardly matters - it's about knowing which positions to take. the only reason any woman would think size matters is because she only practises missionary position.

secondly, the first one-third of her vagïna (the third closest to the opening) is the area that houses all of the nerve endings and is, therefore, the only area that actually registers sensation. so ramming it down the whole length is just a waste of time and effort....

biolabee:


thats why ladies will die for some good ol' fashioned cunilingus

biolabee:





thats why ladies will die for some good ol' fashioned cunilingus

yellowpawpaw: Listen guys,let me give u an example.I had a galfriend that one guy wantd to marry.infact I brought them together.one day d guy cald and was frantic on d phone.I calmed him and wen I saw my friend,she simply told me she has lost interest.I insisted she tell me what turned her off she now said his thing is like 'esu'. That small millipede dat u will never differentiate d head from d tail. That it was as if he was swimin in an ocean wen they were 2geda.
So u might know how to rock but with an incompatible size,d lady has been lying!
Medical student,u might tell us d book that said woman body is mostly dead inside cos I want to learn.no offense pls.
@op is learning,u might never tell d underlying course of his problem

Penis Size Does Matter: The Bigger, The Better For (Vaginal) Orgasms, Study Finds

Huffington Post UK | By Sara C Nelson Posted: 09/10/2012 15:02 Updated: 10/10/2012 09:06


A medical study has confirmed every unendowed man’s worst nightmare: women really do think bigger is better when it comes down to what’s in your pants.

Well, that's if we're talking about vaginal orgasms achieved through penetrative sex, and not clitoral orgasms, which "the experts" like to argue are two totally different things, natch.

The findings, published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, saw 323 women at a Scottish university asked to recall their sexual activity within the last month.

They were asked about penile-vaginal intercourse, vaginal orgasm and clitoral orgasm and whether penis length influenced their ability to orgasm.

Of these, 160 women had experienced vaginal-only orgasms and had had enough sexual partners to compare size experiences.

33.8 per cent of that figure claimed to prefer bigger-than-average joysticks, 60 per cent said size did not matter to them, and 6.3 per cent said they preferred shorter appendages.

Overall the women who reported the highest number of vaginal orgasms during the previous 30 days tended to say they preferred longer joysticks, the findings revealed.

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Size matters: Or at least she seems to think so (posed by model)

Researchers found penis size was however not related to the frequency of clitoral orgasm.

"Male anxiety about penis size may not reflect internalised, culturally arbitrary masculine stereotypes, but an accurate appreciation that size matters to many women — just as men feel legitimate anxiety when they enter the mating market about their intelligence, personality traits, sense of humor, social status, height, wealth, and other traits known to be favored by women across cultures," study researcher Stuart Brody, a psychologist at the University of the West of Scotland, told LiveScience.



Of the prevalence of vaginal orgasms among women who preferred longer joysticks, he added: "This might be due at least in part to greater ability of a longer penis to stimulate the entire length of the vagina and the cervix."

But other researchers appear to have poured scorn on the findings.

"There's such variability in preference," said Barry Komisaruk, who researches female sexual response at Rutgers University.

Women who orgasm through vaginal stimulation may indeed prefer longer joysticks, Komisaruk told LiveScience, but not everyone prefers to orgasm that way.

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"There are so many different factors," said Komisaruk, who was not involved in Brody's study. "Once it gets to the kind of specifics that they're talking about, I get wary."

Catchily entitled Women Who Prefer Longer joysticks Are More Likely To Have Vaginal Orgasms (But Not Clitoral Orgasms): Implications For An Evolutionary Theory Of Vaginal Orgasms, it concludes: “Women who prefer deeper penile-vaginal stimulation are more likely to have vaginal orgasm, consistent with vaginal orgasm evolving as part of a female mate choice system favouring somewhat larger than average joysticks.”

The study comes on the back of research which suggests British men typically have bigger joysticks than their French counterparts but are less well endowed than Germans.

The average penis size for a British man is apparently 5.5in when erect - larger than the French at 5.3in, Australians (5.2in), Americans (5.1in) and Irish (5in).

Men from Africa's Republic of Congo are best equipped with an average penis length of 7.1in , while the average manhood in North and South Korea measures in at a mere 3.8in, the research claims.

http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2012/10/09/penis-size-does-matter-the-bigger-the-better-for-orgasms-study-finds_n_1950907.html

Penis Size Does Matter: Women Find Men With Larger Genitals More Attractive

Huffington Post UK | By Sara C Nelson Posted: 09/04/2013 10:36 BST | Updated: 10/04/2013 09:36 BST

Science has spoken guys: penis size matters – at least to women who are deciding if they want to have sex with you.

Using data from a large study of Italian men, researchers created 343 computer-generated male figures varying in (flaccid) penis size, as well as in height and shoulder-to-hip ratio.

Qualities such as facial attractiveness and hair were deliberately omitted from the graphics and a group of 105 young Australian women were asked to rate each image on sexual attractiveness.

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Not-so-surprising: Penis size matters (to women)

While narrow hips and broad shoulders were rated as attractive, larger penis sizes were strongly linked to high attractiveness scores.

Published in the Proceedings of National Academy of Science (PNAS) journal, the study was led by University of Ottowa researcher Brian Mautz.

Dr Mautz concluded: “We found that flaccid penis size had a significant influence on male attractiveness.

“Males with a larger penis were rated relatively more attractive.”


The study was inspired by Dr Mautz’s observation that the human penis is significantly longer than it needs to be to perform its primary biological role, i.e. to reproduce.

As The Independent puts it, the evolution in the size of joysticks “is in fact the result of many generations of prehistoric women choosing well-endowed men.”
http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2013/04/09/penis-size-does-matter-women-men-larger-genitals-attractive_n_3042825.html

baby_123:
33.8 per cent of that figure claimed to prefer bigger-than-average manlinesses, 60 per cent said size did not matter to them, and 6.3 per cent said they preferred shorter appendages.

Overall the women who reported the highest number of womanly heavenly feelings during the previous 30 days tended to say they preferred longer manlinesses, the findings revealed.

Researchers found joystick size was however not related to the frequency of clitoral heavenly feeling.

yoddy01:
Eya, I can see someone suffers from low self esteem. Bashing strangers wont do you any good. You should see a mental expert.

baby_123:

cold: The marriage has been damaged irreparably. There's absolutely no way the op can carry on in his present state of mind. He can forgive but will never forget. All the talk about seeking the face of Jesus,going into prayers bla,bla,bla is just a colossal waste of time. The marriage is over,divorce is the only sensible option available. Besides,once the sex drive is dead the union is as good as useless.

yoddy01:
You have to understand the post lady. Look at the terms used "think", "claimed". 33.8 per cent of that figure claimed to prefer bigger-than-average manlinesses, 60 per cent said size did not matter to them, and 6.3 per cent said they preferred shorter appendages.

Overall the women who reported the highest number of womanly heavenly feelings during the previous 30 days tended to say they preferred longer manlinesses, the findings revealed.

salt 1:
Says who? I have seen a marriage where the wife's infidelity produced a son. The husband was hurt but he forgave and brought up that son along with his other children. The son never knew till the man died. And in the man's old age, it was that son that took care of him.
Op has no healthy option except to forgive and re-build trust. Forgiving is for his own emotional and physical health.
Who said a second wife will be faithful? Women are good at keeping secrets.

baby_123:

yoddy01:

You are not understanding. This is not proof. The women said they preferred bigger, does not mean that bigger is better. Pls refer to biola's post. I will not argue with you anymore, but I am happy to see that you have taken my advice and started doing your research

Danfo:
Take good care of yourself little Sis.

yoddy01:

You are not understanding. This is not proof. The women said they preferred bigger, does not mean that bigger is better. Pls refer to biola's post. I will not argue with you anymore, but I am happy to see that you have taken my advice and started doing your research

yoddy01:
You are not understanding. This is not proof. The women said they preferred bigger, does not mean that bigger is better. Pls refer to biola's post. I will not argue with you anymore, but I am happy to see that you have taken my advice and started doing your research

biolabee:

bro,, i thought you will have tired by now...

coogar:

longer/bigger only feeds the eyes but when it comes to the act itself, the length and width hardly matters. it's like claiming i cannot get sëxual pleasure from a woman with smaller breasts or below average-sized bütt. says who?

salt 1:
Says who? I have seen a marriage where the wife's infidelity produced a son. The husband was hurt but he forgave and brought up that son along with his other children. The son never knew till the man died. And in the man's old age, it was that son that took care of him.
Op has no healthy option except to forgive and re-build trust. Forgiving is for his own emotional and physical health.
Who said a second wife will be faithful? Women are good at keeping secrets.